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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-06-29, 17:43
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It's been a long time since I've been on the site!

So I was doin some cleaning around our house ( my girlffriend and I) and I came across her list of guys she's fucked. I also came across her diaries of guys shes fucked and they were told in some detail... I know I shouldn't be snooping or I shouldn't have looked, but I did... I don't know how to react, and I probably did it poorly, too.

She "slept with" 85 guys...

Anyone else have this sort of dilemma, or anything like it?
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Old 2007-06-29, 17:48
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I find that soo hard to beleive.

She wouldnt just leave that shit around where you might randomly find it.

That is, unless she wants you to find it..?



Either way, get yourself tested, and stat.
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Old 2007-06-29, 17:49
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Holy shit. I couldn't live with that. You may not even come in on the top 20 list of favorites. Statistically your probably not even in the top 10.
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Old 2007-06-29, 17:58
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Uhm... please, please assure me that this is not common. My ever diminishing faith in mankind doesn't need another blow.


If I had felt the need to keep a list of all the girls Ive fucked, I would make sure no-one would ever fuckin' find it, especially my spouse.
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:09
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It's been a long time since I've been on the site!

So I was doin some cleaning around our house ( my girlffriend and I) and I came across her list of guys she's fucked. I also came across her diaries of guys shes fucked and they were told in some detail... I know I shouldn't be snooping or I shouldn't have looked, but I did... I don't know how to react, and I probably did it poorly, too.

She "slept with" 85 guys...

Anyone else have this sort of dilemma, or anything like it?
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:10
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85? How old is she? 84?
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:19
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Dude, take a deep breath.
Then download and watch Chasing Amy.
Its a movie about exacly this phenomenon.

My girlfriend is still a virgin but has had two previous boyfriends, that is enough to freak me the hell out.
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:28
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Uhm... please, please assure me that this is not common. My ever diminishing faith in mankind doesn't need another blow.


If I had felt the need to keep a list of all the girls Ive fucked, I would make sure no-one would ever fuckin' find it, especially my spouse.
I've lost faith in mankind long ago...around the time Ren and Stimpy went off the air and everyone got into the whole "fuckbuddy" craze. It makes me sick.
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:31
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How did you react?
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Old 2007-06-29, 18:59
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reading other people's shit will eventually cause you to come across something you don't want to know. its a shitty dillema. on one hand, you have blissful ignorance, on the other, you dont want to be a chump. i had a gf break up with me and, since she was staying with me a t the time, i looked in her journal and discovered that she had gotten with another dude. so, yeah, unpleasant.
thats a pretty crazy number of people. sorry. most of the people you sleep with are going to have multiple previous partners...but thats a little extreme. if it makes you feel better, i was with a girl that used to be a "hostess" in japan. kind of know where you are coming from.
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Old 2007-06-29, 19:03
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How did you react?

I confronted her about it, and she said its not what it looks like, shes not a bad person and it was her AND A friend of hers lists... There are guys I know and heard stories about, her friends friends and ex's and old boyfriends that they were with...She denies it all... there are a few times we get into a fight (we never fight) and I wanna call her a slut or something like that and tell all, but I don't...

She is a good girl to me, and has never cheated on me, and I thoroughly believe that, but 85 guys from when she was 15- 24...thats is truly fucked, but she keeps denying it...There is stuff I know about her, that she doesnt know I know (that make sense?), plus, to me, our sex life changed cuz I know about this, be that good or bad, i dont know.

This isn't a "life partner" and won't last as long as she'd like, but holy fuck, eh?
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Old 2007-06-29, 19:37
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The hypocrisy of this thread fair takes my breath away!

If YOU had slept with 85 girls in your teenage years you'd have a t-shirt made up in day-glo proclaiming the fact and you'd a kept a pair of knickers from each girl as 'proof' of your virility in case any of your mates doubted your role as an ivory rainbow sex god.

What the hell difference does it make how many men she's fucked?

She clean? True to you? Maybe, hell, even loves you ? Everything else don't matter none. Grow up and get over it.

You that desperate to have a virginal pure girlfriend then order one from Thailand online!
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Old 2007-06-29, 19:58
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I confronted her about it, and she said its not what it looks like, shes not a bad person and it was her AND A friend of hers lists... There are guys I know and heard stories about, her friends friends and ex's and old boyfriends that they were with...She denies it all... there are a few times we get into a fight (we never fight) and I wanna call her a slut or something like that and tell all, but I don't...

