Ok, well this is the deal.
I recentally met a girl at the beach, shes single and very hott, problem is i met her through my Step-brother. Now he tells me after a day of getting closer to this girl that he really likes her. Now i'm sure i could easily hook up with this girl. But with her sister and her friends being around almost constantly im sure my Step-Brother would find out easily also.
To give you a bit of back ground info...I'm about 6 Feet tall, and alittle over 140 pounds...good shape, but i'm really not a big fighter. Now hes the same age as me, but hes 220 pounds and about 6 feet and 7 inches tall.
Now if he did find out, it would mean a serious ass-whooping for me, and to anyone who might bring it up im not drawing a knife on him, or any type of weapon. Now saying if it ended in a physical fight he could kick my ass no matter what, what is the best direction to go here?
I like her, but i know there will be more girls to come. But i also am not sure if i should pass up this opertunity.

Well any advice, or help is appreciated....im going out for a while so i wont responed for atleast an hour or two.
Again thanks



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TheNewOne2

tell him whats up. tell him you want to be with her yourself. after that see if you cant talk about that stuff man to man. if hes got no chance itd be weak to let her slip away from both of youz.

Sorry im drunk :(

I didnt know what forum I was in :(

Sorry!

Wait until he fails then break it to him that he's not getting any. Then approach. If he does indead get on her better side, then let it be. He saw her first, you know.

If he decides to make things physical, you may want to use his size against him. Grab his arm and flip him over your back onto the ground. Or you could jump on his back and choke him out.

If that fails, go for the fucking eyes.

tell him you like her,and ask him that if he fails with her if maybe you could try,if he says yes cool,if he says no,then remember,that there are many more girls out there and its not worth messing up your relationship with a family member over

Two brothers, one woman =trouble.

Best thing you can do is to back off, say nothing and encourage him to go for her if he feels for her.

If it works out for him then you and she weren't meant to be but you'll still have a brother. If it doesn't work out then he can't moan if she seeks solace in your arms. Well actually he'll probably still moan/be pissed at you but your brotherly concern should only go so far.

Well...we did talk about it abit, he still seems still pretty into her. I've asked her if she liked him at all, she says just as a friend. I mean hes known her for 2-3 months and nothing has happen. He insist on chasing her though. I doubt i could beat him in a fight no matter the sittuation onless i got lucky and was able to choke him out in a hold or something. But i figure my best bet would be to just back off, lets things between them happen(or not happen)...and when he finally breaks up with her or sees he isnt going to get anything, start talking to her again.......The only thing im worried about is if this takes 1-2 weeks or maybe even more, do you think she will just lose attraction in me?

Thanks again

Why must everything end in violence?
I mean yeah, fighting is fun, but fighting over a woman these days is just so silly and embarassing.

he's known her 2-3 months? man that ship has sailed.. if something was going to happen it already would have. he's into her, she's not into him. the situation is what it is and it's not going to change.


your brother needs to understand he has no shot with this female, and that if he did have a shot something already would have happened. sit and talk with him about it, let him know you're interested in pursuing things, and that fighting over a girl is pathetic. if he's gonna cry and stomp his feet like a bitch and try to fight you because you attract females that won't give him the time of day that's just sad.

and no she won't lose interest in you, if you are gonna back off just act like you are a busy guy with alot going on in your life.. girls love that.

he's known her 2-3 months? man that ship has sailed.. if something was going to happen it already would have. he's into her, she's not into him. the situation is what it is and it's not going to change.


your brother needs to understand he has no shot with this female, and that if he did have a shot something already would have happened. sit and talk with him about it, let him know you're interested in pursuing things, and that fighting over a girl is pathetic. if he's gonna cry and stomp his feet like a bitch and try to fight you because you attract females that won't give him the time of day that's just sad.

and no she won't lose interest in you, if you are gonna back off just act like you are a busy guy with alot going on in your life.. girls love that.



Yeah i know the chance of anything happening between them is slim to none, but this is the 2nd or 3rd time in a row hes been turned down by a girl this year...so hes kinda hooked on her as if shes his last chance, i really dont know why though.

Anyway yeah i figure ill keep talking to her, but just not so much, and just keep talking to other girls. When whatever this sort of "obsession" this is he has to her is over, ill make a move and see if she still feels for me...and if not i guess its over

But in the end id rather avoid conflict.....not just because hed probably kick my ass but i have to go home and live with him, her i dont.


Oh and thanks to all who helped, lol this is my first topic on totse.