See, one of my closest friends is a girl. We tell each other everything, except for the fact that I really like her. I mean, we both say I love you and shit like that to one another, but I've never actually told her that I'm seriously into her. She has a boyfriend right now who's 4-5 years older than her, and the only reason she's going out with him is because she feels bad. See, he's a big pussybitch who starts crying and shit in public. It's pittysex, basically, without the sex (She's still a virgin).

Recently though he's been pressing her to do shit she doesn't want to, sex, skipping school (We're pretty young, 15), etc. We talk alot, but recently we've been doing alot of stuff together (Which isn't actually stuff at all, like yesterday we just watched movies all day), and the whole time we were more together and she was really friendly towards me (She's usually not very open at all to anyone).

I've liked her for a long time, almost as long as I've known her. And for a while it seemed like I wasn't going anywhere and just reduced myself to being her friend. Then I started to see her more after a few months of, well, minimal contact, and started to have feelings for her again. When we would talk she'd let things slip, like when she was being sarcastic she was like, "Oh yeah, your girlfriend is _____" or some shit, and then catch herself and giggle. She did that atleast 3 times within half an hour too.

Like, when we were watching one of the movies, she sat down beside me instead of the other, larger couch, and snuggled up beside me with a blanket and spent most of the time smiling at me instead of watching the movie. Or when we were in the kitchen trying to read directions for something, she was right behind me trying to read the box as well (I'm 6'2 she's 5'0) and all she ended up doing was pressing up against me. Trust me, pressing is noticable (Big boobs FTW)...

So, totse, is she into me? If so, do I try to get with her or wait until her boyfriend and her break up? (Wow, some bad mo'fuckin' english in that sentance) I don't want to ruin the friendship we have, that's the other thing.

Get with her now. Been there, done that, the best bet is to get her now before her boyfriend takes a good hold. From the looks of it, she wants you, and I'm telling you to go for it because you seem to have a shot, and also because as a Totsean, I automatically like you more than her boyfriend, who seems like a douche anyway.

Disregard everyone who tells you otherwise.

You said you're 6'2. Hopefully muscular. If her boyfriend starts any shit, feel free to kick his ass.

Thanks, and holy shit does this forum have quick repliers. Yeah, her boyfriend is a dick, and honestly, she's really only with him out of guilt and because he buys her things (which she's told me. Between us, she uses him for money).

He's 6'4, but apparently he looks like he just came from Auschwitz - ie, snappable skinny. I think I might just kick his ass anyway.

Yes she's 'into' you. But you do nothing until she breaks up with her boyfriend. Do not make her your whore by getting her to cheat on him. Show her that respect.

However due to the fact you are really close friends you can tell her how you feel and ask her, if she feels the same way, to ditch him.

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I'm not forcing her to do anything she doesn't want to. But she's probably going to be over here tomorrow so I guess I'll talk to her about it then. Thanks guys.

Hopefully you get this:

the number one thing I tell people is be confident

Know what you're going to say, and say it clear, vocal, and audible. No uuums, or "I'm not sure how to say this" just express how you feel, and be non-chalant, and play it cool.

If you are really how you sound, she'll be glad to have an excuse to ditch her Auschwitz patient and go with you.

Just be CONFIDENT!

She's 5'0???
Omg...thats hawt!
That shouldn't turn me on as much as it does.
But short girls fucking ARE hotter.
My girlfriend is 5'1, I'm 6'7

Next time she does something that could be considered cute, be like:
"Hey, your making a good impression today, Im gonna trust you and give you a almost-kiss"
(which is exactly what it sounds like)
Bring your face close to hers with your lips somewhat opened like you're going for a kiss, but just leave it there.
She'll probably give in and kiss you the second or third time you give her an almost-kiss.

or....

Here's another cute one.
You:"You have fake eyelashes"
Her:"no i dont"
Y: you so do, close your eyes
h: *closes eyes
Y: *kiss

Thanks, I'm usually a really confident guy but I sometimes just need a little push. Thanks for your help.

Haha, they always are man, they always are

Jackketch is a really good guy, and always listen to him, but ask yourself:

Would you rather be noble, and girlfriend less, or a total badass who "stole" a girl you liked from someone, and now you two are enjoying yourselves?

The girl doesn't sound like a saint though, so just make sure to keep an eye on her, if you know what I mean.

Other than that, enjoy yourselves, best of luck, and take care.