I have a hard time getting an erection, the stimulus is arousing , but i cant get an erection, rather it be my hott girl freind or porn, i cant get hard. only rarely can i manage and it just seems to happen by itself? what do i do? will this pass? i just turned 20 a few days ago? stress? i have lots of it . depression? yes. but ive always had those problems. i get embarrassed how i can not finish so many times with my girl freind, she thinks its her fault. i dunno can some one shed some light on this. seriously i need to know what to do.

maybe subconcious? perhaps you have a new more emotionally disruptive source of stress or somthing new depresses you.(?) not sure if thats a question or not

You should see a doctor.:)

relax...

yeah what he said i forgot that one

probably some sort of mental block. if you do get an erection, try and remember what got u that.

=> DOCTOR

At your age (I'm assuming early 20's) its more likely to be mental rather than physical but the first port of call has to be your GP not totse.

Preferably asap cos once you get locked into a vicious cycle of erectile failure that just makes it all 100x worse (ie you fear not not being able to get it up and so you can't)