But why? No one seems to be explaining themselves.

I don't think i could love a bi girl. though i could love the sex that could come from it. 'somes would have to be on the agenda one would think :D

Wait, what?

Why the fuck would her being BI suddenly mean 'threesome' ?


She's with you. Therefore, her sexual preference for both sexes shouldnt matter because she's with you.

I'm a girl, and I'm Bi, but that's never affected any of my relationships with men or women. That's because I'm Bi, as in, liking both sexes equally. There are alot of people who have never truely met a bisexual girl, so they assume the girl is just going to leave them for another girl and they break up with them. It's all fair game though, I'd leave them for either one. There are alot of people who classify themselves as Bi when they actually like one sex more than the other one. But hey, if she's your girlfriend, I'm guessing she likes you and that's all that should matter.

Not all bi girls are sluts. I'm bi (and fuck you for the smart ass replies I'm sure are to follow) but it is more then a person's sexual orrientation that makes them a slut it's their lack of respect for the person they are with. And her stating that she is sexually attracted to women does not mean that she is going to even let you bring another chick into the bedroom and if she does you have lots of thinking to do. If you are in a long term relationship bringing in a third party might complicate things, the ground rules need to be set and understood by all parties if it is to work don't just bring a drunk chick home. You also run the risk of bringing in std's as well as other complications (i.e psycho i love you girls that are going to sit outside of your window and cut themselves) If you truly care for the girl and want to make something more of it then a 6 month fuck sesion I would suggest not to do it but hey, you need to be a big boy and make your own decissions.

Not all bi girls are sluts. I'm bi (and fuck you for the smart ass replies I'm sure are to follow) but it is more then a person's sexual orrientation that makes them a slut it's their lack of respect for the person they are with.
I agree to some extent.

Lack of respect? Thats rather funny.

But imo, most people are sluts.
I mean, would any guy pass up a hot chick if he is in a relationship?
Most likely not.
What does that say about a guy's morals?

But if a chick were to fuck a guy at random, they are sluts.

I dont like double standards.
But then again, we rule the world, so who cares? :D

Its all about sexual needs at the end of the day.
If your chick is into other chicks, what does that say about you?

And her stating that she is sexually attracted to women does not mean that she is going to even let you bring another chick into the bedroom and if she does you have lots of thinking to do.
Well, what if she were to bring another chick?

I am sorry, threesomes are great, as long as you arent in a committed relationship.
If you are in a committed relationship, bringing anyone isnt right; it will destroy the relationship.

If you truly care for the girl and want to make something more of it then a 6 month fuck sesion I would suggest not to do it but hey, you need to be a big boy and make your own decissions.
I agree. Bringing in a third party, ANY third party whatsoever is going to end your relationship. Regardless of what anyone else says.

If they were just bang buddies of your, I would be the first to congratulate you. But since you are in a relationship, I have to strongly disagree.


All women are whores, btw, so who cares? The bitch is probobly bound to fuck your best friend by the time you fuck her's, so who cares?

SURE, you want a threesome but what if she asks lil' jacob to come over and you two have to share, remember they can never touch...(no pun intended in this reply...)

I know quite a few gay guys. Usually, they live in their own little world when it comes to relationships. They keep quiet about it and they do what they do. But other then that, they're genuinely nice people.

I know quite a few lesbians too. On the whole, they've usually been abused at one point and another, and are pretty angry at guys. Despite the fact that i've been pretty good friends with some of them. It's not like they take it out on me or anything, but it usually seems pretty unhealthy to me.

As far as bisexuals...I don't really believe in them. Bisexuality is something that teens explore, sometimes out of genuine curiosity, sometimes because thats just the cool thing to be nowadays. But either way, it's just a phase. I wouldn't trust anyone over 20 who considered themselves bisexual.

For me the lack of trust is based solely on prior experience.

I am not attempting to generalize all bisexual females, to do so would be impossible; however, based on my personal experience and taking in to consideration the numbers -- bisexual females for me have been a statistical failure.



Five out of five bisexual females I became romantically involved with at some point in time in to the relationship expressed interest in having a threesome or be allowed to have a girl on the side.

When asked the question; would they allow me to have another female on the side they all advised "no". In fact one of them broke up with me the same day solely based on my inquiry.

Double standard?

Prior to making any commitment I emphasized that I was only interested in a monogamous relationship. In all instances their "bisexual needs" were expressed many months in to the relationship and three out of the five I later learned proof positive that they had a same sex encounter (or two).

I would have not been upset if we were just merely "dating". For me dating means they are something to do to pass the time until someone better with more potential comes along -- like my current (heterosexual) girlfriend of a little over a year.

There are alot of people who classify themselves as Bi when they actually like one sex more than the other one.

That doesn't really matter. If they like both, they're still bi, they just have a preference.

But why? No one seems to be explaining themselves.

Because guys are insecure and know how easy/needy girls are. If she doesn't get cock whenever she wants it she can call up a friend of hers and scissor all night. Also if your girlfriends cheating on you you normally assume it's with a guy and would have a good idea if you knew she was with one. If shes Bi she could just go over to her friends house and be out in an hour after getting her poon licked. I'd go out with a bi chick again. One time my girl, another girl and me did a good job of breaking her shower. Pretty much destroyed it. Luckily her dad didn't ask questions...

Can I ask how old is this girl and how far has she gone in homosexual relationships. It may be the case that she's just expermental. I frequently appreciate a female face and have the odd occasional lustful thought about women but wouldn't class myself as bi-sexual. As someone (sorry, I forgot who!) said earlier, she's with you and that should be all that matters. If you're worried about her wandering off with someone else, that's probably more likely in a straight woman. Infidelity and sexual orientation aren't related.
Also bemused about the 'can you say threesome' comment. Are you hoping for one? It's fairly safe to say if she wanted to have sex with another woman, there's every likelihood no men would be invited. Porn films are guilty of instigating many myths.
The age old response, if you're worried then talk to her.

It's wierd, almost all women seem to be bisexual on some level. Lucky bastard :)

If she's your girlfriend it doesn't matter a bit to you that she's bi.

Yes, this.

I would be jumping for joy at threesome op!

Just make sure you get the right kind of threesome...

Don't date bi's unless you can REALLY perform.

They will dump your ass for a chick.

Threesomes don't usually work because of jealousy, unless all partakers aren't in any committed relationship, or are those rare breads that aren't jealous. My fiance and I tried to have a threesome with one of her friends, and it didn't go down well. Good luck if you think you can overcome the emotional gauntlet.

Bi girls usually have the mentality that they can fuck other girls but you can't, which is incredibly selfish if you think about it. Why wouldn't they think they should be allowed to fuck other guys then too?

Basically every girl on the planet will call herself bisexual in front of guys.

"LOL look, I kissed a girl, I must be bisexual!"

It's all bullshit. It would make far more sense to use percents. :p It's generally 90% for guys, 10% for girls. I don't consider myself bi.