You know those women who flirt with guys just to boost their own crappy selfesteem?
Yeah, thats my girlfriend.
Turns out she used to flirt with and hang out with guys she could barely stand, simply cuz they liked her.
But wait, it gets worse...
A while ago, 31st of April, (before we got together) she came to my house drunk and tried to make out with me. I wasn't into her then so I turned her down.
Then I fell for her and we got together.
Turns out, she didn't like me back then.
She was just drunk and bored and wanted me to fall in love with her so she could play me!!!
Wtf!?
Bad mood...

Dump her then.

Dump her then.

Aye, I agree.

Dump her then.

^This

Its a no-brainer dude. Only a fool or a tool, would stay with a women like that. Hopefully, you are neither.

Hmm...
You'd think I'd figure that out myself :P

Yeah, that sounds reasonable.

Pass her around. Don't hog!

Share the wealth, bubba.

this thread answered every fuckin question i have over my "exgirlfriend"

She just told me she loves me...
And I think I love her.
Even though I know shes a bad person
:(

Its not love man. Its lust. Feels quite the same.

I told my ex I loved her, then a month later realized, I didnt love her, it was just the sex talking.

didn't read your post but read the title.
listen if your girl wears alot of hats break up with her no one like a chick who covers her head....except muslims

Might as well stay with her, I think you'll find that EVERY woman is like that.

*e-punchs OP*

Stop being so easy. Is that the best you could do? Some skank that messes around with guys just because she's bored? Dont do that to yourself, bro. It wouldnt end good anyway, so the sooner you end it the better.

Goddamnit.


And they say women are weak..

My ex-girlfriend always flirts with anyone and everyone that crosses her path... but it's jsut 'cuz she doesn't know how to interact with guys otherwise... Which results in all of my friends either wanting to fuck her or having fucked her.

well even though most women seem to be like that i've found out that a rare and special few are NOT. My advice would be to use her like she would have used you until you find that special someone and then dump her fucked up ass

What a needy little fuck. Why the fuck would it matter if she gets he jollies by saying she loves you?

I love you too! Now...paypal me $20 my love.

For the advice to dump her: fucked up the ass.

Dump her then.

yeah. i see no reason to disagree with this.

Just break up with her MENTALLY, but stay with her physically.

So basically bean_doodle, you may or may not know me, I'm not sure. But semi lurking S&A the past couple months I happened to catch your most of your threads. The reason I keep reading them is because I can actually see them progress, kind of like a storyline of your, well, sex and affection life.

Just to give people a rundown if you dont know what this guys situation is, bean feel free to correct me.

Your around age 15/16 I believe. You start off then having no sexual experience, but meet a girl who one night 'comes onto' you. You didnt have feelings for her then so you didn't react strongly, but eventually you started talking more and became a couple. Recently, I think you said she has several ex's and flirts with many many guys, and tried to just tempt you that one night where she came onto you.

My advice: You need to dump this bitch. It seems that you are getting attached, but with all her backlogged history of flirtyness and more sexual experience than you, she can't/won't stay as attached as you are, at least for long.

I've been in a similar situation as to you. This comes first hand dude. Breaking up with her would both end all your worrying of if/when she cheats, and also be a big confidence booster for knowing you ended it, not her.

While on the other hand if you stay together, and it seems inevitable from my point of view, you could become seriously attached and end up very hurt and possibly swear off ever trying again.

God damn quoted for the fucking truth-happening.

You're in love with her? Why, because you can't get any better? For fucks sakes man, man the fuck up and take yourself seriously.

Flirt with other girls.
Have sex with your girlfriend
Have sex with other girls

Problem solved

I actually lul'd. I think we could be up for an alcoholic sometime soon with, lets say, an organ that needs mending.

31st of April

Last I checked, April has 30 days.

You know those women who flirt with guys just to boost their own crappy selfesteem?
Yeah, thats my girlfriend.
Turns out she used to flirt with and hang out with guys she could barely stand, simply cuz they liked her.
....
She was just drunk and bored and wanted me to fall in love with her so she could play me!!!

How did you come to know this anyway? She told you? If so, shes also a stupid bitch. Dump her.

Last I checked, April has 30 days.

MAY FOOLS, BITCH!

31st of Never, apparently...

Donde esta el queso de mi padre?

So basically bean_doodle, you may or may not know me, I'm not sure. But semi lurking S&A the past couple months I happened to catch your most of your threads. The reason I keep reading them is because I can actually see them progress, kind of like a storyline of your, well, sex and affection life.

*stealth_15 steps out of shadows and lights a cigarette*

Lol, nicely done.



But anyways, about the girl.

I was in a situation like you, well actually, I guess you might say I still kind of am. This girl I met online basically guilt-tripped me into dating her (D'OH!) when she lives in Wisconsin and I live in Vancouver... way too far away. I went there to see her exactly a year ago, and then the moment I left to come home I figured out she had cheated on me and everything and she flirts with a million guys a night, but that's just how girls like her are. It sounds like you may be dating one of the same kind of girls.

