I don't give a shit if my girlfriend fucks other guys?

I mean, she hasn't, but the thought doesn't bother me at all. If it makes her happy, i think she aught to just go for it.

Unfortunately, she doesn't think the same way about me and other girls. :(

Are you not worried that she might go out with the other guy?

no its not weird. its BAD. you shouldnt be ok with that. that defies nature. stop defying nature!

nah, i know her too well. We've been going out for a year and a half.

It's not exactly normal but I'm not OMGZing about it either. Would it turn you on if your girl slept with another guy. I know people like that except they're more "masters" of their girl and they basically recruit people to have sex with their "dirty whore." It's a pretty weird relationship in most people's terms but hey, whatever turns you on.

Nah, We're on pretty equal terms. I guess i just don't get jealous.

Do you think that you feel that way because you want to be with other girls? Is it really for her that you want her to be with other guys, or is for selfish reasons?

I don't think one has an effect on the other. I wouldn't think that just because she has sex with other guys that she is obligated to let me have sex with other girls.

Scratch that, yes I would.

But i don't see it as selfish...more like I wish there was less jealousy in relationships. I think it comes from read Stranger In A Strange Land waaay too many times as a kid. I'm all for completely open relationships, love and sex all around. I mean, why not?

Like Lennon said about love, "the more you give the more you make."

... This is why I usually don't give serious replies.

Hey man, go for it. I'm interested to hear people's thoughts.

Nah, We're on pretty equal terms. I guess i just don't get jealous.



I don't think one has an effect on the other. I wouldn't think that just because she has sex with other guys that she is obligated to let me have sex with other girls.

Scratch that, yes I would.

But i don't see it as selfish...more like I wish there was less jealousy in relationships. I think it comes from read Stranger In A Strange Land waaay too many times as a kid. I'm all for completely open relationships, love and sex all around. I mean, why not?

Like Lennon said about love, "the more you give the more you make."

rofl. I love that book.
Although, I don't honestly think it's the best philosophy to apply to human relations, seeing as we're not exactly alien to the women nature. I believe the fact that you wouldn't get jealous is a bit unnatural. Perhaps you're really just getting fed up with her, but you don't want to leave her. Maybe you should suggest breaking, unless you've always been like this.
Being in an intimate relationship with somebody is a very private thing, and if you truly love her and want to share yourself with her, I'd imagine that you wouldn't like it if she were to share herself with just some other guy.
Being naked with one is a very personal thing, in my eyes. I hate how people just go around fucking anybody, it's so unromantic and raunchy, not right to me.

If it's the way you feel, I suppose you can't help it. At least one of you has normal expectations, as far as maintaining a serious relationship, no offense to you. Jealousy isn't always a bad thing.

Nah, We're on pretty equal terms. I guess i just don't get jealous.

Like Lennon said about love, "the more you give the more you make."

I don't get jealous or crazy about my girl either. I know she won't fool around on me, and in the event she slaps me in the face and does, she's out the door. No skin off my back, she's the one labelled a little slut.

The sixties were fucked. The free love era only helped the proliferation of disease.

As long as you're not using her having sex with other guys just so you can, it's all well and good to me.

So, if she fell in love with someone else then you would be okay with that? After all, a person is quite capable of being in love with more than one person at a time.

You really should find someone who holds the same viewpoint as yourself instead of wanting to change someone to fit yours. Should this one not work out, then you should definitely make your feelings known on this issue before getting involved with someone.

It would really make life so much simpler. Don't you think?

...It would, but there are very very few women out there who feel the same way I do. Sad, really.

I'm all for open relationships. My S/O lives far away, so I always try to encourage sexual growth in any way shape or form. The more experienced she is, the better for me, right?

But, I get to fuck around, too.

I think it comes from read Stranger In A Strange Land waaay too many times as a kid. I'm all for completely open relationships, love and sex all around. I mean, why not?

Like Lennon said about love, "the more you give the more you make."

I hate Lennon, but I absolutely love Robert Heinlein. I've read a hell of a lot of his books, and right at the beginning post I was instantly thinking about his ideas on sexual liberation and stuff. I feel like you do, I'm all for open relationships and whatnot, the only problem being disease really. Hopefully, in our lifetime, they will have eradicated disease.

If you like his ideas on sexual liberation, you should definitely read "Time Enough for Love" by him too. It's really long, but it is Lazarus Long telling a great deal of stories to be recorded, many of which deal with relationships.

Also, I remember oc6 said she liked Stranger in a Strange Land too...

i think it depends on how you were brought up.

for example,

in my family everything was always very normal, and like there was alot of emphasis on like "catholic" practices.

altho i dont believe in catholicism, i would still have problems with my gf doing other people, just because it would conflict with my fundamental "perception" of how things should be..

if that makes any sense.

It'll piss you off when she moans differently or screams someone else's name.

In six years she has not done that.