And now all I want to do is cry and drink and get drunk and get fucked up on any drug I can. I made possibly the biggest mistake of my life, and it probably seems small, but this girl was my best friend that I have ever had, and I fucked it up.

I told her that I really fancyed her, cos I do, but its never mattered before and still doesnt, cos at various times shes fancyed me madly as well, and we had a thing once, didnt work out, and we went back to just being very good friends.

But this morning I was slightly hungover and very pissed off, so I asked her what the point of us being friends was anymore. And I basically fell out with her big time just because I'm a cunt.

I dont know if Im very upset because I lost a very good friend, or because I made her upset. And know I dont know what to do, as in, I proper made a huge mistake, and she wont accept an apology.

And I dont know what to do, cos I can only think about her and losing her as a friend and not speaking to her again, and its fucked up, and I just wanna get fucked up and forget it all. I really regret doing it, more than anything I have ever done in my life.

Meh, I sometimes get in fights with friends. It's not really that big of a deal. If you two were truly friends, you'll get back together. If not, it's your fault. It's hard to give a better answer without more details and background info.

It looks like you were hungover and pissed off so that's why you had a falling out? That doesn't sound like a very good reason to me...

Seriously, an apology goes a long way.

You say its hopeless to apologise, but just try.


Send her a text, or ring her, or better yet corner her somewhere where she HAS to talk to her and say you're really sorry for what you said. You were in a bad mood and shit.



It won't fix things straight away, but it shows that you didn't mean it.

If you just say you feel really bad, then I'm sure she's a good enough friend to realise it



Might take TIME though. Time is always a bitch.

I asked her what the point of us being friends was anymore.

Ouch. Bad bad. Bad.

She's probably reeling with hurt that you implied your friendship was worth nothing if she wasnt going to fuck you.


It's going to take more than a 'I'm sorry'. It's going to take more than a bunch of flowers and a chocolate cake.

Maybe a combination of those with something else might work. As the above poster said, take the time to go out of your way to appologise to her, meet her as she finishes work or find her in her lunch break.



I have to admit, I'd be pretty fucking pissed, too.

Good luck.

tell her your seriously sorry, and you didnt really mean it, and you were just hurt because you want to be more than friends with her? =D
and you want to apologize because she is such a good friend and you just let your words slip on impulse on something you didnt mean. ;) what i would do...?

tomorrow, go say sorry in person, out of the blue. if he throws it back in your face, wait a few days and think if it's worth saving, it probably is, then try again

I guess your name says it all.

passionate murder\suicide anyone?

Hmmmm Sounds like you made a mistake, it might be a Big mistake, but hey your only human right? Dont sweat it to much that will only make things worse.
You need to tell her your sorry and really mean it, wether you think it will do something or not...you can atleast tell yourself you said it


And to show her that your really sorry the best way to do this is to do something that shows that you care about her as a friend and more than someone you just want to fuck. I dont have any advice on how to do this, every girls different, you must have known her well just think of something you can do....and keep in touch with her wether she answers or not but dont over do it.

well thats all i got for now...if anything changes inform us, please.

stfu ._.

That's the thing you regret the most? You my friend have not known the humiliation of drunk dialing your boss.

Seriously-- apologize. I'm not trying to belittle your situation, but I'm sure you'll be able to patch things up if you give it some time and be absolutely sincere in your intentions. Explain to her why you said it and let her know you are truly sorry.

I said sorry to her, but she was like "blah blah blah do you know how humiliating it was to cry in front of my family at lunch yesterday blah blah blah" so I just said "fine, go fuck yourself, I can make more friends".

If she doesn't want my apology then I dont want her friendship.

meh. yeah, u can always make new friends, but i think its kinda shitty to do that. -.-

stupiddd! you were supposed to just wait aND try to apologise again :(
but if she's not wroth it, then she's not worrth it. you'll probably miss her friendship after a while though

/agree.

Maybe she wants you to care about her feelings like a friend should?

C'mon, man. You know exactly how you fucked up and then you do something pretty much identical when you're trying to fix it.

rejected!!

Haven't you even read your first post? You WANTED to be friends with her still.

Just because she didn't say "O its all alright now" doesn't mean she wasn't going to forgive you. The fact she dignified you with an answer is a good sign.




But you blew it.


You melon.

Mm that probably wasnt the greatest move.

Yea... generally I react on impulse/emotions at the time instead of thinking about it :(

meh it sounds like you're a lot more than just really good friends with her. so find a way to talk to her and get back in her pants fool...

If you guys are good friends than hopefully she knows this about you and understands, and you still have a chance of working things out.