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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-06-21, 04:28
Noriega. Noriega. is offline
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Default Getting that one girl to notice you.

I'm 17 and i'll be a senior next year. I've known this girl for about a year now and yeah we know each other but its never anything more than saying hi when we see each other. A lot of her friends are bitches and i know they dont like me. I wanted to know if you guys had any tips to get her to pay more attention to me....
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Old 2007-06-21, 04:45
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Smile at her, ask her to help you with HW or something. Get more involved with her than just 'hi'. But be smooth about it. No sudden movements.
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Old 2007-06-21, 04:48
Noriega. Noriega. is offline
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Well seeing as im on summer break right now its gonna be a lot more difficult to see her and stuff. Also i would never ask some girl to help me with HW that seems pretty lame but thanks for the suggestions.
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Old 2007-06-21, 04:55
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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fuck her and she'lll probably pay attention to you.

You probably could have figured that out on your own.
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Old 2007-06-21, 04:59
Noriega. Noriega. is offline
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Hmm thanks that'll work!
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Old 2007-06-21, 05:11
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Do you have her number or anything? Any way to contact her? Ask her if she wants to go for coffee or something. Just casually. I don't know, just a suggestion. But do you want her to notice you, or like you? Because noticing is easy...
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Old 2007-06-21, 05:15
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Just catch her when she's not around her friends. I've been in the whole situation where my girlfriend's friends hate me too many times, and its best when she's alone. Then she won't have the pressure of her friends being around her and she won't feel that she has to impress them.
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Old 2007-06-21, 06:23
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Originally Posted by Noriega.
I'm 17 and i'll be a senior next year. I've known this girl for about a year now and yeah we know each other but its never anything more than saying hi when we see each other. A lot of her friends are bitches and i know they dont like me. I wanted to know if you guys had any tips to get her to pay more attention to me....


Holy shit. Same situation I've been in (am still in, actually).

I learned this the hard way: If it's not anything more than "saying hi", don't come on strong. Go out with a group first, THEN get her alone. If you try to get her alone all the sudden, it may freak her out a little. Then again, she may be a different girl than the one I know. Ignore Invision (no offense, Invision), because most girls are going to tell their friends all about it anyhow, so it doesn't matter if their friends are there at the time: They still want to impress them. I don't care who she is: if she's in highschoool, there's a good chance she's like that.

23 is right. Play the friend (cause if she's a "nice girl", i.e. one you'd take home to mom, she'll probably want to know you as a friend first.), but don't get stuck in the friends zone.
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Old 2007-06-21, 16:28
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Originally Posted by Noriega.
I'm 17 and i'll be a senior next year. I've known this girl for about a year now and yeah we know each other but its never anything more than saying hi when we see each other. A lot of her friends are bitches and i know they dont like me. I wanted to know if you guys had any tips to get her to pay more attention to me....




all you got to do is be nice dnt start showing off, start chatting to her not just saying hi ok and fuck he bitchy faced mate ok and dont be all pushy just wait and if its ment 2 be it will be x
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Old 2007-06-21, 20:22
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If you cut you face off she would definitly notice you.

Sorry I can't offer any real advice, I am socially inept.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:03
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Go out with a group first, THEN get her alone. If you try to get her alone all the sudden, it may freak her out a little.

I've found that most of the time, this is true. If you don't really know the girl that well, finding something that both of you can talk about can seem a little awkward. Better to go out with a group and see what she's like, then talk about your experiences doing whatever the group was doing, and then veer onto other subjects.
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Old 2007-06-21, 22:09
chadalak0810 chadalak0810 is offline
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Pull your meat out and shove a sharpie up your ass!!! it always got me the attention i was after!!!
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Old 2007-06-21, 23:21
nau06248 nau06248 is offline
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Why don't you just say the next time you see her, "you want to grab a drink with me?" or "want to go get dinner together?"

If you actually put effort into speaking to her she will notice you more. She may even feel the exact same way about you...
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Old 2007-06-22, 01:39
Noriega. Noriega. is offline
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Hmm well the thing is we dont have too much in common and our groups of friends never associate with each other. Remember im still in high school and it'd be odd if i asked her out to dinner or something. Also i guess you'd classify my group as "druggies" and she would be one of the more popular preppy girls in her grade.
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Old 2007-06-22, 05:00
bain surgeon bain surgeon is offline
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Just straight up ask her out, you'll be glad you did even if she turns you down.
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Old 2007-06-22, 07:18
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Notice her.
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Old 2007-06-22, 08:46
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