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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-07-05, 15:36
pepper23 pepper23 is offline
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Default Dealing with her ex...

Would it bother you if your girlfriend was spending a lot of time with her ex-fuck buddies/boyfriends?

Am I unreasonable to be uncomfortable with it? I don't actually do anything about it, like tell her not to or anything. I just don't know if it's OK to feel this way.

I would never be like, "No, you can't talk to this person anymore."
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Old 2007-07-05, 15:54
Zaknafein Zaknafein is offline
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Of course it would bother me. It's perfectly acceptable for you to feel that way. Try talk to her though... If it really makes you feel uncomfortable, tell her. She might understand.

Zaknafein.
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Old 2007-07-05, 16:45
pepper23 pepper23 is offline
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Default Re: Dealing with her ex...

Wouldn't it bee too controlling and possessive of me to tell/ask her not to hang around her ex boyfriends/friends with benefits?

Would you, the public of Totse be comfortable with my situation?
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Old 2007-07-05, 17:11
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: Dealing with her ex...

You should tell your girlfriend how you feel. Perhaps she'll change her behavior, perhaps not. But if you force her to do something, she'll resent you.
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Old 2007-07-05, 17:20
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Threaten the ex-boyfriends/fuck buddies with a scary letter or email, be sure to attach a photo of a dead naked hobo.
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Old 2007-07-05, 20:12
snarpy snarpy is offline
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Default Re: Dealing with her ex...

Walk up to them and start swinging!
Haha, j/k...

That is always an akward situation...I had the same thing with a close friend of mine. These guys kept walking into her suite and talking and stuff, being all creeper like. Then she would tell me which of them she fucked and what she did with them. I cared alot for her and never had a sexual relationship with her, but it was still fuckin wierd.
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Old 2007-07-06, 02:06
tyrael tyrael is offline
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ah platonic friends
word of warning to guys
if your girlfriend has a platonic friend that's who she will be fucking after you screw up
just remember that next time she has one round for dinner
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Old 2007-07-06, 03:52
Minority Deport Minority Deport is offline
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Default Re: Dealing with her ex...

That pretty much means fuck her long and hard so even if you screw up you can still be on the train!
 
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