Honestly, though, I don't care this time. It's like I'm used to it happening by now.
There's this girl I'd been interested in for the longest time. Finally, after many months of friendship and what-if thoughts, I manned up and made a move, and everything was great for a little while. She confessed that she was into me as well. But before anything else happened, of course, she had to start being weird, ditching me, sending mixed signals, etc. because it happens with all of them, every time, without fail. I talked to some mutual friends and they had no idea what she was doing. So I said, alright, whatever, I'm not playing fucking games. I don't deal with that. So then she went away for three weeks and came back and acted like nothing had happened. Alright, I said. She invited me to her party tonight, so I went. Now I wasn't really expecting anything to happen between us because she definitely fucked it up before she left, and I wasn't about to make a move again. I figured if she wanted it, fine, if not, that's fine too.

She ended up drinking herself stupid and spending the night with another guy friend of hers. I'm not really pissed at him. I mean, we weren't dating or anything, she's hot shit, so whatever. But I feel like I should be mad at her for acting like a bitch. Honestly, though, I just don't care. I'm used to people making stupid decisions and acting like immature fuckfaces, especially girls. I hope she's happy and that she got what she wanted, and that's that. I think it's funny that she's already done this once to me, and felt really bad about it, and apologized, and then did it again.

People just don't get it. I've lost a lot of respect for her.

I'm just curious what other male totseans would do in this situation.

Talk to her, see if she has any justification for her actions, if not forget it and find a prettier one :)

I don't want to see her again. I don't want to hear whatever bullshit explanation she has, she fucked up and I don't even want to be friends with her any more.
Yeah, I guess the anger's settled in now. I'll get over it in a few days at most.

life's a bitch and so are women
and there's nothing you can do about it
so just forget about it

*girls opinion*

she wants you to chase her. really. the mixed signals, the ditching you, she wants to feel wanted. and as for drinking herself stupid and stayin with another guy, shes just plain dumb. so anyways....forget her. dumb whore right there. :)

i would be more than a little annoyed.

actually, i think on more than one occasion corrin invited me to places and ended up getting high/drunk/retarded and fucking a random guy.

get out of high school.
wander around Chicago and meet better people.
you're good at that.

Yeah, I considered that. But if she really cared about me that much, I don't think she would've made plans with me before she left for three weeks then told me she couldn't at the last minute because she had to have "girls night" instead. That's just irresponsible and immature.
And now this?

I don't need friends who do shit like that to me. She's the reason I do everything in my power not to become emotionally involved with women.

Well If you love her, try one more time to be with her. On the other hand, If you dont love her, just forget about her and move on.

From the sounds of it, I reckon you should let it go. She fucked up big time, and you shouldn't have to pay for it. Girls playing hard to get, that I sorta understand. Girls playing hiding on the other side of the electric fence, that's just stupid. You, nay, any man deserves better. From the sounds of it, you don't feel love for her. So trying to save this relationship, it's a backwards run, dude.

Since you obviously don't want to be friends with her, I ain't gonna push that issue. If you feel it's a good idea, confront her. But stand your ground on the matter.

No sense trying to save a burning warehouse full of dynamite. Just turn the opposite direction, and don't turn back.

Rape her.

I'd be cut at her for getting stupidly drunk and acting like a massive bitch over the last [period of time]. Were it me, I'd probably just guilt the hell out of her, get her to want me again if I could, and then ditch her before she could do it to me.

i generally voice my opinion on matters like that. "there's something between us, yet you cuddle with another guy? what the fuck is up with that shit?"

it's not a great idea to tell a chick you've lost respect for her. i've done it. i was speaking honestly. but, it got a little ugly.

Hmm, I want to hear this story.