Ok, so there's this girl I like (pretty sure she likes me too) and I see her everyday at the pool and we hang out at the pool. So my plan is to obviously ask her out. However, I am leaving for a camp for 6 weeks on Sunday (1st), and she is leaving for Spain the 4th. I will be returning the 12th of August, and her, the 8th.

So she couldn't really do anything for that month she is away.

Should I ask her out before or after I leave, and if so, to were? Or should I ask to go out when we get back?

I would really appreciate some help:)

Thats a tough question. I would say ask her out now before she gets taken away by some spanish dude while she stays in Spain.

Do it now, you'll be dying in anticipation for when you get back.

Or, you could wait until after, in case you might meet someone at camp.

Guess that wasn't much help, was it?

i agree w/ stealth bio. id do it now.

ok, I guess I'll b doing it in the next few days, so should I ask he to a movie, ice cream,... or ask her to come over for supper on Saturday, since I will be leaving the next day?

Shitty situation. Sorry, go with whatever feels better. I'd say sooner rather than later, though... otherwise you'll end up regretting it.

Can you really trust her to be faithfull whilst she's gone? can you trust you?

Those spanish guys can be really slimy,charming pushy bastards.


I really dont know what to advise. :(
If you do it now you run the risk of being cheated on. If you do it when she gets back, it might be too late and someone else might have got her.

And 6 weeks is an awfully long time away from someone you're going out with.

Tough call......weigh the pros and cons already given and make your own choice.

Put your feelings out in the open, so you;re not really going out, but she is inclined not to find some one else. then it'll be all good when you return. *lets the good times roll*

But it's your choise so do whatever feels right.

She's going with her family, so that's a little reassuring, and I can trust her

then do it now

for if 6 weeks time does not come (for whatever reason), you will surely regret this.

take the opportunity while it's there friend.