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I'm torn between temptation and a certain sense of guilt at the thought of doing this. And theres no place like totse for rationalizing doing the wrong thing.

See, I've only had one sexual partner that I ever had to worry about as far as STDs. It was a mistake, and it was at a bad time. It was a one night stand. Whatever. And now i'm seeing a girl that I really like, and I couldn't stand the thought of transferring something to her.

The chances of me catching anything from the girl in question is pretty slim. She had been tested about a month beforehand, and it felt wrong when it happened so I stopped almost immediately after we started. Still, I'm paranoid. It's only been two months, so I can't get tested myself accurately yet.

So my question is this, how acceptable is it to tell the girl in question that she may have something, just so she'll go get tested so that I don't have to?

lol thats pretty bad, I dont get why you can't just get tested

It takes anywhere from 2 weeks to 6 months for an STD to show up on a test. 99% of the cases will show up after 3 months, which is when they reccomend you get tested. It's only been two months for me, so it wouldn't be all that accurate, and it wouldn't do any good.

post a pic of your dick and ill tell you what you've got.

No symptoms yet, thankfully.

Well, if she did get something from you, you could always claim she had it first, and make her look like the disease-ridden person that she is. Then again, that might not be very nice.

Only bad thing is that she may not get it even though you do.

If you make her get tested and she is negative, you may still have it and end up sterile.

Being sterile may not be much fun in the long run.

How does that work? She has to have it for me to catch it, doesnt she?