so i went out on the weekend...i drank a little too much..and before i knew it was holding this chick in my arms out in some field. She asked me if i liked her friend (which i did) so i said yes. She then told me that girl didn't like me back. from that point i was hurt and pretty much didn't give a shit. so i kissed her for a bit in the field

the next morning i found out they were best friends. the girl i had kissed told the girl i liked. turns out she liked me alot more than i first thought..she said we need some time not talking. things maybe able to go back to what they were before..but this will always be there. question. HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE A GIRL TO GET OVER THIS!!?

in case there was any confusion reading that. i'll put this. lol
STATUS WITH GIRL I KISSED: we have no feelings for each other. and no grudges. we both played a part

STATUS WITH GIRL I LIKE: its been 2 days not talking, i apologized. she said she needs space. and this really does hurt

From personal experience, a girl saying she wants space is usually just trying to save your feelings while she breaks up with you. Ouch.

But given that you didn't have a pre-existing relationship with this chick, I'm not so sure...

Have fun with that..

Ok when of the first things you need to learn in life is NEVER BELIEVE, LISTEN TO OR GIVE CREDENCE TO ANYTHING HER FRIEND(S) SAY!

Second rule is NEVER BELIEVE ANYTHING YOUR MATE(S) SAY ABOUT HER.

People can be real nasty and none more so than her so-called friends.

Motion seconded.

Give her a shout today or tomorrow asking her out, then give up if it fails.

I third the motion, and envy the shiny red text.

I would tell her straight out exactly how her 'best friend' tricked me. Blunt and to the point. If she believed me, good. If she didn't, fine.

i made the mistake of taking all the blame upon myself, and taking it like a man. i kind of regret that now. but oh well. i'll try tell her, if i get the chance to talk to her again.

YES!


Then she'll realise the fact that women are tricksy, manipulative bitches. And that men suck and will go for any port in a storm.


What?
You went for her friend when you thought the one you wanted didnt like you!

YES!


What?
You went for her friend when you thought the one you wanted didnt like you!

i was a little on the drunk side. i didn't realize they were 'BEST FRIENDS' till the next morning.

maybe im getting what i deserve from this...and need to stop bitching, and take it like a fucking man.

Its a mod thang.

(seriously if you don't know then its [highlight] )

maybe im getting what i deserve from this...and need to stop bitching, and take it like a fucking man.


No, you got tricked by a woman. You dont need to feel bad or suck it up.

Go to the girl you like and tell her that her friend said she didnt like you and then proceeded to rape you. Cry a bit and look pitifull like a puppy. That allways works.

No, you got tricked by a woman. You dont need to feel bad or suck it up.

Go to the girl you like and tell her that her friend said she didnt like you and then proceeded to rape you. Cry a bit and look pitifull like a puppy. That allways works.

BUT...the only question is WHEN?

BUT...the only question is WHEN?

How soon do you want to get laid?

How soon do you want to get laid?

haha now that did put a smile on my face.

ASAP!! i like your thinking.

And the world is right again.

If only

If only

Oh come on man, you know what to do. Stick up for yourself, believe in yourself. You're not in the wrong here. That bitch who tricked you is.

You gotta let that girl you like know that you were manipulated, and how you feel. And don't worry if it doesn't come off, because the best way to pull something off is to not care if it works or not!

Don't worry man. You blame that bitch who tricked you, and blame her to your heart. She's a fucking cold-blooded manipulator intentionally sabotaging a potential relationship between you and her best friend, quite possibly because she's a lesbian, definitely cos she's a bitch.

You didn't fuck this up man, she did. So fuck her, and replace your sadness with a deep, fucking hatred.

It's worth doing. You will win.

Before i start i did not read any of the replies so i'm proberly repeating someone else. But anyway, I find the easiest way is to not talk to her and shel most proberly start wondering and start talking to you.

-[[Hidden secrets]]-

Not sure how many are for the motion yet, but I'm on the bandwagon too. If it fails, move on. No use worrying your life away over some chick.

Exactly what I was going to say, I second this.

well i told her, she did seem a bit happier afterwards, and said we'll talk later. we won't see/talk to each other for a week because we are both going away. that time might be good, to get over all this.

the other bitch reckons i was making her feel guilty and feel like shit. but i dont really give a fuck about her, she got me into this mess.

hopefully things will be ok, from here on in =] thanks all. i can always count on totse.

No Adivce to give, but I hope it all goes well :)