Normally I wouldn't really care about her shit, because it's not my problem etc, but maybe I'm getting soft in my old age... either that I've got like a week left to see this girl and 1) I'd rather her not be whining all the time and 2) I'd like her to be confident enough about her bod to let me have some.

But yeah, there's this girl, who really doesn't have a problem with her body but manages to convince herself she does, a lot. I don't know if she even means it or if she just wants the attention / constant reassurance that she's really fine, but you know, I'd like to say the right thing.

First time I took the piss a bit cos I thought she was fishing for a compliment and I don't think it helped.

So when she's all "boo hoo I'm fat," "boo hoo I'm ugly," or "boo hoo I'm fat and ugly" - what can I say to her to kind of lift her? Without being a soppy cunt.

Thanks in advance.

irdc, i hate it when girls at school, just friend ones, ask me if they look fat, or if their hair is super messed up, or if they dyed it how bad it makes them look, or how fake their tan they have looks, etc. im always clueless on what to say. and pretend i dont hear them...lol.
sorry!

don't even btoher

guggughhghg

prolly wants attention and just ugh, i aht that shittt

Tell her she looks fine, and compliment her. Tell her she looks so fine, in fact, that you would be willing to take her to bed with you. You should inform her that this is a rather exclusive club.

absofuckingloutley not

one thing you will come to realize is that women will never trade sex for advice and counceling etc.

if you want to get in her pants the last thing you want to do is become her girl friend

I don't know.. being a person who has been insecure for quite a long time in her life, I don't know if anyone telling me anything would have made me NOT insecure. But obviously, telling her that she's beautiful and perfect and stuff will help get her through, if you say it enough. And you know, brag about her in front of your friends, saying it loud enough so that she can hear but pretend you don't know that. Stuff like that.

Mmm, maybe...

...but if she is just fishing for compliments, bearing in mind there really is nothing wrong with her (well there is, just she doesn't seem to notice her *actual* faults), then me going on about her perfect she is etc is likely just going to take my trousers off and put them on her, if you get me.

I want to walk the line between being her bitch and her acting like an insecure bitch. I'm doubting whether this is actually possible?

forget her self esteem problem, and think about *your* her self esteem problem.

run away screaming.

why would you want to help girls with insecurity problems? Correct me if I'm wrong buy aren't insecure girls the fucking easiest pieces? If she's insecure about her body tell her you can make her feel a whole lot better.

And post a pic so I can get a point of referance.