Okay, so. I want to have sex with my girlfriend. I'm 16, so is she. She's 11 days younger than I.

I'm her first boyfriend. I was her first kiss, etc.

We've made out many times. I've felt her up too. But nothing under the shirt. The longest was undershirt over bra feel for about 5 seconds.

I wanna sleep with her.

How should I go about bringing it up?

What things should I do leading up to it?

Thank you ToTSE!

your odd..

you need to feel her up alot more and have her feel you up alot more.

Bring it up?
wtf...
The proper way to bring it up would be with a form filled out in triplicate saying that shhe agrees to intercourse.

Wtf, just under the shirt and feel her up more, let it come naturaly.
I hate peopel who think like that, that everything in life needs a plan.
Fuck you, just go with it.

he just doesnt want to do something dumb or freak her out.

You don't wanna fuck her... that will just lead to MANY bad things. eg: You'll become pussy whipped.

This thread kills my faith in humanity.
If noone taught the latest generation how to mate, do you think they would figure it out?

generalization...

1 person asked how to do something, so all people in his age group must be wondering the same thing.

Somebody tell me: Is the search tool, like, invisible or something?

To make this post useful, I suggest you just go with the flow. If you're feeling her up, you're off to a good start. Just go with it, and let it progress naturally. Since you said you're her first kiss and such too, that's also a pretty good sign. How long have you both been going out for?

If you're patient, and with a good slice of luck, you shouldn't have a problem.

Have a talk about it with her. See how comfortable she is with the idea.
She's possibly quite scared of it, having heard how it 'hurts' ect.
If she puts it off or acts scared, dont pressurise her. I've heard that attractive teenage females are more jumpy than a mare being chased by a snake when it comes to the topic of sex.

If you just want to do it, make sure to get her really aroused. One thing you dont wanna be doing it just, jamming it right in.

Finger her first, and for the love of god please dont do what most guys think is great and just shove your finger in her hole. Usually it just hurts. Lick your fingers and massage her clit, yeah the weird bumpy bit above the hole. By all means put your fingers in the hole to get moisture once she starts getting wet.

Whilst you're doing this keep kissing her, massaging her boobs, ect. Especially kiss her neck.


Before you try this please cut your fingernails and file them. There's nothing worse than a guy fumbling around jamming his fingers into the hole and raking the sensitive skin in there with sharp nails.

Other than that, I dont know. I've never had to try and seduce a scared teenage female.

Ooh, one thing to remember in these days of false rape claims:

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