She is a good girl to me, and has never cheated on me, and I thoroughly believe that, but 85 guys from when she was 15- 24...thats is truly fucked, but she keeps denying it...There is stuff I know about her, that she doesnt know I know (that make sense?), plus, to me, our sex life changed cuz I know about this, be that good or bad, i dont know.

This isn't a "life partner" and won't last as long as she'd like, but holy fuck, eh?

That's a well notched belt, but I'd try to forget about it; as you said, it's not a current issue. If she denies it, then let it fall to the wayside.

You're damn right though, that would be a hell of a read.
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Old 2007-06-29, 20:04
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Originally Posted by Bean_Doodle
Dude, take a deep breath.
Then download and watch Chasing Amy.
Its a movie about exacly this phenomenon.

My girlfriend is still a virgin but has had two previous boyfriends, that is enough to freak me the hell out.


lolz, mine never had anything before me
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Old 2007-06-29, 20:16
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The hypocrisy of this thread fair takes my breath away!

If YOU had slept with 85 girls in your teenage years you'd have a t-shirt made up in day-glo proclaiming the fact and you'd a kept a pair of knickers from each girl as 'proof' of your virility in case any of your mates doubted your role as an ivory rainbow sex god.
What the hell difference does it make how many men she's fucked?

She clean? True to you? Maybe, hell, even loves you ? Everything else don't matter none. Grow up and get over it.

You that desperate to have a virginal pure girlfriend then order one from Thailand online!



I don't find it hypocritical...I'm not the type of person to sleep with ton's of girls...In fact it's probably only 30 girls I have had any sexual relationship with...

And I'm not depserate to have a virginal type girl, but it is a bit above and beyond anything I've heard ir seen.

Why tell me to grow up? That is irrelavent, and has nothing to do with the situation...There is nothing I can do about the situation, and have made progress in not giving a fuck about what has happened... I just thought other people may have input or a similar story, and thats the reason behind this thread.
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Old 2007-06-29, 20:23
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I just thought other people may have input or a similar story, and thats the reason behind this thread.

The same thing has happenned to me a couple times. I find it interesting more than amazing, at this point.

I was linked to a blog by someone with one girl and I asked another one about her sexual history and she wrote me out a list. It was an impressive list; I've yet to meet a girl that can come even close to her list.

I told the girl that I was shown the blog and she got upset. It wasn't a big deal to me. Her number was only in the 20's.

The girl I asked about her history with used to be an escort. She kept careful track of all the men she was with each week. She took time and wrote me out a list. Her number was staggeringly high, but she's a nice girl; we were never more than friends.
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Old 2007-06-29, 20:40
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lolz, mine never had anything before me
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1st kiss n everything up cept sex. yey!

Shoot.
That means youve never gotten to experience the ANGERMad that is programmed into our minds genetically.
Its a very strange feelings.
Its like a sinking feeling in your gut and you just feel, betrayed, abondonden, and ANGRYMad
Even tho you KNOW that it was in the past and all...
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Old 2007-06-29, 20:50
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Shoot.
That means youve never gotten to experience the ANGERMad that is programmed into our minds genetically.
Its a very strange feelings.
Its like a sinking feeling in your gut and you just feel, betrayed, abondonden, and ANGRYMad
Even tho you KNOW that it was in the past and all...

oh? haha. well then.
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Old 2007-06-29, 21:01
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I don't find it hypocritical...I'm not the type of person to sleep with ton's of girls...In fact it's probably only 30 girls I have had any sexual relationship with...



Strange use of the word 'only' there.
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Old 2007-06-29, 21:23
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I don't find it hypocritical...I'm not the type of person to sleep with ton's of girls...In fact it's probably only 30 girls I have had any sexual relationship with...


Are you lying?

This thread just reeks of lyeyness. Mad

85 men is alot of fuck for one girl. 30 women is waaaay more fuck than your average totse male could ever consider getting.
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Old 2007-06-30, 00:01
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The hypocrisy of this thread fair takes my breath away!

If YOU had slept with 85 girls in your teenage years you'd have a t-shirt made up in day-glo proclaiming the fact and you'd a kept a pair of knickers from each girl as 'proof' of your virility in case any of your mates doubted your role as an ivory rainbow sex god.
Bullshit!

Ive slept with my fair share of random girls, and I can't say Ive kept a record, never mind something to remember them by.

If a young fella has slept with 80+ girls, he's a dirty bastard just as a young girl who has slept with 80+ fellas is a dirty cunt. Once you get to a certain stage, there's no respect.
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