OK heres the situation, ive met this girl...she seemingly like me as shes willing to hang out me almost whenever(depending on when we are both off)

Today i took her to see 1408 just a bit ago and i had a high mindset that i could pull something off with her today....no prevail....walking out of the thearte we have a lil chat before we leave...i gave her the usual hug(since i cant get myself to lay a smooch on her since it just doesnt seem the right time.and doesnt seem necessary..)I asked her if she wanted to run to a few different places with me aftewards but she was tired and had work soon...so she retorted by said we should hang out tomorrow..2nd time shes ever said that usually im the one making plans on when we should hang out.....even tho she has some graduation parties to go tomorrow(I always like how she manages to squeeze me in btwn her more important events....

Im just wondering if im wasting my time or not...u kno i want to press it to the next level, but it seems that im a rut... cause she is very hot but i cant just find the right opprotunity.... and obviously she vibes me or something since she calls me everyday and talks to me on myspace....

Its just like that one line you just cant hurry love....

any suggestions for me? they are welcome

JUst shut the fuck up and give her the buttsecks!!

i wish...i thought for sure i would of got some minor action...but idk wtf to think anymore...been out with her 5 imes...2 movie...2 lunches...and 1 straightup date....girl seems a bit shy...i figured today id find the right opprotunity to DO WORK..but obviously it wasnt there

Just need to go hang out are her house during the day when no one is home and straight go to town..sounds like most surefire way

Hmm, I'd say you're edging on too late, but not quite there yet. I wouldn't be so sure she was into you, because something probably would have happened in that case after five dates. She might just be flirty, I don't know. But play it out some more, and just go for it when it seems right. Good luck with that, I know how you feel.

Well i obviously think shes shy ya know...cause usually girls even at the minorest level put out some type of flirtatious actions and shes barely done any of those....theres just minor things over the times she said that stands out that points out to her having some type of attraction towards me.....besides calling me almost everynight...

I dont kno, enough with the BS...but i feel my inner reflex is saying that im getting fucking scammed/wasting my time/ getting no where so idk...whether or not that be the case....but then id feel even worse just to drop the whole fucking ordeal cause this girl is really fucking descent and like right almost on the dot of a type of chick id want...so im going to prolly pursue on ward and just fucking go to town on the right situation

LOL, getting scammed. What is this, a supermarket?

I think im just going to plan to DW at her house...like this week...when her parents are working...just be like hey yo lets hang at ur casa, ...if she says yes....SCH SCH

cause the city i live in sucks dick..unless u in a private environment..nothing sets the god damn mood..its gotta be all 100% you dominating the hsit, otherwise theres no push pull on the situation unless the chick is a straight whore


will post up suppose to chil with her tomorrow...im just not feeling it anymore...but im not going to toss her out right away ya know

Quit being such a goddamn pussy. You probably already fucked this up too much. Next time you see her, grab her and kiss her right away, and maybe she will respect you.

The moment you compare your relationship to an 80's song, it's over.

hahah its turning into the end moment of back to the future with george has to lay the kiss lorainne....LOL

But yea i sat down last night and reviewed all the shit, via all the dates/hangouts/lunches we've had....and ive declared that shes straight shy, and she keeps coming back for more.....I mean yea i havent threw down any think hardcore on her, but there really wasnt a place and time except once

Cause like i talk to her on the phone shes got a energetic tone, a nice upbeat talkative vibe...but in person when im with her shes sort of mellowed out, talks softly, often i have to say what did u say or huh.. cause she sort of mumbles...she was real bad like this on the first date...i must intimidate her or maybe she thinks im really attractive idk i dont hanker on that idea...just a thought

If anyone should be pullin out of the ordeal it should be me..cause i totally feel like im wasting my time...but im not going just quit. just needs some work...

My advice is give it some time... if she likes you, she'll most likely start coming on to you. If making the first move is the problem, take her somewhere nice and tranquil. In my recent experience, I found it easier to make a move in a more relaxed, peaceful environment. I just took her to a local nature reserve, and we went for a walk, sat down, and I kissed her, she loved it. It's been a little over a month since, and we're really happy together. If you ask me, if you kiss a girl and she shows an even somewhat iffy reaction, she's not worth it. If she doesn't appreciate your valient efforts, screw her, move on.
Sorry if some of this was said before... I'm too lazy to read through all the posts.

Im going to do some work on her tonite, on the phone..ask some leading questions and shit.....

cause i swear talking to her on the phone is one thing then in person its like we've never met before, but i keep shit real and moving....just like the few times we hung out for like 3-4 hrs...she starting "warming" up as id call it....making alot more eye contact, joking with me...talking up a storm....

lets just compare her to a turbo on a car....it takes time for her to spool up boost then she gets in the game...lol


yea i thought alot about it, last day thinking about it in depth cause its fucking retarded to hanker over the shit...just going to ride it out....i kno its bound to happen(action) just gotta time it right and the place has to be right...

~peace...will update if i find out anything more

You're edging dangerously close to the "friend" zone...and that sucks...it almost sounds like you're her buddy to goto movies and have lunch with and talk to....not the guy she wants to screw. You better make a move SOON. or you'll always be in the friend zone.

