My friend has got himself a girlfriend. Not a girlfriend, really, just a girl he hangs out with a lot. It seems a lot of my friends are getting mad at this because he used to hang out with them all the time, and now he hangs out with this girl all the time.

It's kind of stupid. It seems everyone is shady as fuck with one another the last few weeks due to this. I think the girl is alright to be around with. I've known her for a year or so and so has everyone else, but I'm the only person out of my group of friends that doesn't have a problem with her.

Everyone is just a dick to her. Like, not just a subtle dick, outright mean. Overly mean. People call her a slut and a bitch and tell her to shut the fuck up all the time and shit like that but she never does shit to deserve it.

I think it's just my friends being immature bitches. They're mad that they can't hang out with their friend all day everyday like they used to because of this girl. I don't have a problem with it. Then again, I've never been an asshole to her, and that's probably why. When she's around all of my friends she doesn't really talk much and when she does it's usually met with some insulting remark. Perhaps if they didn't do this, hanging out with her would be a lot more enjoyable for everyone.

I'm sure people have stories to share, so share them. I don't want to pick sides or anything but it seems like my friends are being dicks for no reason.

Sounds like straight up jealously...watch out if u ever do work with a girl sounds like theyll end up opening up on you too...they are just mad that they lost their good friend, to some girl that he is prolly hangs out with, cutting into your guys' previous hang out time...

me and like 6 of my friends sat and had a talk about that situation..and if bros before ho's was a legit saying..all of us agreed we'd more than likely dip out on a friend if it was a descent enough girl....but then if they could pickup that the girl was treating me like shit or owning me theyd step in and say something..like we have done several times to my friends brother(gets owned by his GF literally)....thats the only time ive ever spoken up on the subject

I have done this myself, was hanging out with a friend..got word of hanging out with a girl..just took off..he understood tho so there wasnt a problem..

That's exactly what happened to my best friend of 10 years. We used to hang out every day. Now, since he got a girlfriend, it's 1-2 times per week, if that.

He used to call me when he said he would too. Now he only calls me about half the time he says he will.

since your in sixth grade (otherwise you would have figured this out by now), fuck it either they'll get over it or they'll choose to find a new friend. They weren't good friends if they casn't understand your other friend wanting to hang out with a female...i mean, seriously...get over it.

Have you said anything about it? Has he?

HaHa it sounds to me like you're all ghay for this guy and jealous of the girl!

the onset of puberty will most likely resolve your angst!

exactly

If it wasn't for sex, no one would give two fucks about 95% of the women out there. Most of which have very poor social skills, and rely on 'cutsy' behavior to get people to like them. Most of which are narcissistic assholes. And most of which are annoying as fuck.

I hate it when a friend stops hanging out with me, or one of my buddies and spends all of their time with the girl. I bet if you cut the sex out of it, they wouldn't. I mean, how could someone stand a girl for that long without looking forward to some kind of sexual favor? I know I can't.

I think you should ignore him. See what he does. If he doesnt msg or call you, then FUCK him.

If he does, then he is pussy whipped and he can be forgiven. Think about it, what would you do in his situation? though it does depend wether you have been in it or not....

Did it ever occur to you that there might be something more than just a friendship between this guy and this girl? That's generally what happens. My best friend is a girl, and has been for a while, slowly but surely we started "liking" each other, and sooner or later we started fuckin. Then an ass came along and took her from me but there's an entirely different thread on that... We're still best friends, but I'm not getting any anymore and that pisses me off.

When you "hang out" with a girl it generally means youre almost, if not already, dating her.

They may both say that they're "just friends" but thats what me and the girl in my situation did too. I could never do anything after school, because according to us, I was helping her with her Anatomy/Physiology homework. We thought they would catch on to that analogy, and they really kinda did, but never made a big deal about it. It was always like "Yeah Mike's helping her study anatomy"(roll eyes and smile)
... I mean if they arent with you and your boys all the time, how do you know what they are really doing? They could be at a movie, or dinner, or fuckin for all you know.

As for your other friends, theyre just jealous. They need to grow the fuck up. They not only feel intimidated, but sorta degraded(inferior) that a GIRL, of all people, has taken their place. If thats how they treat girls than they probably arent getting any, and again they might not acknowledge it, but in the back of their minds, they are jealous that your friend is, more than likely.

My best guy friend got a girlfriend and we rarely see him anymore lol He's pussy whipped. We really dont care though, because we all know whenever he doesnt answer his phone its because he's probably fuckin. We still chill with him and his gf but we're mature enough that we dont treat her like shit.