Mods, please dont close this, because, while it is advice to a specific person on this forum, I believe everyone could learn alot from this persons situation, hopefully in this thread.

So basically bean_doodle, you may or may not know me, I'm not sure. But semi lurking S&A the past couple months I happened to catch your most of your threads. The reason I keep reading them is because I can actually see them progress, kind of like a storyline of your, well, sex and affection life.

Just to give people a rundown if you dont know what this guys situation is, bean feel free to correct me.

Your around age 15/16 I believe. You start off then having no sexual experience, but meet a girl who one night 'comes onto' you. You didnt have feelings for her then so you didn't react strongly, but eventually you started talking more and became a couple. Recently, I think you said she has several ex's and flirts with many many guys, and tried to just tempt you that one night where she came onto you.

My advice: You need to dump this bitch. It seems that you are getting attached, but with all her backlogged history of flirtyness and more sexual experience than you, she can't/won't stay as attached as you are, at least for long.

I've been in a similar situation as to you. This comes first hand dude. Breaking up with her would both end all your worrying of if/when she cheats, and also be a big confidence booster for knowing you ended it, not her.

While on the other hand if you stay together, and it seems inevitable from my point of view, you could become seriously attached and end up very hurt and possibly swear off ever trying again.

This is what I think S&A is about, analyzing relationships and helping fellow members, so even if bean_doodle doesn't see this, guys and gals feel free to chime in.

Mods, please dont close this, because, while it is advice to a specific person on this forum, I believe everyone could learn alot from this persons situation, hopefully in this thread.

So basically bean_doodle, you may or may not know me, I'm not sure. But semi lurking S&A the past couple months I happened to catch your most of your threads. The reason I keep reading them is because I can actually see them progress, kind of like a storyline of your, well, sex and affection life.

Just to give people a rundown if you dont know what this guys situation is, bean feel free to correct me.

Your around age 15/16 I believe. You start off then having no sexual experience, but meet a girl who one night 'comes onto' you. You didnt have feelings for her then so you didn't react strongly, but eventually you started talking more and became a couple. Recently, I think you said she has several ex's and flirts with many many guys, and tried to just tempt you that one night where she came onto you.

My advice: You need to dump this bitch. It seems that you are getting attached, but with all her backlogged history of flirtyness and more sexual experience than you, she can't/won't stay as attached as you are, at least for long.

I've been in a similar situation as to you. This comes first hand dude. Breaking up with her would both end all your worrying of if/when she cheats, and also be a big confidence booster for knowing you ended it, not her.

While on the other hand if you stay together, and it seems inevitable from my point of view, you could become seriously attached and end up very hurt and possibly swear of ever trying again.

This is what I think S&A is about, analyzing relationships and helping fellow members, so even if bean_doodle doesn't see this, guys and gals feel free to chime in.

why...didnt you just post in one of his threads?