If there is a next time...im going to fucking town.....i feel real bad now and i feel in that same downward sprial that i did before when i fucked up with another girl...not going to let that happen again.....

Ill figure out something clever then just attack that shit like the spartans vs the persians....


and by the by is there like any way possible to fill in for my fuck ups by talking to her on the phone..cause i feel the only way i can put forth any dominant motions is in person not just by voice over the tele

some other shit to help yall comment on the situation....my city sucks.theres barely anything to do here..all of the dates we've went on were my idea..of course with her comment saying"yea we should hang out blah blah" then usually after we hang out shes like we gotta do this again soon.......taking her to the movie..that was my idea.....going out to lunch my idea...

next plot im going to make it somewhere more private or some shit so i can personally get the feeling going btwn the both of us....cause shit nigguh i can just stop by mcdonalds with the girl..come out to our cars then be like hey bye..smooch her on the lips....i could but it feels retarded

NOTE FOR ALL: Dont binge on diazepam then try to comprehend situations and actions.....

Now that im sober and look back at the past few days...i may have messed up a lil bit but i doubt that i am fucked....today im stomping out biz with her to set things straight.....

just remember benzos are good for chillin, not for dw'n in times of work

dude just kiss her. she obviously likes you.

I will, its just, the innocence in her eyes makes me feel like im taking advantage of her...but fuck the Nonsense...this week...ill cross the line

I dont kno about that friend zone, idk even know what zone ud put us in..cause if u watched how we talk to each other its not like just casual this and that..i mean yea we talk about experiences and this and that...but we make fun of each other and joke around alot, laugh together alot....

I'm in the same boat as you right now, man.

I've been hanging out with this girl for around three weeks now, we've seen a movie and got lunch a couple times, she even came to my house one night and we got really, really stoned together. But the truth is, I don't know what she thinks of me. She has a lot of guy friends (Friends, thats it) and I wonder if I'm just one of them, yet I've also known her for a good year or so prior when I dated this other girl, she told me I should break up with her and date other people, so I'm kiind of balanced, dunno what she thinks.

So I suggest doing what I'm going to do the next time I see her. I'm going to wait till we're by ourselves, and just tell her I'm confused with her, I'm getting a lot of "just friends" vibes from her, but also I know I really like her and want to know what she thinks.

My problem is that I don't want to end up trying to kiss her, find out she's not into it, and then it gets awkward around us and she doesn't want to hang out anymore. Because frankly she's my only smoking partner right now :D

Use any easy test of finding out whether you can kiss her.

Eg. Your hair looks nice, can I touch it.. then lean in when she agrees.

Or during a hug hold her for a minute, look into her eyes and go for it

Hold her by the chin and look at her forehead and whisper "beautiful" then if she says what, pause then look down at her chin and repeat. Lean in.

Seriously, you still have time, but not much.. action must be taken quickly.

yea i definantly do still have time i just dont want to lose my great chance here....i was thinking along that line....next time go in to give her a hug...eye contact then just lay it on her...or give her a hug...pull back with my arms still around here..eye contact then go in for it.....



it sucks cause i barely see her..usually once a week in person...since we both work.....prolly will hang with her during lunch time this week sometime...then just have to Do work and feel the sense of success :-) cause i kno it cant be done...im just being a bitch lol

cause by some obvious movements/actions by her previously i could of did work and not even be typing out this pussy topic...i got it down tho....and im ready to commit

Keep us updated, and I'll do the same :)

its just driving me nutz..cause we are always both sooo fucking busy....never have free time....next week tho i got a good feeling....cause see i work during the day and she works during the nights...so its tough as fuck to hang out unless on weekends(but she has her Gf's too ya know so i cant keep her from them).....

but anyways i always have to drive with my dad to work(carpool) since we both work at the same place(norte dame) and next week he has off..so i can fucking ditch out early and hang with her at her house and do whatever during the day then and not have to worry about picking up and taking my dad home from work......

I jus talked to her today about hanging out and shes busy doing random shit all the time....plus her friends are crazy(another reason i want to get in good with this girl ;-) )...but next time i hang with her and i see an opening im just going to go all out...so she knows what it is...

fucking finally get some quality girl and im not going to lose her

Good Luck to you, I'm in the same situation if not a few differences here and there. It is hard to find a good girl these days

got some good news...on my part...her one friend that she is always attached to is moving away....so she'll have more free time..and will prolly be looking to be with me more to replace her friend(thinking that)

also next week....im going to press up to try to hang out with her during the day and watch some movies privately in the comfort of her house...by ourselves....

pisses me off cause she does so much shit( and no its not a front to blow me off or cause she doesnt like me) her parents are divorced and shes always fucking running around but when we both have free time we hang....lol

so im working on it...and im going to try to get some snap shots of success if i can dw during next week ;-)..cause assuming that i kno all we need is to be alone and thatll be it....being out in public and shit aint setting the scene

welp got it setup just picking the day next week..this it right here..cause right now....ud think shed given up talken to me..but its the opposite im not really vibing her becuz i barely see the stupid girl...jesus christ....guess thats what happens when we are responsible kids who work in life....busy peeps