You all know the phrase... but what do you think? My two last girlfriends have been (respectively) a fucktoy and a promiscuous girl (or slut if that's your inclination). But the thing is... they're both wonderful. So what are your opinions on the matter of relationships with notoriously slutty/promiscuous/experimental girls?

Well, answer the man!

dude

hos don't act right

Eh, i suppose i shouldn't have expected a more inspired debate...

Well I guess if they are genuine in the way they feel for YOU, then sure they could be long term stable persons to be with. However, the way you described them tells me that you don't respect them, which means the relationship will not last.

yeah, they are probably pretty slutty since they have shit for personality. But, they may just be nymphos.

You can't make her into anything; it's a waste of your time to even attempt it. She has to want to settle down and leave the wilder parts of the party lifestyle behind.

Erm perhaps I'm coming off wrong... I mean, I don't consider them less worthy because they like sex, but a lot of people are threatened by committing to someone who they think might go off and fuck someone else. But I'm not trying to make anyone anything... It's merely an expression. I dunno... nevermind, i'm just coming off as misogynystic.

They'll grow up eventually or they wont. I wouldn't wait around for them to change though.

You cant change someone if they're not ready to change.
If she's still having fun being promiscuous and partying, to try and turn her into a housebitch would probably make her into a sad unhappy person. A sad unhappy person who'd either one day snap, cheat on you and leave, or, emerse herself in her unhappiness and gain 180 pounds in weight and dedicate her life to the consumption of all doughnuts in the world.

Everyone goes through different phases in their life. If she's not ready to settle down now, she probably will be in a few years.

4 years ago I was a Rave Dancer and a tweaking promiscuous idiot. Not a care in the world apart from my never ending quest for Raves and drugs.

These days..I'm a good little worker drone, I dont do stupid stuff or dodgy men. I work for my home and my pets and boyfriend. I occaisionally tweak and Rave a little, but I'd never ever go with a random stranger, or accept pretty looking tabs from people who wanted me to 'party' with them.

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