I still, sadly, love this girl. I still, even more sadly, talk to her on the phone. She basically draws me in by saying "I love you".... sounds kinda like your girl huh?

I'm trying my hardest to stop but I swear, it's the hardest thing I've ever done, to not talk to her even though she treats me like shit, it's like trying to quit smoking (even though I'm not a smoker and don't know how hard it is, I figure that it's pretty hard). I'm trying, essentially, to get myself some "nicotine"; a good time with a different girl that I could be friends with with no strings attached would be to my situation like nicotine would be to a smoker. I'm trying hard to get over this and so should you. It will save you a LOT of pain and hard feelings in the future. Maybe just fuck her once more and then break up with her. I know that sounds bad, but maybe use her like she's using you to let her know what it feels like.


I also like sidewayz6.6's suggestion, lol.

She told me she loved me over msn.
That kinda bugs me, where the fuck is our generation going?
Im gonna fucking lose my virginity over msn if this keeps up.
I told her I wouldnt respond over msn since it's fucking stupid.
But yesterday I was sorta in a happy rush cuz she said she loved me.
Now Ive calmed down and Im back to angry Bean.

My simple harsh advice dude: Don't tell her it.

Seriously. If she flirts with other guys, what do you think the chances are that that's where the whole thing stops? For all you know, you could be a form of fall-back guy to her. The number of girls who flirt randomly with other guys and remain true to their boyfriends, very low.

Whenever she tells you that she loves you, don't respond. It may be hard, but she fucked you over dude. Be strong, and know that the chances are you'll never fall for a girl like her again.

Harshness aside, very sorry dude.

If you can make that kind of emotional detachment, great. Problem solved. Personally, I never can, even when I know the person is shit.

Too bad the mouth opens though, I should get that fixed.

You don't need to get that fixed! Just give say this one simple thing: "If I wanted lip from you I would jiggle my zipper." That should fix that :p

"I opened my mouth &

He showed me what that hole was for..."

C. Hynde

How did you come to know this anyway? She told you? If so, shes also a stupid bitch. Dump her.

She told that she "wasn't too into you the 30th april"
Then I dropped the subject cuz she was getting frisky.
(mehmehmeh, i got teh date wrong, suck my poop)

And one reason i havent broken up wit her yet is cuz Ive taken to one of Jack's advces.
That one should never trust friends, expecially female friends.
The whole manipulation theory comes from this emo-chick who used to be in love with me, and I sometimes suspect that she still is.
Guess Ill just have to confront my gf about that night.

stealth_15, I appricieate what you're doing, that's what S&A should be about, a litte more about affection and human interaction in general.
She's had 2 other boyfriends
Im not worried so much about her cheating, mostly because she has next to no social life, her best friend is her dog.
And she claims that she had no idea that guys in question were in love with her. (and she wouldnt say it if it wasnt true:P)
I should've made that clearer, she hasn't flirted with anyone since we got together.

I dont believe that she loves me. She could quite possibly lust me.
And now that the initial rush of her saying that has cooled off, I dont feel I love her at all.
And in a relationship, if one who wants wants it more tends to develop feelings.
So Ill let her be 'in love' with me and Ill fuck her and demote her to fuckbuddy

Because...what a body on that one...I mean, it's quite amazing, all tight and shit.
Shes 14 soon 15. And shes all the good things that being 14 brings.
Namely, curvy and tight.
Shes also very annoying...:Mad:
Too bad the mouth opens though, I should get that fixed.

edit: I hate these new fucking 10-post long pages, the old ones were hella better.

Dudezor....you can set your preferences & get whatever # of posts per page. I go for 20...for some reason...

I was so happy to have more than 10 that I never tried 40/50... :)

So, it seems the amount of care-giving has decreased drsastically.
Blow me, I still care.

So I confronted her about the night in question.
I asked her why she came to my house and trie to make out with me.
"Oh, I dont know really..."
Great fucking comfort...
And she still rigidly denies being the least bit attracted to me before we got together.
Even tho 2 of her close friends says that she really liekd me in a year ago, she firmly maintains that she didnt.
Wtf, of all things to lie about? Both her and her friends.
However, she said one thing to a friend of mine.

GF says:
hey did you know that,that thing that happened at valborg(30th) really bothers Bean
GF says:
i had really no idea
GF says:
and now i feel really bad

Sigh...

There are so many other great girls out there that you can be with. Be strong, just break off your contact with this bitch who's obviously either using you or too stupid to be talking to. Just remember that you deserve a lot better than her, and you probably won't have to wait too long to find that.

Believe it or not, this is an experience that you can learn from, but could also get depressed over. Nothing wrong with feeling bad about all this, just always remember that there's someone better out there for you that will make YOU happy when you're with them.

Best of luck dude.

Treating a girlkid like the love of your life?

Hopefully you're not 18... If you're her age? Fine. Two young idiots. If you're older... Then that's the kinda thing you get by robbing the cradle. :)