So i'm probably gonna be fucking a virgin soon(i'm a guy), never done it with a virgin, and i need to know, do I need to put a towel down on my bed; how bad is the mess when the hymen breaks?
Fast responses would be helpful, she'll be here in 45 mins, thanks.

so how'd it go?

Your a virgin yourself I bet -_- otherwise you would know most virgins, even though they are virgins, do not have their hymen. It is broken through other methods other than sex, other methods can include:

Tampons
A hard fall
a split
riding a bike(depending on the bike and hardness it could happen)
..and the ever so popular: Fingering herself

So, even though she may be a virgin...likelyness that she has her hymen is little

Your a virgin yourself I bet -_- otherwise you would know most virgins, even though they are virgins, do not have their hymen. It is broken through other methods other than sex, other methods can include:

Tampons
A hard fall
a split
riding a bike(depending on the bike and hardness it could happen)
..and the ever so popular: Fingering herself


wow all that can break it?

i asked a highschool junior if her hymen was still intact and she said it was. in the 'rare' case that it is still intact, what should one expect when having sex?

i asked a highschool junior if her hymen was still intact and she said it was. in the 'rare' case that it is still intact, what should one expect when having sex?

depends on the girl and how it is broken, it can be anywhere from only a light bleed that goes away very quickly, or a very heavy bleed that will last long after sex is over.

If he is gentle, it shouldn't be to bad.

Also:...a junior with a hymen still intact is..like .. erm WOW. That means she like never masterbated..ever, or if she did she only rubbed her clit

Can a girl break her hymen just from being fingered??

How far in is the damn thing anyways??

Your a virgin yourself I bet -_- otherwise you would know most virgins, even though they are virgins, do not have their hymen.

This doesn't even make sense! How does knowing nothing about a female virgin somehow make a man likely to be one? He just hasn't fucked a virgin. Fucking girls with no hymen will in no way give you special insight into the likeliness of a virgin having her hymen intact or not!

Only virgin I ever fucked was a horse rider. Her hymen was long gone.

Advice? Finger her first and see if she has one.

this herb didn't even hit it. look at him. you can jus fucking tell. he'd be bragging if it were true.

Only virgin I ever fucked was a horse rider.

Is it just me or is the thought of girls riding horses really hot?
Was she good at sex?

Is it just me or is the thought of girls riding horses really hot?
Was she good at sex?

Decent, she was inexperienced. But she was an amazing kisser (mainly because I taught her).

So, it is the hymen rupturing that causes the pain the first time, right? This female friend of mine was hinting towards getting together sometime. She said something about not really caring anymore and that the first time will suck anyway, so may as well get it over with. She's still a virgin, but she likes riding horses. And to the person who said that that is hot. I agree. So, if this pans out, I'm curious how it will be.

Indeed, a majority of the pain comes from the breaking of the hymen. However, pain can/will also come from how large of a penis your trying to stuff into a virgin and how tight she is.

As this varies from girl to girl who knows how painful it will be to her. Just be gentle, girls always remember there first time and compare it to pretty much everything else so make sure its good! :P

Yeah, that may be an issue. This girl said she masterbates sometimes, so she can't be super tight I would guess. But, I'm 7 1/2in long measuring along the side, without straightening the bend out (my penis curves up a little for some reason), and little over a couple inches wide. Would that be a problem, you think? If so, I'm guessing more foreplay than usual? (whatever usual would be?)

Indeed, a majority of the pain comes from the breaking of the hymen. However, pain can/will also come from how large of a penis your trying to stuff into a virgin and how tight she is.

As this varies from girl to girl who knows how painful it will be to her. Just be gentle, girls always remember there first time and compare it to pretty much everything else so make sure its good! :P

What would you reccommend for a girl who says "ow" if you put 2 fingers in? Or 3 if she's really wet.

What would you reccommend for a girl who says "ow" if you put 2 fingers in? Or 3 if she's really wet.

Wrong hole?

What would you reccommend for a girl who says "ow" if you put 2 fingers in? Or 3 if she's really wet.

I would say only use one finger until she gets lose enough so she doesn't say ow with two and refrain from using three. Girls don't just get pleasure from how much to stuff inside them. Just be gentle and ask what she wants.

Yeah, that may be an issue. This girl said she masterbates sometimes, so she can't be super tight I would guess. But, I'm 7 1/2in long measuring along the side, without straightening the bend out (my penis curves up a little for some reason), and little over a couple inches wide. Would that be a problem, you think? If so, I'm guessing more foreplay than usual? (whatever usual would be?)

A little more foreplay would be great. It really helps to loosen the girl up. And even though she masterbates she probably only use two fingers, which in most cases is only one "guy" finger(becuase most guys have bigger hands/finger than girls). So she can indeed still be supertight. Much foreplay and being gentle when actually inserting and if she says ow when going in ask if she wants to continue. Pain can be a super turn off to some women and will make them say no faster than you get get 1/2inch in.

Remember: If you please them they WILL be back for more :P

I would say only use one finger until she gets lose enough so she doesn't say ow with two and refrain from using three. Girls don't just get pleasure from how much to stuff inside them. Just be gentle and ask what she wants.



A little more foreplay would be great. It really helps to loosen the girl up. And even though she masterbates she probably only use two fingers, which in most cases is only one "guy" finger(becuase most guys have bigger hands/finger than girls). So she can indeed still be supertight. Much foreplay and being gentle when actually inserting and if she says ow when going in ask if she wants to continue. Pain can be a super turn off to some women and will make them say no faster than you get get 1/2inch in.

Remember: If you please them they WILL be back for more :P

Alright, thanks for the advice.
And that is the plan. She's a good friend of mine, so I really want to make sure I make it good for her. She's an amazing girl.