So, masturbation just doesn't hold the same thrills for me that it once did. Infact, it's getting positively, downright tedious. Sure, it still feels good, and I love getting off, but it's really a pretty empty experience. Even the orgasms aren't as good as they were, it's all a little blah. Hmm, can't seem to stop though.

So how do you make it more interesting? Yesterday I tried filming it. Today I found a couple carrots and a condom. But the real thing that's a bummer is the lack of foreplay, it's like trying to tickle yourself. There just isn't anywhere near the same level of arousement.

I'm sure I was going to say something else, but I've forgotten now. Your thoughts?

:)

take a tolerance break

Yeah me too then I went like a week without masturbating and had great sex and actually came!

take a tolerance break

Oooooh, I was afraid you'd say that.

I mean, if it was a tossup between not cumming for a week, and not eating - I'd really have to think about it.

:(

Eat. :(

Oooooh, I was afraid you'd say that.

I mean, if it was a tossup between not cumming for a week, and not eating - I'd really have to think about it.

:(

I haven't in around a week.

To be honest, bleh! Recently I just really can't be bothered. GARRRR, it's frustrating not wanting to.

I know the feeling, I also tried spicing it up a bit. I just made my ass bleed. :(

Watch something erotic...Like a Johnny Depp movie. Or better yet, watch something with Cillian Murphy! Johnny Depp is more immediately arousing, Cillian more so in the long term.:P

\GARRRR, it's frustrating not wanting to.

Yeah, it really is. A lot more so than being irrationally aroused all the time.

OP, tolerance break sounds like your best bet. And get a fuck buddy, they're great.

I've never had a fuck buddy.:(

silly americans. have you never seen clive owen?


mm, i just don't. honeslty, in the last two years, i can probably count the number of times i have on my fingers. it's never really been that great

Well, we do live in the same state... too bad you're married. :p

Then be a slut.

Why couldn't you figure that out?

Two words: Pocket pussy.

Find someone to lick your clit until you squirt all over his face.

If you're old enough and you don't get embarrassed, go buy a sex toy. Something like a g-spot stimulator or something. I don't know much about sex toys and shit, but a g-spot stimulator sounds very arousing.

For some reason sex toys seem to lose their appeal very quickly for me. I got a fancy new waterproof vibrator and it was great for the first week. I think I actually didn't leave my room for about 2 days straight. But now I look at it and I just think, "Meh, it's alright I gueeessss."

You're a girl, let the problem solve itself :o

I used my vibrator so much it broke. :(

Watch Billy blanks tae bo boxing videos whilst sitting on the sofa eating a big tub of popcorn.

Nothing particularly arousing about a burnt out kickboxer in disgustingly tight lycra, but eating something sickly sugary sweet whilst watcing other people sweat and suffer is highly arousing. :D

I used my vibrator so much it broke. :(

Videos or it didn't happen.

I used my vibrator so much it broke. :(

So is using a vibrator better than using your hand? I'm really wondering, because I've never used a vibrator or a dildo for that matter!:P

Am I the only one that burst out laughing at this?

This thread is made of win.

I'm not certain what you consider foreplay, but the mental aspect of sex is of major importance.

How do you approach it mentally? Do you treat yourself like you would a lover? (Think about how you approach your lovers.) Do you think or daydream about how you might go about pleasuring yourself later in the day or before you even begin to, or do you rush into it? Do you love your body and the sensations of touching it and how your body responds? Do you mentally talk to yourself, or even aloud as you do?

You can invest in a number of toys, but I think it is the way you mentally approach things that can immensely improve the quality of sex for one. Or any kind of sex, for that matter.

If you find yourself bored, then you're probably not doing enough mental foreplay before even beginning.

Edit:

Or, are you bored and can think of nothing else to do to alleviate that boredom? If that's the case then you just might be starting out wrong from the get-go.

This is the real deal, same for boys too.

i hear you kirk. i dont even have an orgasm when i masturbate anymore(male). i do physicly, but there is no possitive body feeling with it. tis shitty. doesnt mean i do it less tho lawl.

So is using a vibrator better than using your hand? I'm really wondering, because I've never used a vibrator or a dildo for that matter!:P

I like having a dildo, because I seem to be at not quite the right angle for my fingers. It certanly adds to it. The vibrator though, hmm, it's nice in combination with my fingers, a very different sensation.

I'm not certain what you consider foreplay, but the mental aspect of sex is of major importance.

How do you approach it mentally? Do you treat yourself like you would a lover? (Think about how you approach your lovers.) Do you think or daydream about how you might go about pleasuring yourself later in the day or before you even begin to, or do you rush into it? Do you love your body and the sensations of touching it and how your body responds? Do you mentally talk to yourself, or even aloud as you do?

You can invest in a number of toys, but I think it is the way you mentally approach things that can immensely improve the quality of sex for one. Or any kind of sex, for that matter.

If you find yourself bored, then you're probably not doing enough mental foreplay before even beginning.

Edit:

Or, are you bored and can think of nothing else to do to alleviate that boredom? If that's the case then you just might be starting out wrong from the get-go.

Good advice OC

Or better yet, watch something with Cillian Murphy!

Yeah, I'm not gay but I'd tap that.

Anyway... Try falling in love, should get rid of that empty experience alright. Alternatively find a hobby other and masturbating and keep masturbating for the occasional bit on the side.

You're a chick. Just go out and get some.

get dog and peanut butter.

Quoted For Truth.

Hey, you're from Indiana too. Lots of corn, isn't there?

Lots of corn, isn't there?

She already said the carrot just made her ass bleed.

Quoted For Truth.

Hey, you're from Indiana too. Lots of corn, isn't there?

Yeah, there's more than corn in Indiana!(but not much more)

I'm not certain what you consider foreplay, but the mental aspect of sex is of major importance.

How do you approach it mentally? Do you treat yourself like you would a lover? (Think about how you approach your lovers.) Do you think or daydream about how you might go about pleasuring yourself later in the day or before you even begin to, or do you rush into it? Do you love your body and the sensations of touching it and how your body responds? Do you mentally talk to yourself, or even aloud as you do?

You can invest in a number of toys, but I think it is the way you mentally approach things that can immensely improve the quality of sex for one. Or any kind of sex, for that matter.

If you find yourself bored, then you're probably not doing enough mental foreplay before even beginning.

Edit:

Or, are you bored and can think of nothing else to do to alleviate that boredom? If that's the case then you just might be starting out wrong from the get-go.

Very good advice. It's just the kinda thing I was going to suggest to kirky.

Lets meet and we can be fuck buddies.