I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging. I am pretty good guy. Lots of chicks think I real good looking, im funny, im nice. Of course there is a catch: I was a huge loser in high school not to mention a pussy that people used as a punching bag. Naturally I still have lots of hang-ups and insecurites.

So here's the deal I meet this really hot chick, shes got the conceited attitude, the look, the coolness. I talk to her a little bit, we start having sex. Not long after we are a couple, and she starts bringing me around her friends. Now this is a girl that went to my high school we didnt know each other then but all her friends knew me and they start telling her im a loser, a bitch, a nerd. you name. So she kinda lets some of the word word on the street be heard by me. I grow to resent her friends and her.
Long story short things get really ugly and I curse her and her friends, we break up.

Has this happened to anyone else? Do you guys think it is ok for a girl not to respect her boyfriend because noone else does? Do you think a lot of women just prey off insecure guys like? please discuss, this ordeal is really bothering me.

Not really Im just too nice and sweet to have people hate me.

I don't mean to sound like I'm bragging. I am pretty good guy. Lots of chicks think I real good looking, im funny, im nice. Of course there is a catch: I was a huge loser in high school not to mention a pussy that people used as a punching bag. Naturally I still have lots of hang-ups and insecurites.

So here's the deal I meet this really hot chick, shes got the conceited attitude, the look, the coolness. I talk to her a little bit, we start having sex. Not long after we are a couple, and she starts bringing me around her friends. Now this is a girl that went to my high school we didnt know each other then but all her friends knew me and they start telling her im a loser, a bitch, a nerd. you name. So she kinda lets some of the word word on the street be heard by me. I grow to resent her friends and her.
Long story short things get really ugly and I curse her and her friends, we break up.

Has this happened to anyone else? Do you guys think it is ok for a girl not to respect her boyfriend because noone else does? Do you think a lot of women just prey off insecure guys like? please discuss, this ordeal is really bothering me.cheer up I still like you. come over my apartment to have some fun. there there...

What do you mean by " she kinda lets some of the word word on the street be heard by me."?

I was loser in Jr. High, in highschool I was basically a god.

The point is: the points you are at in life will vary according to where you are and what kind of person you are. If you're a good person, it will show through in things that happen to you and how you manage them. If you're a bad person, the same rules apply. You can't let previous insecurities ruin the relationships you have. Let it die, man.

Well just act how you are now and show them you're not this little geek/nerd, but someone who people now love and like and can speak to.

All I did was read this thread's title and lol

im just going to say, sucks your past follows you, and it defiantly isnt/wasnt right of the chick to do that.

the end.

Fuck 'em. If they're going to hold it against you that you weren't accepted in high school, just don't hang around with them. Although I'm getting on my high horse, I'm probably more than likely guilty of the same thing.

just pulll a stunt or something and beat some guy up from high school or start selling PCP or something. Shouldn't have let people push you around in high school I guess. Tell her people change...

How can you possibly have a relationship with someone who doesn't respect you?

molotov everyone.


seriously though, if you cant do anything about it dont worry about it. If the girl judges you by what other people say, shes a bitch.




then again.... molotov everyone

I agree with Getoffmylawn, just go grab a bat and beat the fuck out off all the guys that made fun off you in school. Then theyll be 2 scared to talk shit about you. And this happened to me to once but i just dumped her, and if she listens to all the past bullshit about you then she aint worth it. In the long shot you did the right thing.

Chances are, you are still young. That being said, don't worry about it. You have plenty of time to find that one special woman who thinks the world of you reguardless of your past. Just you wait... you'll see I'm right.