so, im just wondering out of curiosity, am i good looking? here's me and my g/f, and well, my g/f of course calls me cute, but im her b/f? so im just wondering, am i actually even a little bit cute? i have a low self esteem naturally so i cant really judge myself honestly. -.-
http://i15.tinypic.com/4z9kpkj.jpg
http://i18.tinypic.com/6aj6mo8.jpg
http://i12.tinypic.com/6f83mh3.jpg
and yes, i know. im white. -.- very white. -.-
n that's my g/f for the others who read my other thread.
=D she'sa cutie eh?

She looks way too good for you, although I really don't know you. That's just my first impression.

mm you look better without glasses, cute even

hah. i know she looks too good for me. =P
thats just a given fact.

you are not a bad looking white boy....or should i say pasty boy?...but your girl looks very very young

d'oh, we're both 16. and speaking of pastey...
http://i16.tinypic.com/62t0pzp.jpg
i love that x.x =P

I'd probably fuck you in the ass.

I can't really say if your good looking or not (not gay).

But if you want image improvements I could give you a few if you want.

hit me. not hit on me. but do tell?

Keep the straightened hair, curly hair never looks good. You look fine with straightened hair.

d'oh x.x did a gay man say he wanted my butt? =/ lmao? ehh...
=P

that's what i think, but girly friend always wants it curled? beats me? and my mom always ask me why i make it uncurly at times and says its better curled -.- meh. so the curls have to stay to avoid questions from mom, and since girly likes it. -.- lol.

d'oh x.x did a gay man say he wanted my butt? =/ lmao? ehh...
=P

Gay guys and girls usually have good friendships, him liking you is the next step. Don't worry about it.

Gay guys and girls usually have good friendships, him liking you is the next step. Don't worry about it.

im notta girl though? x.x
maybe im reading this wrong?

keep your curly hair, ditch the glasses and voila! done! maybe dress sharp

what does dress sharp include? and i only wear my glasses on days im too lazy to put on my contacts. lol.

what does dress sharp include? and i only wear my glasses on days im too lazy to put on my contacts. lol.

no faded maroon polo shirts
classy, smart, fashionable, whaeeer

no faded maroon polo shirts


Haha, SNAP!

Lose the glasses. I've never seen a guy who wears glasses and it actually works for him. If you can get contacts, don't miss out. I used to wear glasses, and life is much better without them.

To girls, hair is everything. Girls will randomly come up to you and play with your hair if you have NICE hair. Try growing it out this summer and see how it looks long if you've never seen it long before. Take a picture of your hair now if you need to. Finding a hairstyle that fits you can be a bitch, but its worth it.

Get a tan also. Its surprising easy to do, and works well with women.

Working out is also a benefit. I'm a skinny motherfucker and gaining weight is impossible for me since I have a super fast metabolism. But, even if you can't gain weight to build muscle, you can still tone your body. You have it lucky, since you run cross country, your lower body should be in pretty good shape. If you can, try to go to a gym, or if you have any weights at home, lift at home. Try to do it 3 times a week if you can.

And lastly, clothes matter. You gotta remember, women are all about the image. They are so obsessed with themselves that they will put make up on their faces even when they aren't going out looking for guys. Now, I'm not telling you to dress any certain way. It all depends on the persons body and their own self image. If you had 30 shirts in front of you, and they were all different styles of shirts, try to imagine which one would look best on you. Ask your parents to go clothes shopping sometime, even if you don't need new clothes, because women will notice if you wear the same 3 shirts every week.


You don't have to listen to any of this. I'm really self conscious so those are the big points that I look at when I look at myself in the mirror lol.

no faded maroon polo shirts
classy, smart, fashionable, whaeeer

lol. i had to wear gay maroon, because it was for school. =P
but i like to wear tuxs, does that count? ^.^

Lose the glasses. I've never seen a guy who wears glasses and it actually works for him. If you can get contacts, don't miss out. I used to wear glasses, and life is much better without them.

To girls, hair is everything. Girls will randomly come up to you and play with your hair if you have NICE hair. Try growing it out this summer and see how it looks long if you've never seen it long before. Take a picture of your hair now if you need to. Finding a hairstyle that fits you can be a bitch, but its worth it.

Get a tan also. Its surprising easy to do, and works well with women.

Working out is also a benefit. I'm a skinny motherfucker and gaining weight is impossible for me since I have a super fast metabolism. But, even if you can't gain weight to build muscle, you can still tone your body. You have it lucky, since you run cross country, your lower body should be in pretty good shape. If you can, try to go to a gym, or if you have any weights at home, lift at home. Try to do it 3 times a week if you can.

And lastly, clothes matter. You gotta remember, women are all about the image. They are so obsessed with themselves that they will put make up on their faces even when they aren't going out looking for guys. Now, I'm not telling you to dress any certain way. It all depends on the persons body and their own self image. If you had 30 shirts in front of you, and they were all different styles of shirts, try to imagine which one would look best on you.


