One recurring theme on this board is the mass condemnation of cheating. I think you all need to get over it. It's not that big an offence.

Myth 1 - Guys are bigger cheaters than girls. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Girls are just more discreet about it. The number of married women I have fucked blows my mind, normal wives in 3 bed 2 bath homes with young kids and husbands who work in IT. Guys at least are predictable in that they are out to score as much ass as possible. Women get all secretive and bitchy but are so much worse because of it.

Myth 2 - Monogamous relationships satisfy both partners. This isn't about looks, it's about men and women both being genetically programmed to score. I'm not saying everyone cheats, but i think the huge majority of people who don't are sexually frustrated to some level, and they keep chopping and changing relationships trying to find the 'one guy/girl' who will make them happy. It aint never gonna happen. I met a guy once who had been married for 37 years and asked him his secret to success. His answer? - Get an account with the local knock shop. (That's slang for prostitute/Brothel).

Myth 3 - Two people can live together in harmony. This is absolute bullshit. People are always happiest when they have a good group of friends, a good girlfriend, and their own fucking space to come home to. You can spend time together, even live together, but you HAVE to get away from eachother if you don't want to end up bludgeoned to death in your sleep.

Alot of you probably think this is real asshole behaviour. By the conventional standards of ethical behaviour, it is i guess. But it is the behaviour that i am genetically programmed for, and it makes me the most happy. My best relationship was where we rarely saw eachother and did our own thing, but we still got really close. Most women don't understand this and smother the guy, this is the most common cause of a failed relationship.

I don't know what women "need" genetically but deep down they want to be dominated, as far as I'm concerned men were put on this earth to make women their bitches. ENjoy living the good life fellas.

You have a cynical outlook on life. Your caramel center must be sad. :(

There have been times in my life when I would have agreed with you, but trust me- When you meet the right person all of the chips just fall into place.

When you're younger, your relationships are more based on sex because genetically when you're younger you're trying to spread your seed as much as possible, with as many people as possible. When you get older, it becomes about quality, not quantity.