Not sure if this has ever been done before, but...it could have the potential to become quite a thread.

I've never had sex and I don't plan to for spiritual reasons, so I can't say much about this. It's just that it really seems like sex is more enjoyable for women.Women can be stimulated in different ways and have different types of orgasms(clitoral, g-spot), but with guys it just seems so basic. You just have a shaft that is stimulated by friction, it's so simple, unless you're into the whole prostate stimulation thing(eww). Another thing is vocalisations and reactions to orgasms. I always hear stories about women screaming, moaning, and doing a bunch of weird shit like passing out during sex and while they're orgasming. You could also argue that evolution caused human females to experience...more intensity from sex because for most female mammals it's a one time thing during mating season, y'know. They just get pregnant and there's no need to do it again for a while, so it should be memorable, I guess.

Seriously, I have no experience with this. Any opinions on this subject?

No sex for spiritual reasons?
I have a feeling people here aren't going to like you very much.

I definitely think so. I know I do, lol.

Who was that comedian who went on about how women can talk about their orgasms, but men can't 'cause they're all the same?

your a unich arent you? lol. i mean,what spirtiual reason doesnt allow you to have sex? that you might become emotionally drawn to somebody?

but my orgasms compared to my girls are WEAK.

I don't think anyone will ever know, considering that women are so good at faking it.

Guys, guys, I'm not talking about the hippy ass buddhist kind of spiritual reasons, I'm talking about the supremacist pissed off kind. I simply will NOT prevert myself to that level. I hate dependance, I want to surpass it. Simple, right?

Now, onto the true purpose of this thread. I agree with the guy that says that his orgasm are weak compared to girls. Seriously, womens orgasms last over a minute(google it!) and parts of they're brain actually shut down. Really, look it up and livescience(I think that's the place), from a scientific point of view they seem pretty damn intense. When I wank, even if I take my time and do it properly, my orgasm lasts under 10 seconds and it's just a simple rush feeling, sometimes with an afetershock sort of thing if I keep jacking it. It's never made me vocalize.

Trust me, that whole 'not having sex due to spiritual reasons' is a shit idea. I cant tell you how many girls have dumped me in my teen years because I wouldn't put out. I had -very- high expectations. I wanted to wait for 'the one' and I wanted my first time to be her first time too. And I finally found a girl that was everything I wanted. And we had sex, regularly. Eventually...it didn't work out. And after that, I didnt see sex as so sacred. I still didn't sleep around or anything. But there were a few girls I really cared for. And its really hard when you come upon a girl thats more experienced then you, and you don't know what to do.

of course women enjoy it better than men...but they will never admit to it....from what i gather its been bred into them from the beginning of time to lie and say they dont and that we men are pigs because we openly admit to it....just like when a woman tells you that you are the best guy in bed she has ever been with........your probably not even the 4th guy she has told that to....they are masterminds at the whole game...

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Guys, guys, I'm not talking about the hippy ass buddhist kind of spiritual reasons, I'm talking about the supremacist pissed off kind. I simply will NOT prevert myself to that level. I hate dependance, I want to surpass it. Simple, right?


oh i get it
feminist (mother)

OK back to the "true purpose of this thread"
of course women enjoy sex more than men
men don't have to squeeze out a melon sized kid a few months later
sure there's more contraception and "sex for shits and giggles" these days but a few decades won't change millions of years of biology
also on evolution and natural selection the women who enjoy sex more will invariably produce more offspring who also enjoy sex and so on and so forth

Ask Tiresias.

Hey, i may not get as much physical pleasure from fucking a girl as the girl, but i THOROUGHLY enjoy the act--the look on her face, the taste on her lips, the noises she makes... yeah...

My husband definitely gets more pleasure from it than I do.

In short, I think that, properly done, women do enjoy sex more than men. A big however is order here. It generally isn't properly done, especially by men who haven't witnessed a real female orgasm and don't really care. Women can fake an orgasm if you don't know what one entails, but the signs of a real orgasm are unmistakable and go far beyond a little screaming and scratching your back.

I'm not going to answer.

I'll tell you why: If I answer, then I will lose my goddamned eyesight. Even though I'll be able to see into the future, I'll still have lost my fucking eyesight. See? It's goddamn ridiculous.

... the signs of a real orgasm are unmistakable and go far beyond a little screaming and scratching your back.

For example?

I'm guessing a little extra sweating, uncontrollable shaking, heavy breathing, momentary inability to breathe, etc??

My orgasms are very quiet.

This made me laugh. :(

Only if we let them.

men enjoy sex more because we dont pass out and the gals if they pass out they might wake up with an ass cramp or something.....aaaaaannnnnddd....if a woman isnt on the pill or the man doesnt wear a rubber its the woman that has to have a monster come out of her pussy:p

I never thought that my girlfriend and I made much noise during sex. Then I watched one of our "home movies" on the camcorder, and had to turn the volume down... I was amazed at what I hadn't picked up on.

It's like Outcast said...I have a live in silencer (child) so I KNOW we're quiet.:P If we make noise, she'll yell "Are you guys having SEX??" from her room.:( That's what I get for trying to have an honest relationship with her!

*scratches chin* Hmm, this could make for a great erotica. Come on people, a military man with a huge cock, his submissive wife, and their curious daughter...It practically writes itself!

What the fuck is wrong with you? Keep your opinions to yourself, if he wants to live without sex then let him do it.

What the fuck is wrong with you? Keep your opinions to yourself, if he wants to live without sex then let him try to do it.

Fixed

*scratches chin* Hmm, this could make for a great erotica. Come on people, a military man with a huge cock, his submissive wife, and their curious daughter...It practically writes itself!

I'm not submissive!:P

I'm not submissive!:P

even better

Hey, Xiao Mei, have you ever wondered if your abusive mom caused any problems? Y'know, sexually. Uuh, psychologically that is, I'm not talking about molestation. I mean, did you enjoy sex a lot more before childbirth or has it always been so underwhelming? Just curious.
BTW, that erotica idea is great!

I'd also like to leave you with this quote, but before that I'd like to say that I actually remembered it was 144,000 and I've only heard it, like, twice, quite a while ago. *Just bragging about my memory skills*:
Rev 14:1-5

“Then I looked, and there before me was the Lamb, standing on Mount Zion, and with him 144,000 who had his name and his Father's name written on their foreheads. And I heard a sound from heaven like the roar of rushing waters and like a loud peal of thunder. The sound I heard was like that of harpists playing their harps. And they sang a new song before the throne and before the four living creatures and the elders. No one could learn the song except the 144,000 who had been redeemed from the earth. These are those who did not defile themselves with women, for they kept themselves pure. They follow the Lamb wherever he goes. They were purchased from among men and offered as firstfruits to God and the Lamb. No lie was found in their mouths; they are blameless.”

Kekekeke, I ain't one of that thar religious peoples. Just thought it was a cool quote.

I didn't say that I don't enjoy sex. I said that my husband enjoys it more...And he does. I think part of it is that my husband is extremely well endowed, so sex is always a little uncomfortable even when it's at its most pleasurable and if we're not careful it's VERY uncomfortable.