Thanks guys I think I have enough ideas, i dont want her stumbling around seeing this either

dont do it so often -_- simple as that.

If you do it often eventually your body gets used to the pleasure and it is no longer felt as pleasure. If you cut back on doing it a little bit then it will be much more enjoyable to her and you wont have to worry about her not getting pleasure from simple fingering or eating out

Hmm I guess that will work, I only do stuff to her a couple times a week, its not like everyday or anything...

Dude no-ones that good.

Dude no-ones that good.

Maby she's just overtly sensitive.
I know my gf is. When I ever I eat her out she usually has over 8 huge orgasms in like under 20 min. But I usually just suck and flick her clit with my tongue.

She sounds like a dumb bitch. So what exactly is the difference between you putting your tongue and fingers in her and you putting your cock in her?

She just isn't attracted enough to you to want the latter.

Na, I bet she's just one of those dumbass girls that try to get away with keeping their virginity by technicality. I've known girls who will only have anal sex so they can save themselves until marriage, of course I never KNEW them because I usually don't associate with idiots.

Na, I bet she's just one of those dumbass girls that try to get away with keeping their virginity by technicality. I've known girls who will only have anal sex so they can save themselves until marriage, of course I never KNEW them because I usually don't associate with idiots.

Well for one shes not some dumb bimbo, and I would appreciate some respect towards her. My problem is not that she wont sleep with me, if I really wanted her to I wouldn't have a problem with that. She would rather not lose it yet, because she has grown up in a religious family, and attends church regularly. I respect that and couldn't care less if she wants to lose it yet or not. Next time I would love if you actually had read my problem and had some advice. Nascarphreak008 thanks for your input. If anyone else has any other ideas I would love to hear em.

Na, I bet she's just one of those dumbass girls that try to get away with keeping their virginity by technicality. I've known girls who will only have anal sex so they can save themselves until marriage, of course I never KNEW them because I usually don't associate with idiots.

WOW! That was just awesome. Awesome I tell you.

Na, I bet she's just one of those dumbass girls that try to get away with keeping their virginity by technicality. I've known girls who will only have anal sex so they can save themselves until marriage, of course I never KNEW them because I usually don't associate with idiots.

If the hymen breaks, they get removed from the trust fund.

Hello everyone, Ive been reading totse forums for a long time, but never actually became a member till a couple days ago.

Anyway, maybe you guys can help shed some light on this problem (if it is one) that I'm having. Over this last year I became best friends with this girl that went to my high school. Over this last month we have started to hook up... She is a virgin, I am not, the most she had done was give a hand job, and got fingered. I got really good at fingering her, and she was really happy with it all, and then I started to eat her out, and she loves it.

Now here in lies my problem... The other night when we were fooling around, she tells me that the fingering doesn't really do it for her any more, and she cant even really get off masturbating on her own now because the eating out is so good. I am worried I am going to ruin her sexual experiences because of this :( I don't think she is going to enjoy sex because it will not be as good as her getting eaten out. So I don't know what to do she wants to wait for marriage to lose it, and I am completely cool with that, but if we keep this up is she going to have a problem later on in life? Or am I just worried too much. We kinda had a talk about it but I donno.

So any help with your guy's experience or knowledge is greatly appreciated! Thanks guys,
Tufyhead

My guess is that she never really liked it when you used your hand on her, but she pretended she did to spare your feelings. Then when you started having oral sex she actually liked it, so now she doesn't want you to waste your time doing anything else. She probably still enjoys masturbation, but she just said she doesn't...Again to spare your feelings and make it seem like HER problem and not YOURS.

This whole scenerio is unfortunately all too common amoung young women.

My guess is that she never really liked it when you used your hand on her, but she pretended she did to spare your feelings. Then when you started having oral sex she actually liked it, so now she doesn't want you to waste your time doing anything else. She probably still enjoys masturbation, but she just said she doesn't...Again to spare your feelings and make it seem like HER problem and not YOURS.

This whole scenerio is unfortunately all too common amoung young women.

Hey Xiao thanks for your input.

I don't know if this is the case however, when we first started I could tell she was really into it and all. I always asked her what worked/hurt and what was really good and changed what I did to fit her better. She would tell me if it wasn't doing it for her. But you do have an interesting point and I will for sure keep it in mind. Anyone else?

There is no way you nor she can make a valid guess that you eating her out would be better then sex.

