some of you may remember i posted a thread about a party:


http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2024891

Well i spoke to the host about it all and sorted things out and now we are closer than ever and i asked her out to come see a movie with me and get a bite to eat and it's a date.

So for all you nice guys out there who think girls always go for the asshole keep in there and things will work themselves out.

I'm happy for you. Sort of. I just read your other thread and it sounds a lot like shes playing you dude. I mean, go for it and everything... Just don't assume you're the only guy shes talking to, and don't assume you'll end up together. This girl sounds like a bit of a heartbreaker, so be careful and guard yourself a little.

And don't try to be too nice at parties. Everyone hates that guy.

The guy before me said it better than I could.

Dude, I know that girl. Don't try to date her. Don't even try to be serious with her, she probably doesn't even want that. Hook up with her at the next party you see her at and never call her again. You will be much better off in the end. Girls like that will probably just fuck your mind over in the end.

If you're going out for a movie, make sure to get a blowjob from her. That'll show her you mean business, and you'll get a blowjob, which is quite nice.

Being the nice guy has been a double edged sword for me. It makes some girls not even look at me, and then there are the few girls who I end up randomly talking to and they start liking me since I'm nice. It definitely screws you over though since girls want to be "just friends". Having female friends can be cool though.

Be cautious tho, depending what type of girl she is, may end up trying to use you up in the end, if you havent already did work with her(gone on a date and got some action), just watch it cause ive seen guys get burned being nice alot, and yes they got the lil, oh i got their number, took them on a date such and such.....then when it comes down to it, they are on the bottom of that girls ladder...

just a precaution yo

fuck the nice guy, im the nice guy and heaps of female FRIENDS not many more though. It doesnt work..

Yeah, I'm that guy too (20 yrs old)

Back when I wasn't so nice to girls, I got way more play

I really hated compromising myself though.

All girls just wanna be friends now with the guys that are fair, honest, etc...

They just don't like to have sex with good guys. This disturbs me because it's turning so many that are genuinely "nice people" into fucking pricks, just because they're sick and tried of being sexually frustrated.

Thats why u gotta change up shit on them so they dont know wtf to think....

So for all you nice guys out there who think girls always go for the asshole keep in there and things will work themselves out.

No.

They don't.

So for all you nice guys out there who think girls always go for the asshole keep in there and things will work themselves out.

You don't have to be an asshole unless thats your attitude. Like a bitch to everyone all the time. You can be the guy that makes fun of a girl in a joking way that almost insaults them where they make that contact hit where that sign goes up if they touch you they want to get more than that so keep doing it. I'm the type when I say shit thats funny I mean it, and when I say funny shit at girls I just do it to get them the way I talked about. Idk this whole thing sounds gay, but I guess it's my actual real life personality that I can only understand.<-That's gay to but w/e.

It can be made to work. The solid nice guy. Nice, but uncompromising. You don't have to be a prick to get girls, you've just got to stand up for yourself.

^^^ i can relate to that, if u can talk to a girl enough to learn a few things about her, then easily u can gain a few things to rag on her about(jokingly)....then if you go on that , theyll either get super pissed about it and get mad(so u back off) or theyll stand their ground, and come back with a nice little defense attack on yah then you can continue to throw back and forth and idk its fun/entertaining to do when done on a certain level and it can open up things nicely for you if your just getting to know a girl...

usually if the girl doesnt respond positively to said action^^^ and uve acted right, then shes garbage get outta there....cause usually they have jokes up their sleeve as good as urs...you'll be surprised depending on the girl

EDIT: Just got called nice by a girl :-| ......even tho its a blanket word(a cover up word) still gotta change the way she thinks...but then i fucked her over by just calling her sweet.....which could mean anything and everything just like nice, cute, sweet...all the same shit, doesnt mean anything until it comes down to a 1v1 with the choice person..then ull know what the truth is