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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-06-19, 10:59 |
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 Presence and Absence..Effective?
I've heard in several different places, that letting a chick be, not talking to her for a couple days or a while(period of absense), then eventually calling her or picking up her call or meeting up with her after a period of absence will make her want u more(if she wants u in the first place)...any truth behind this or just a placebo bulshit?
Im about to dick around with this idea, cause im blowing a shitload of cell minutes talking to this girl(card phone :-( ..), and we aint hanging till friday so, really no point of talking to her....plus i feel i cant do as much work as i can in person, since its just verbal action.....
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#2
2007-06-19, 12:46 |
Eindringling 
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
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Originally Posted by NitrousMafia
I've heard in several different places, that letting a chick be, not talking to her for a couple days or a while(period of absense), then eventually calling her or picking up her call or meeting up with her after a period of absence will make her want u more(if she wants u in the first place)...any truth behind this or just a placebo bulshit?
Im about to dick around with this idea, cause im blowing a shitload of cell minutes talking to this girl(card phone :-( ..), and we aint hanging till friday so, really no point of talking to her....plus i feel i cant do as much work as i can in person, since its just verbal action.....
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i've yet to try it but i've heard (from females) that it works...maybe i should try it right now |
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#3
2007-06-19, 12:52 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
It makes you look less desperate. Like you've got a full and busy life, and you don't really need her. And it makes her question whether or not you really like her. There are few things girls like as much as doubting themselves.
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#4
2007-06-19, 15:10 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
There are few things girls like as much as doubting themselves.
Which is why girls are so goddamn stupid. Seriously if I was gay things would be way easier I wouldnt have to put up with bullshit all the time....but, I'm definitely only attracted to females so i gotta put up with crap like this.
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#5
2007-06-19, 15:14 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Playing hard to get and that. Giving the gift of missing you.
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#6
2007-06-19, 16:04 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
It's a silly game to play.
Unless there's some reason not to talk, then you should talk. It's burning through your cell minutes; that's a reason not to talk so much, especially if you need those minutes for other reasons.
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#7
2007-06-19, 16:27 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Yea i realized it can go both ways, depending on where u stand, can bring the desired effects, or the girl could think you dont like her....but in my situation i can afford to do it cause im pretty sure we both already know what the deal is.....
and it is burning thru my minutes, 500 minutes goes like nothing.....especially since they rip me off on texting also(not just talking to her) but i just bought a card like a week and a half ago and im down to 115 mins, when i just had 500.....
Im jus leaving my phone off tonite, or on silent....prolly wake up the next day with a voicemail message/missed call
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#8
2007-06-19, 16:40 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Is this the same chick that you noticed the smell coming off of? You ever get that figured out?
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#9
2007-06-19, 17:09 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Ahhh i guess u could say that, this is just a girl that is in out of the grey area and into the circle of business... i pick up the so called scent from like 4 out of 5 women i walk around....shes just one of the 80%. I believe its just their own scent, but in certain times may have tinge of vage smell to it, which may or may not be plesant smelling, depending on the female....
Im taking her to a movie friday, so ill see if i can pickup on it again(as i did the first time i met her, took her to a movie,very strong heh), ill re-bump the other topic with a conclusion then...
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#10
2007-06-19, 17:17 |
sidewayz6.6
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Grey area? Circle of business? I'm confused...
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#11
2007-06-19, 17:21 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
this girl...she went from being in the grey area..of just talking/friends/nothing...to the circle of business..more than a friend
get it?
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#12
2007-06-19, 17:50 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Ahh, I got it. How come you're mobile on AIM?
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#13
2007-06-19, 17:53 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
cause i never de-activated that service for my old celly...im online now tho
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#14
2007-06-19, 18:43 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Ooch...I used to have a phone card phone...fucking highhway robbery.
I'd only talk to the gals if it was important on it...gas was less expensive comparitively (company discount) so I'd play some sweet bit about not cheapening communication, and the importance of face to face conversation.
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2007-06-19, 19:20 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
yea, i sort of bitched about it...in a sense..the first date we had because we just seen a movie and that was in..didnt get to talk much..im like fuck talking on the phone doesnt cut it for me yo....i need in person...even tho im effective over the phone, i just dont feel the thril as much in person......
finishing up on the biz friday...sch sch
but anyone have any other thought on the "off time" factor
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#16
2007-06-21, 17:26 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
I guess i answered my own question.....talked to her and had a lil bit more heat behind the conversation, some in depth talking and such....guess it works depending on the situation as i figured
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#17
2007-06-21, 18:34 |
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Re: Presence and Absence..Effective?
Recently, my girlfriend broke up with me claiming the "spark" wasn't there anymore. I begged her for like 4 days to take me back - she refused. I finally decided "fuck it," and left her alone for a day and told her I didn't need her. The next day she was going crazy, telling me how much she needed me and stuff. We're now back together perfectly happy.
I believe it works, lol, but there are some situations where it doesn't work.
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