you know...i actually agree with this brother. he says it how it SHOULD be. i think everyone should take his advice
ya, lets all take the advice that its ok to cheat unless you intend to get married.

ya, lets all take the advice that its ok to cheat unless you intend to get married.

if thats what you like to call it.

im only 16 man, i don't have to worry about marriage. so it doesn't bother me much lol

Of course it's tempting. Especially when the person is incredibly cute and clumsy and sweet and..

Perhaps it's just a female thing, but when I fantasize about cheating with someone, There's allways more than just sex involved. There's usually dreams of hanging out together and liking each other.

I'm not sure what deters me from cheating more, the fact it might hurt my boyfriend, or the fact I might end up hurting the person I cheated with.

But cheating is horrible and wrong. So. If I *really* wanted to get with that other guy I'd ditch my boyfriend first. It's cruel to drag people along in your sordid games, expecially if they dont get to join in.

The mistake isnt in the cheating, the mistake is that stupid people make their relationships exclusive to begin with.

WTF is that supposed to mean?? hahaha relationships are exclusive you asshole. I am very sorry for not being a worthless punk that uses women just for having some temporary company or casual sex as yourself. If you're in a relationship you are meant to respect your partner, not cheat and do not fucking dump her for another whore whenever you feel like doing it. WOMEN ARE NOT FUCKING TOYS !!!!!!!!

you know...i actually agree with this brother. he says it how it SHOULD be. i think everyone should take his advice

Sir please do a favor to humanity and go hang yourself, thanks in advance..

Stop assigning bullshit titles and limitations to random people you meet. It's just stupid.

Fine... you meet a girl at a club, you hook up... That doesn't give you the right to call her your girlfriend, nor does it give you the excuse to not hook up with anyone else...

But if you're in my position, and you've been goin out with a girl for almost a year... Then the whole situation changes... If you cheat on your girl (and yes it IS cheating) if you've been goin out with her for more than say a month or something... It is not in your right and you should hate yourself for doing so, unles you're a cold hearted bastard...

If you're in a relationship with someone that goes beyond a "make out" at a club, and you go ahead and hook up with anyone else.... it's cheating...

My original point was it's not cheating unless you're in a committed relationship. Obviously 9 months is long-term enough for there to be something serious going on. A lot of relationships arent though.

Fine... you meet a girl at a club, you hook up... That doesn't give you the right to call her your girlfriend, nor does it give you the excuse to not hook up with anyone else...

But if you're in my position, and you've been goin out with a girl for almost a year... Then the whole situation changes... If you cheat on your girl (and yes it IS cheating) if you've been goin out with her for more than say a month or something... It is not in your right and you should hate yourself for doing so, unles you're a cold hearted bastard...

If you're in a relationship with someone that goes beyond a "make out" at a club, and you go ahead and hook up with anyone else.... it's cheating...

Thats exactly my point. But it seems beyond stupid to me that anyone would be dating exclusively if they've only known each other a month.

Everyone seems to think if you're seeing someone, that somehow makes it wrong to see anyone else. If you dont really care about them, then why would you deny yourself the company of others? A lot of people go into relationships, not because they care about the other person, but because they want to find out if they can come to care about the other person.

WTF is that supposed to mean?? hahaha relationships are exclusive you asshole. I am very sorry for not being a worthless punk that uses women just for having some temporary company or casual sex as yourself. If you're in a relationship you are meant to respect your partner, not cheat and do not fucking dump her for another whore whenever you feel like doing it. WOMEN ARE NOT FUCKING TOYS !!!!!!!!

Bravo. -applaud-

Looks like someone majored in womans studies. It's a shame you think they're all whores, and that sex is the only aspect of any relationship. Or that boyfriend/girlfriend is the only relationship any two people can have. It would be pointless to explain my philosophy to you any further, because you're obviously clingy. Don't worry though, there are plenty of guys out there that are as confused and lonely as you are and will be more then happy to tell you how much they love you on the second date.

But see, despite the fact that I can date people without crowning them with the title of my girlfriend, that doesn't mean that I use them for meaningless sex, or that I sleep around at all. I date people to find out if I like them and how much I like them. Not because they rescrambled the porno channel. I don't need to use WOMEN AS FUCKING TOYS, because I dont lead them to believe their involved in something their not. I dont need to keep anything secret for them, and I'm more then willing to tell them about anyone else i'm seeing. The girls that I have the most respect for do the same with me without shame.

And not that my personal sex life is any of you're buisness, but of all the girls i've hung out with, i've only slept with two that really mattered to me. So stfu and stop making your gender look bad.

I have a lot of girls that are just there.

Then i have my girl you know what I mean?

It's always been like that, but with my latest girl I told here how it was as soon as we started to get serious, and she's completely cool with it.

I've never been happier.

-Angus

I've been going out with my girl for 2 years, never even gotten the thought, she keeps me busy... I wouldn't have the energy for 2 girls.

And my boyfriend doesent have the energy for one, hence why I've been almost tempted to cheat. Which is awfull, as I think cheating is one of the most evil sins a person can commit.

And my boyfriend doesent have the energy for one.

Hide his weed for a week!

He'll probably just buy more, but it's worth a shot, and at the end of the week if he buys more you just end up with double the weed! Wahoo!

i agree with silentmind

not tying yourself down can only benefit the relationships YOU want to prosper....

Cheating is for fucking pussies. If you can't break up for someone else with your current partner and just go on a lust frenzy with someone else you deserve to fucking be alone.

there is a difference between cheating and open relationships

cheating is telling someone your all about them and acting differently.

an open relationship is like hey i like you but im not into serious relationships at this point in my life....lets go out have a blast and maybe fuck and laugh about it tomorrow and the next day....

you need to figure out whats out there before you can decide what it is that YOU want.