The other day, I had just got off work, and my friend lives right by my house and works by me, so he drove us both home and then we were just going to change quick and go to a party. When I went in my house, my sister was there and she a friend over for a sleepover... one of the hottest girls I've ever seen. I tried to extend my stay at my house and was flirting with my sister's friend a bit when my friend knocked at my door angrily and said it was time to go, so sadly, I went.

The party sucked; the police came because neighbours had complained of noise. Someone had drawn some naked men and women on a small blackboard in the guy's kitchen, and the police were threatening to arrest the person who drew it for something I can't even remember... and the guy who owns the house got his toilet flooded with someone's huge piece of crap stuck in it, while I got way too drunk/high for even my own liking.

The next day, I went on msn at my house to find that my sister's friend had been using the computer and put that "remember me" thing on the msn, so her email address was there. I added her, and she started talking to me and we talked on there for a while, then I called her and we talked on the phone for a while. After a bit she was talking to me about how she felt about me and shit, and even said that if I had stayed over that night, she would've hooked up with me because she wanted to. I was thinking SHIT!! why did I go to that fucking party..

So now I still haven't seen her, and I'm going away on vacation with my family for 2 days and when I get back, there will only be about 3 days left before she leaves to Quebec (where she says she usually hooks up pretty easily) and then to Greece for the rest of the summer. I don't know what to do, because we talked about dating and stuff and I wanna hang out with her, but I don't know how because she's, well, my sister's friend, and I don't want my sister to find out, and also there's so little time, and if she wants to date before she leaves what should I do?? I don't think it would work that well. Any ideas, suggestions, or similar situations? Thanks for writing in this thread.

You're welcome.

She's coming to quebec in 2 days? And she's easy to hook up with there?

Fuck, give me her number, I'll be in quebec in 2 days.

Ok, sorry, let me try and help you. The same thing happened to me last summer. I went to vacation, almost hooked up with a girl, then I had to go the next day. I contemplated a long distance relationship, but she immediately forgot about me, and that was that. So fuck em, if she's still hot when she gets back, do her then. Forget about fucking her now. Let her lust grow. Here's my story, by the way.


The highlight of the whole fucking vacation was this one girl, Jelena. Fucking stunner, a real fucking gem. (No pics yet, fuck off). But yeah, there's hot chicks everywhere. I mean, she was hot, a definate 10, but no fucking Angelina Jolie or whatever floats your boat. Still, she could play the guitar and sing like a fucking angel. One night around a campfire she sang for hours and nobody got bored. She was also fluent in God knows how many languages, basically, not a ditz. And loved kids too. Basically, a 10 in all fields, more or less (everyone's got a few faults).

We shared a wonderful night together, with the exception of what had to be the world's fucking biggest cockblock. I swear to God, this guy barged in on us while we were alone in the fucking tent (not fucking, unfortunately) and starts trying to strike up a conversation. Bitch. I managed to get her alone on a boat at one point to watch the sunrise, which ended up being not as beautiful as I'd hoped for, but who gives a shit. We had a nice enough time, and she talked a big about her ex, which pissed me off.

Anyway, I saw her the next day at her work and brought her a rose, and asked her out the next next night. She said yes. I met her the next next night and took her to the "hot spot" of the town if you will. A club roughly translated to "Freedom". As cheap as the liquer there was, I spent a shitload, but we had a lot of fun taking tequila shooters, Jaggermeister, Jack Daniels, and God know's how much beer. Drunk, I thought up the perfect way to finally kiss her. It seemed like a good idea at the time, but in sober retrospect, it was far too corny. But anyway, we made out a bit, then went somewhere private for a while. Talked, and made out some more, then I walked her home.

However, because of my idiotic schedule, I basically had to leave in 2 days, so there went the best girlfriend I ever had. I did see her the day thought, so I'll write some more about that . I went to her work while her manager was gone. She was working at some library/house for kids/something. We made out and talked and listened to music and whatnot, just hung out basically. I met her again that night, what was to be our last, and we hung out with her friends a bit, but then she took me to this really neat, secluded meadow overlooking the entire city. We gazed at stars a bit, and talked about the future and whatnot, and made out some more. She gave me an excuse (which to this day, I'd call the worst case of bullshit ever) about being on her period and not being able to fuck me. I was fine with that, the fucking didn't matter to me that much, the excuse just pissed me off. We talked a bit more, I said something about love, totally unrelated to us, and she miunderstood it as me saying I love you or something, and I think she got a bit wierded out. I didn't give a shit in the end, just pissed me off because I didn't have a freudian slip, was just making a point about old people.

Anywho, I walked her home, said Goodbye forever basically, and realized I'd totally fucked myself over seeing her, and that I had to wait outside in the fucking cold with very little clothes for four hours in a country I barely knew and almost missed my trip. Thankfully it sort of worked out or something, and I'm here know.

I realize that by now she's probably fucked a thousand other guys and I'm nothing more than just a blip in her memory, but this girl really meant something to me. If you can fall in love in a week, I guess that's what happened to me. Not that I believe in love, fuck it.

Thanks, I think that did help a bit. Sounds like quite an experience!

Also, I like your style of writing a lot. I'm gonna look at some of your other posts.

Thank you. It's best to not get attached to women unless you are dating them. If it's just "a girl", don't get attached, you'll just get your heart ripped in half.

Have your summer fun, fuck other girls, maybe even date some.

When she gets back, start a relationship if you both want. Otherwise, go your separate ways and best of luck.

NEVER get hung up on 1 girl. You'll miss out on 9 others, and then it'll be too late for them.

EDIT: I guess I meant to say, once you're in a relatively stable monogamous relationship, it's OK to love her and feel deeply for her. You'll be hurt when it ends, but usually the long time of loving and caring will be worthwhile.

Dunno dude. If you try and rush things you could lose your chance. There's nothing more unattractive than being too eager. But she will probably find someone over summer so you might be fucked anyway.

And while she says she would have hooked up with you, she might just be teasing your balls because she knows there won't be any situation from now on that will put her in a position to have to live up to your expectations. So she can say you would have been able to stick it in her ass and root her upside-down with bells on without having to actually do it.

Lol yeah I see what you mean.

You guys are right. Thanks for the suggestions.

Sighhh...

These stories depress me.

Rykoshet, your story reminds me of the movie "out cold", but i suppose it is a semi-generic story.