ok so my gf is comin over and we are gonna fuck. i just got some questions that might make her first time a little better i hope.

1. should i burn incense? any suggestions as to which type?

2. what can i use as a massage oil?

3. is music a good idea, if so any suggestions?

4. its gonna be in the day so i don't think candles or anything like that would be worth it. (i dont know what the point of that statement was)

5. any other ideas???

suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
cheers totse

All fine ideas.

Bang her brains out!

1. should i burn incense? any suggestions as to which type?
Incense can be a little overwhelming. I'd save it for next time.

2. what can i use as a massage oil?
Um. You can use massage oil as a massage oil.

3. is music a good idea, if so any suggestions?
Yeah, but for godsakes, keep up with the beat.

4. its gonna be in the day so i don't think candles or anything like that would be worth it. (i dont know what the point of that statement was)
Idiot. Close the blinds, and then light candles.

5. any other ideas???
Use a goddamn condom.

Don't miss.

I dunno, closed curtains with some incense and candles going sounds pretty cool.
Music? Have you got any that's not all grabby and attention demanding? And keep it quiet. But not so quiet it wont smother the squelchy sounds of sexing that occaisionally happen.

NO incense
NO oil
sex music = most techno (find something w/ bass) i play ladytron when i have sex sometimes...

litteraly

I always found slow music to be good for my girlfriend and I... We both liked the music too so that was a plus. We also turned out down where we couldnt really here the words.

any other ideas? Have a good time lol.

Music - The Faint, DJ Tiesto, (maybe) Bright Eyes... If you use some of the songs about love... and not the depressing ones.

Use an extra lubed condom, and bring extras. They can slip off, break, etc.

Go slow, don't be afraid to ask her how she feels... and if you're skilled, do other things to keep her mind off the pain if there is any. That means kiss, let your hands wander... A little (key word: little) wine wouldn't hurt.

If it's during the day, dim the room as much as possible. Both of you will be more calm in the dark.

Besides that, have a trash can near by for disposal of the condom and possibly a towel... It could get messy. If you can hide a rubber sheet under your normal one, it wouldn't hurt.

PS: If she cries, just shove your dick in her mouth.

PS: If she cries, just shove your dick in her mouth.

5char

play some justin timberlake :p

And keep it quiet. But not so quiet it wont smother the squelchy sounds of sexing that occaisionally happen.

Am I the only one who read this, and thought it was an oxy-moron?

ky jelly has some heat activated oils. massage and pooper.
candles are a much better sub for incense. multipurpose scent light wax.