You don't have to listen to any of this. I'm really self conscious so those are the big points that I look at when I look at myself in the mirror lol.

lol. no tan, i cant get them, seriously, justa skin problem ig, and i dont want a fake one, and my g/f hates tan people. -.- and im fit, =P u cant really tell from the pics, but i have a nice muscular body. =D
i run marathons and do triathalons, so under the clothes. ;) its not so bad, if you can get over the whiteness.
and the shirt -.- itsa i had to wear it thing. =P
and i can wear contacts anytime, just whether im too lazy or not. heh.

thats fuckin bullshit, loads of blokes look alright with curly hair.

You're not a bad looking guy, not ugly, if a girl liked you she could find you cute, as your gf obviously does it's not hard to understand why.

You ain't no Brad Pitt but you'll be alright.

Well, go for the contacts. It makes a HUGE difference.

lol, k. i never thought glasses n contacts made a difference? =P

You ain't no Brad Pitt but you'll be alright.


*i wish* lol.

You look Jewish. Definitely try to straighten your hair and get contacts. Neither of you are particularly attractive, but you gotta work with what you've got.

It does.


Keep the straightened hair, curly hair never looks good. You look fine with straightened hair.

I'll also say bullshit, buts thats because when my hair gets long, its gets REALLY curly. And the women love it lol. I buzzed it this year, and girls just kept walking up to me and asking why I did it.

The Curly Q's

http://img61.imageshack.us/img61/9449/67324912ab6.jpg

This was when totse really sucked.

K guys, there are few things that have been bothering me. I can be somewhat of a neurotic mod so I'm letting it all hang out here. These are just some suggestions and are by no means new "rules". [Edited for Glitter]

1. I think most will agree on this: Make the topic title relevent to what the thread is about. Ambiguous topics such as "What should I do?" and "WTF?" leave no hint as to what the thread is about and does not make anyone want to click on it. I'm not asking for a summary here, just a general direction as to what the hell I'd be getting myself into if I click on your thread. The more specific you can be with the least amount of words is a plus in my book.

2. "Owned", "pwned" or any other one word, repetative, unnecessary, and uh... un-contributive (yes I'm making up words here) posts are annoying. Granted, it's not so big a problem that I have to go deleting all one word posts but really.. come on guys: PWNED! is freaking annoying. On occassion, when used right, it can be sort of funny but it's WAY overused.

3. Archived Threads: S&A archives are pathetic. Mainly due to the fact that Wintermute, Spiffy, and myself never archived anything despite all the great threads we've had. Cindy was the one who took initiative and more than once I've linked to a certain, "Oral sex is sex" thread. So, obviously, a more comprehensive archive would help a lot in diminishing the number of topics that come up once a week. That being said, when I do archive something, I'm going to delete any extraneous posts in the thread. Don't get your panties in a bunch when you see your "PWND!" reply to a birth control thread no longer exists. I deleted it, future totse generations don't need to be reminded of its idiotic ancestors. If it seriously detracts from the threads "flow", it's gone.

I *did* have a semblence of a FAQ on Zok's site that I've linked to a few times. Don't know where it went; I have it saved so here's the important parts:

Your thread will be locked or moved if you: 1. Ask us to rate you. If you want to be told you're ugly there's already a thread that I'll bump every once in a while so you can post your mug in there.

2. Are using totse as a dating service. Not only will you look like a desperate fool, you'll be flamed and still be jackin' it tonight.

3. Ask for naked pictures of posters. Totse isn't into the whole kiddie porn thing.

4. Are bitching about your other closed thread.

5. Ask for free porn links or passwords. This isn't Porn and Affection! The Sex Archives are your friend.

6. Ask an idiotic question that can easily be Googled. For example, threads like, "What's a clit?" and "Who's a Grafenburg?" will be locked with a link that you should have seen in the FAQ.

7. Lie about your 9 inch e-penis and ask us if it's normal for a 13 year old. You'll get a link to Suzie's Penis FAQ and a flame.

Annoying Threads:Threads asking opinions on breast size, shaved v. unshaved, cut v. uncut are annoying.Threads bragging about how many bitches you fucked last night are annoying and not impressive.

Nothing's set in stone, mind you. These are loose guidelines. The amount of repetition is exhaustive and annoying. For the most part, S&A is a great forum with some awesome posters, but as Cindy has said to me before, it could be better. The last thing I want to do is be a "Nazi mod". You all can disagree and call me a cunt all you want, that's fine, but don't help deteriorate S&A and, in turn, &totse! I've been lax in the past but we've all had to bring in the reigns a little lately.

(Hence the neurotic disclaimer/forewarning)

Cindy and Pyscho: Any input, additions, subtractions are welcome.

Truth be told I'd rather *not* lock threads. The little locky thing is an eyesore!

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