I'm starting to think about this lately. I've just noticed that time after time, some girl is expressing her discontent with me when I have at least not knowingly done anything to warrant it. I've actually had one girl who's openly said to my face I hate you, and your so weird etc. Girls are always giving me filthy looks.
The other day I was sitting in class and I was facing someone talking to them. The teacher told me to turn around so instead of turning the chair I just turned around so I was sitting 'backwards' on the chair and payed attention to the front of the class but my body was facing girls sitting in like an L shape right in front of me. My friend came to me afterwards saying 'dude all the chicks seriously hate you, so-and-so was telling me that she was seriously getting scared of you because you were sitting like that on your chair and you were staring at them and you had your hands down near your crotch.
I had my hands near my lap..as you naturally do when you sit like that. I was staring ahead of me into space..its just things like this, where I act naturally doing mundane things with no meaning behind it and girls hate me for it. Other then that they just ignore me and act like I don't exist.
No female has ever really taken any kind of interest in me like talking to me for more then a couple of minutes max let alone hitting on me or anything like that. I've never had a female friend because of how badly they get along with me....its kind of hard to make friends with someone when they either hate you, ignore you, or both.
I could understand if I was hideous, a creep, or both. But I'm neither. I get people telling me I should be a model and stuff, I've had alot of girls say I'm good looking and compliment me. You might say that contradicts everything I've just said but, this has only been said behind my back. Compliments made to my face happen in the short moments girls have talked to me. And I've had a girl compliment me alot, to the point where she was pretty much hitting on me, and then when I kept talking to her she completely ignored me, not brushing me off or acting uninterested, but actually acting as though I was not there at all. That doesn't make sense to me, I don't understand it, but thats what happens.

I know how you feel, that happens to me sometimes. I have no idea what I did wrong, but some girl just hates me. It doesn't happen that much anymore, but I know exactly how you must feel. Maybe its just a certain type of girls that your paying attention to? Maybe your just paying attention to girls that are all 'fake', and your just too 'real'? Not the best example but you get what I mean.

You're in school.
Someone has to be the underdog, the one everyone mocks and treats like shit.
It seems the girls have chosen you. :(

Fortunately school is such a small insignificant period of your life, soon you'll be outta there where you'll meet sensible girls who've actually grown up and dont act like fucking spoilt bitchy mall brats all the time.

i pity you
that seems really harsh...you sound like a guy at my school
but he is just plain creepy
scrub that
you seem alright? im female! and i dont hate your guts

girls are fucked. they'll be the reason i eventually kill myself or someone else.

Ey!


You shouldnt take your own life because a female got you down. Humans can be weak and petty creatures, that's no reason to self destruct.

Ey!


You shouldnt take your own life because a female got you down. Humans can be weak and petty creatures, that's no reason to self destruct.

ok, so maybe i'm exaggerating just a little bit (i hope). i'm getting sick of putting time and energy into someone who i think i care about only to have them turn around and basically break my heart once i'm already in waist deep. i'm sure everyone here is already sick of me hijacking every thread i post in, but i've had a rough year relationship-wise. real rough.

my advice is to live your life for yourself and focus on your own personal well-being. fuck what females think. be yourself, stick to your real friends and live your life for yourself and no one else. much easier said than done. BELIEVE ME, i know. just give it a shot. i'm really trying to do the same thing right as well. i could very easily be moping around in some deep depression but really i'm just trying not to feel worse than i already do.

yeah i have a similar problem with people ignoring me
ive put it down to pheromones
the same way some people ooze sex others must ooze hatred or ignorance
sad fact im afraid

i guess if you just assume that 99% of humanity is worthless, you'll rarely ever be disappointed or even concerned with the actions or opinion of others.

well its probably me what school do you go to

Fortunately school is such a small insignificant period of your life, soon you'll be outta there where you'll meet sensible girls who've actually grown up and dont act like fucking spoilt bitchy mall brats all the time.

No, they basically stay like that the rest of their lives.

Sounds like you have a case of Conor-itis (a syndrome coined after myself). This is where you're good looking and attractive.. until you start speaking. At this point, you blow your chances.

It takes time to get over this, but judging by my performance in a bar last night, it is doable. Just get in a habit of talking to girls, make a few as friends first.