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 #1 
Old 2007-06-21, 22:12
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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I was talking to my friend from college about a couple hours ago. Basically he told me he went lastnight to some party with a bunch of guys and girls and they started drinking, smoking weed you know the usual. Eventually he got alone with this girl and they started making out, touching and he fingered her young pussy.

I told him that was cool except for the fact that he had a girlfriend and that it wasn't nice that he cheated on her. He got mad at me and told me that there was nothing wrong with what he did because it was just once and shit.

I just don't uderstand why people cheat and aren't aware of the fact that they are playing with the feelings of their girlfriends/boyfriends. That is some pretty fucked up shit"!!!!!! I would never do that.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:18
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Yeah... it is seriously wrong. I went through a phase of the same thing and to tell you the truth it was because I was just really depressed. It sort of gave me an ego boost knowing I could fuck with somebody's life and get away with it. It really wasn't worth it and it took me a long time to get over that shit.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:29
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Cheating is just cowardly, stupid, spitefull,selfish, pathetic and greedy. Did I mention cowardly,selfish and pathetic?

I mean, if you're going to cheat, to lie to someone just cause you want to fuck someone else...why..why bother?
Why not fucking tell the person you're meant to be loyal to that you want to sex elsewhere so atleast then that person isnt going to get sucked into your lies, atleast they can go out and find a decent person who isnt complete shit.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:32
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Originally Posted by Spunn
Yeah... it is seriously wrong. I went through a phase of the same thing and to tell you the truth it was because I was just really depressed. It sort of gave me an ego boost knowing I could fuck with somebody's life and get away with it. It really wasn't worth it and it took me a long time to get over that shit.


Good to know there's someone that shares my way of thinking about this matter. I've noticed that men tend to be more cheaters than girls. Guys with girlfriends don't give a fuck about it when they are dancing with a hot girl at a party very drunk or high as fuck.

I know I am different from the vast majority of guys because I would never cheat my girlfriend or wife. Maybe because I don't go to parties, maybe because I don't do drugs or drink alcohol or maybe it is simply because of my moral values but anyway I know I am better than that.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:35
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id never fucking cheat. and i despite cheaters so much i'd kill them if i had the chance. its real fucking dumb thing to do.
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Old 2007-06-22, 04:41
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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I cheat all the fucking time.

So does my girlfriend

and her girlfriend.

So fucking sue me. Fuck you if you're going to judge me.
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Old 2007-06-22, 04:59
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Cheating is just cowardly, stupid, spitefull,selfish, pathetic and greedy. Did I mention cowardly,selfish and pathetic?

I mean, if you're going to cheat, to lie to someone just cause you want to fuck someone else...why..why bother?
Why not fucking tell the person you're meant to be loyal to that you want to sex elsewhere so atleast then that person isnt going to get sucked into your lies, atleast they can go out and find a decent person who isnt complete shit.


I've cheated but never lied. If you're smart you can avoid lying. It's only bad if the other person finds out really. The rest is living with yourself and trying to forget until the next time you're inside her, then it's back to worrying. Cheating's just bad. But Someday all relationships will be considered open and if you stay with someone it'll be for love. Until then people will keep playing the game and people will keep getting stabbed over jealousy. The shit's just part of life...
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Old 2007-06-22, 17:47
Maggotote Maggotote is offline
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I've cheated but never lied. If you're smart you can avoid lying. It's only bad if the other person finds out really. The rest is living with yourself and trying to forget until the next time you're inside her, then it's back to worrying. Cheating's just bad. But Someday all relationships will be considered open and if you stay with someone it'll be for love. Until then people will keep playing the game and people will keep getting stabbed over jealousy. The shit's just part of life...

Just part of life?? Goddamned It I don't want that shit to be part of mine. If I am with a girl it means that I find her physically attractive and I feel some kind of affection towards her. So why in the world would be looking for other girls to fuck or mess around??? That's just stupid and hurtful not to mention the fucked up std's that u'll probably get if you cheat and are cheated.
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Old 2007-06-22, 22:17
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Originally Posted by H4T3
I cheat all the fucking time.

So does my girlfriend

and her girlfriend.

So fucking sue me. Fuck you if you're going to judge me.


Shut up.

You dont have a girlfriend.

And if you did you wouldnt get a chance to cheat because you'd have only paid for an hour with her.
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Old 2007-06-22, 23:12
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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Shut up.

You dont have a girlfriend.

And if you did you wouldnt get a chance to cheat because you'd have only paid for an hour with her.

Ooooh brilliant, did you get your guinea pigs to help you with that one?
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Old 2007-06-22, 23:38
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Originally Posted by H4T3
I cheat all the fucking time.

So does my girlfriend

and her girlfriend.

So fucking sue me. Fuck you if you're going to judge me.



This is an example of mutual "cheating", which isn't really cheating at all, just all of you agree that you can have sex with whomever you want, whenever you want. Not an example of actual cheating, where one person decides that they want to have sex with whomever they want, whenever they want, and the other person has no say in the matter.
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Old 2007-06-23, 00:26
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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This is an example of mutual "cheating", which isn't really cheating at all, just all of you agree that you can have sex with whomever you want, whenever you want. Not an example of actual cheating, where one person decides that they want to have sex with whomever they want, whenever they want, and the other person has no say in the matter.

I know, I kind of like the anger I get.
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Old 2007-06-29, 16:37
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I wouldn't cheat on someone. But, if it's an open relationship that's cool.
 
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