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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-06-23, 00:18
Bast Bast is offline
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Default Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

I'm 32 weeks pregnant. That's eight months for those of you who can't count. My fiance says he still thinks I'm attractive, but I have my doubts. There's nothing I can do about my weight for a while. I don't have any stretch marks to speak of, and my boobs have gotten way bigger. I don't understand... is it just the belly? Or the thought of our baby floating around in my belly? Or am I just freaking out for no reason?

Oh, yeah... My problem is I don't know what to do to get him in the mood for sex. I'm a nympho, so this is torture. My emotions/hormones are raging anyway, and lack of sex does not help at all.

And something else. Since I started my job at this motel (I run the desk part time) I have been feeling really flirty. Now, I'm not saying that I'm going to do anything, but I'm wondering if it's okay to flirt, or if I should just act like I feel nothing for any one of the really hot guys that comes in here. I'm thinking that the reason I feel this way is lack of sex and that I don't feel sexy around my man... but who knows? Maybe deep down, I'm just a dirty whore.
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Old 2007-06-23, 00:21
Khepri Khepri is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

I'm not pregnant, nor have I been, but I think pregnant women are very attractive. I would probably be feeling the same way if I were pregnant, but you should listen to him. :)
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Old 2007-06-23, 00:22
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

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Originally Posted by Khepri
I'm not pregnant, nor have I been, but I think pregnant women are very attractive. I would probably be feeling the same way if I were pregnant, but you should listen to him. :)


Thanks... I feel a little better.
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Old 2007-06-23, 03:31
pepper23 pepper23 is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

And something else. Since I started my job at this motel (I run the desk part time) I have been feeling really flirty. Now, I'm not saying that I'm going to do anything, but I'm wondering if it's okay to flirt, or if I should just act like I feel nothing for any one of the really hot guys that comes in here. I'm thinking that the reason I feel this way is lack of sex and that I don't feel sexy around my man... but who knows? Maybe deep down, I'm just a dirty whore.

You're not a dirty whore. It's perfectly OK to flirt with other people. It's practically impossible not to act different around somebody you find attractive. Even if you have absolutely NO intentions, your animal instinct will kick in and try to impress them. Flirting is the basic friendly human interaction.
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Old 2007-06-23, 04:05
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

well im not pregnant but i have been thru it twice once with my first wife and just recently with my second wife, i find a pregnant lady to be beautiful, i dont have a fat fetish or anything,but to me she just glows with sexuality,cant explain it,weird thing is,is that i dont find other women that way,just the ones i am or was involved with,when my wife was pregnant with our son,i couldnt keep my hands off her,and lucky for me the pregnancy hormones mad her just as horny.she is (to me anyway and thats all that counts)the sexiest women i have ever been with and when she was pregnant it was even more so,my first wife was a little different,she didnt handle being pregnant so well, constantly complaining and cursing me for killing her figure...i seem to remember her helping,from the time she got pregnant until she delivered we didnt have sex because she didnt feel sexy no matter how many times i tried to convince her otherwise.
but really i think you are just feeling scared and thinking that just because you arent at your best,that your man isnt attracted to you,he is believe me,just dont think about this stuff too much and enjoy this experiance,while you still can....labor is just a month away haha
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Old 2007-06-23, 06:30
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

There are few things more beautiful or more erotic than a naked pregnant woman.

If this is his first pregnancy then he's probably worried about hurting the baby if he has sex with you. Its a common worry.

Get your Gyno to tell him its fine (trust me, Gynos get asked this all the time).
 #7 
Old 2007-06-23, 06:39
Mojo Savage Mojo Savage is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Ketch is right, he is probably just worried about hurting the wee one.
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Old 2007-06-23, 06:39
kman101 kman101 is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

I'm 32 weeks pregnant. That's eight months for those of you who can't count. My fiance says he still thinks I'm attractive, but I have my doubts. There's nothing I can do about my weight for a while. I don't have any stretch marks to speak of, and my boobs have gotten way bigger. I don't understand... is it just the belly? Or the thought of our baby floating around in my belly? Or am I just freaking out for no reason?

um...to this part, not to sound totally sexist, but dont most women freak out when they think they look "fat"? if your fiance really cares, then he shouldnt really mind you gaining a few pounds, seeing as you're currently bearing his child...just talk to him about it.
-Kman101
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Old 2007-06-23, 12:57
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

There are few things more beautiful or more erotic than a naked pregnant woman.


Amen.
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Old 2007-06-23, 16:18
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

You're pregnant. You're allowed to feel however the hell you want to, act however you want to, and eat whatever you want.

I thought that those were the reasons women got pregnant, I cant think of any others.
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Old 2007-06-23, 16:59
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Flirt your ass off just make sure it's yo babies daddy who does the job in the end. If you flirt all day then come home and bang after the baby comes out you'll probably be pretty satisfied. Get a sitter though.
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Old 2007-06-23, 23:50
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Thanks to all... I feel a lot better now. Guess everything will be okay after all.
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Old 2007-06-24, 00:19
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

He walks into the bedroom and sees you, already wet and waiting for him in doggy position...

My girlfriend is 19 weeks, so we can easily still fuck missionary. Id imagine sex will not be as easy at the latter stages of pregnancy, co probably won't flow the way it normally would. A little work on both parts, though, and no-one should go unfulfilled.
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Old 2007-06-24, 01:38
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

I'm 32 weeks pregnant. That's eight months for those of you who can't count. My fiance says he still thinks I'm attractive, but I have my doubts. There's nothing I can do about my weight for a while. I don't have any stretch marks to speak of, and my boobs have gotten way bigger. I don't understand... is it just the belly? Or the thought of our baby floating around in my belly? Or am I just freaking out for no reason?

Here is a little life's lesson for j00. Pregger ch1x0rz are teh hawtzorz. Neurotic, insecure people are teh n0tz0rz.

's true.
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Old 2007-06-24, 03:33
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

i guess im one of the few guys who thinks preggies aren't hot and that they are unattractive.
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Old 2007-06-24, 03:48
woopsueypigs77 woopsueypigs77 is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Well, he just doesn't want to get pussy and head at the same time...if you know what I mean.
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Old 2007-06-25, 21:18
KriminalMinded KriminalMinded is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

It's perfectly normal to feel negative about yourself while pregnant. My ex said many things you just posted here while pregnant. Perhaps the flirty part of you
is just your hormones being overly nice to people. As another man posted before me, I found my ex definitely sexier with a big belly.

Hang in there, pretty soon you will no longer be pregnant and plus you've lucked out on stretchmarks.
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Old 2007-06-25, 21:25
JIzzlobber JIzzlobber is offline
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Pregnant chicks are disgusting.
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Old 2007-06-25, 21:30
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
You're pregnant. You're allowed to feel however the hell you want to, act however you want to, and eat whatever you want.

I thought that those were the reasons women got pregnant, I cant think of any others.


i was pretty sure people got pregnant either by accident or to have kids...
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Old 2007-06-25, 22:19
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

x.x
=P
being flirty is defiantly just your hormones making you overly nice. and w/ my g/f , if she was pregnant, i could care less if she was pregnant or not and would have sex just because i love her, the belly wouldnt matter too much, and im sure the horny hormones would make me not care even 1% =P
so id say defiantly dont worry about it. ^.^
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Old 2007-06-25, 22:21
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Default Re: Anyone else pregnant here? I really need some advice.

i was pretty sure people got pregnant either by accident or to have kids...

YOU LIE!!

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