ok so since i have no freewill of my own i need totse to help me decide. there was this chick that i really liked and wanted to ask out but she already had a boyfriend, but he was a real ass and i knew it wouldn't last long so in the time between my meeting her and their breakup i tried to get close to her so i could ask her out later. Turns out she was a real attention whore who make up the craziest bullshit for attention, like those emofags. So they break up and i ask her out and she says no, turns out i got trapped in the "friends" zone and it didn't look like i could escape. But even after i asked she just clung to me like i was her emotional tampon! So i ditched her and told her to fuck off seeing as it was going nowhere. Anyway a few months pass and she IM's me saying she wants to be friends again and she might consider going out with me. I'm a bit cautious but i really do wanna go out with her. what does tose advise?

Dude no!
"Shell consider going out with you if you just give her some damn attention"
How that does sound?
Is that really what you want?
Some fucking hand-me-down?
No, fuck her.

no. she used the words "might consider" for a reason. even if she really will consider going out with you, it only shows that shes really desperate and in that case she would probably dump you like yesterdays garbage for the next guy she sees. she didnt want you when you too were friends and when you were there for her, now why would she want you after you totally blew her off?

i guess you're right, thanks alot guys. I guess i was just kidding myself thinking it would be different.

since its been a few months she probably dated another ass hole and now needs some fool to listen to her sob stories. just talk to her online a bit right now and see if shes changed or if she has any problems she wants to bitch to you. if she sounds like she'll crave your attention, make up excuses not to hang out or talk to her, until her dumbass gets the message. if she's cool and different, you know how to handle it from there.

Meh, try it if you want. Just don't let yourself be used anymore, and try to avoid falling into the friends zone again.

soooo why can't you just be friends with her?

say you'll consider being her friend if she goes out with you

Let her hang out with you, get her drunk, fuck her, never talk to her again.


pat yourself on the back

Right. So you had a good friend and you threw her away just because you're a desperate prick who's trying to get some sex.

Fuck you. You dont deserve help. You dont deserve friends.


I hope that poor, attention whoring girl see's just how worthless as a friend you are and how you'll just push her away again if you see you wont be able to get your dick wet.

You suck.

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