Wanna know why? Because she is yet to have sex. She has only experienced one side of it.

Also, since she is religious, if/when she eventually has sex, in her mind it will signify so much more then just pleasure. It will mean "love", and even IF eating her out did give more pleasure, she wouldn't notice because the mind set she's in deems sex on a higher level then any other act.

That said, no one is that good. It's just a new experience to her, and that was her way of telling you to do it more. Stop over thinking the situation and just be thankful that she enjoys your presence.

I'm going to go with the idea that she's getting it too much. Think of it like playing a new PS2 game or something. If you play it too much over a short time span, it gets old quicker (bad analogy, I know). Her whole enjoyment of oral sex probably comes from lack of experience, hence, it's going to please her more than what she's already experienced. That's pretty much just being human.

I dunno exactly what to suggest here. Since full sex is out the window, maybe if you both tried abstaining from doing anything for a while. Tension builds, so does desire, and obviously, so does the inevitable pleasure at the end. The more you pull back the slingshot, the better your end result will be! (more bad analogies. someone shoot me.)

Hahaha, relating sexual activity to a PS2 game. I just wish sex was more like those old arcade games. Frogger would be sweet.

Haha, ok manticore thats the second time you've made me laugh with one of your posts... I think I will try to just let off a little bit and give her some rest time. We will see how well she handles that thanks guys I appreciate the responses.

Well for one shes not some dumb bimbo, and I would appreciate some respect towards her. My problem is not that she wont sleep with me, if I really wanted her to I wouldn't have a problem with that. She would rather not lose it yet, because she has grown up in a religious family, and attends church regularly. I respect that and couldn't care less if she wants to lose it yet or not. Next time I would love if you actually had read my problem and had some advice. Nascarphreak008 thanks for your input. If anyone else has any other ideas I would love to hear em.

you sound like a fucking faggot and so does your stupid fucking slut ass bitch girlfriend...yeah having some dickhole like yourself slobber up and down her pussy makes her REALLY seem like a model for religous virture just stfu and ram your fuck stick in her or i will

Love,

mr.kitty :)

p.s. stop being a fag.

Ah Mr Kitty I think you're just a little jealous that I'm getting some from these hot bikini babes out here in California:), and you don't have anything out there in Virginia close to them. its ok though. I know its gotta be hard.

Love,
tufyhead ;)

. I just wish sex was more like those old arcade games. Frogger would be sweet.

*Hop Hop*
*Gets crushed by car*
*starts over*

Explain to her that oral sex is still an abomination much like anal sex in many versions of the christian canon. Then explain that her parents can't be that angry at her for sex if they really love her in a christian sense. Use her christianity to your advantage!










Or threaten to leave her.

*Hop Hop*
*Gets crushed by car*
*starts over*



Just be thankful you aren't in the French version ;)

hahaha thats actually really funny you mention that b/c my girlfriend moved from california to charlottesville last january...sooo.....i win

lawlz i pwn u

So she wasn't hot enough to stay here so we booted her out to VA?? I'm not seeing the pwnage, just you picking up unwanted scraps :D

Hello everyone, Ive been reading totse forums for a long time, but never actually became a member till a couple days ago.

Anyway, maybe you guys can help shed some light on this problem (if it is one) that I'm having. Over this last year I became best friends with this girl that went to my high school. Over this last month we have started to hook up... She is a virgin, I am not, the most she had done was give a hand job, and got fingered. I got really good at fingering her, and she was really happy with it all, and then I started to eat her out, and she loves it.

Now here in lies my problem... The other night when we were fooling around, she tells me that the fingering doesn't really do it for her any more, and she cant even really get off masturbating on her own now because the eating out is so good. I am worried I am going to ruin her sexual experiences because of this :( I don't think she is going to enjoy sex because it will not be as good as her getting eaten out. So I don't know what to do she wants to wait for marriage to lose it, and I am completely cool with that, but if we keep this up is she going to have a problem later on in life? Or am I just worried too much. We kinda had a talk about it but I donno.

So any help with your guy's experience or knowledge is greatly appreciated! Thanks guys,
Tufyhead

Sounds like you've got her in the perfect position for black mailing. Tell her no sex means no eating out. She'll probably crack in less than a week. Or you could be a nice, respectable person, and support her beliefs. The choice is yours:D

Thanks sidewayz but thats not really the problem...