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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-06-19, 00:35
WannaFuckWannaSex0r WannaFuckWannaSex0r is offline
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Default i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

how does that exactly work?
ive asked people and they said they feel guilty if they get dumped. What do you feel guilty abuot?
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Old 2007-06-19, 00:37
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Feel guilty as in "Oh shit all my fault I shouldnt of done blah blah"

Other than that I don't know.
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Old 2007-06-19, 00:39
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

Guilty? I've never felt guilty for being dumped.

You feel inadequate, because some part of you was critically flawed to the point of ending the relationship over. And most of the time, you never know what that was. So it's an all-over feeling of insecurity, where you start to doubt things that weren't even wrong to begin with.
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Old 2007-06-19, 00:44
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

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Guilty? I've never felt guilty for being dumped.

You feel inadequate, because some part of you was critically flawed to the point of ending the relationship over. And most of the time, you never know what that was. So it's an all-over feeling of insecurity, where you start to doubt things that weren't even wrong to begin with.


Which could lead and generally does lead to a slight glimpse of the feeling of guilt for making the person you care about unhappy to the extent of extermination. Not that I've ever been dumped, but it will happen eventually.
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Old 2007-06-19, 00:45
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

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Guilty? I've never felt guilty for being dumped.

You feel inadequate, because some part of you was critically flawed to the point of ending the relationship over. And most of the time, you never know what that was. So it's an all-over feeling of insecurity, where you start to doubt things that weren't even wrong to begin with.


i believe this all stems from an overly narcissistic view of one's self. People should be more humble and accept the fact taht they are flawed. Everyone is flawed.
THis simple mundane fact should not make peopel feel insecure at all.
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Old 2007-06-19, 01:30
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

I've never been dumped, but I've had girls ignore me whenever we've been having so much fun.

Usually I start to think "Shit, I'm such an ass.. it's all my fault she didn't like me. I knew I should have played hard to get."
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Old 2007-06-19, 02:17
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

i believe this all stems from an overly narcissistic view of one's self. People should be more humble and accept the fact taht they are flawed. Everyone is flawed.
THis simple mundane fact should not make peopel feel insecure at all.

Bitch you are anything but humble, and have insecure thoughts about oneself is not something that is curable. It is ALWAYS going to happen, are you telling me that one person has never doubted themselves? Its bullshit, so keep your bullshit to yourself, and work on not being a creepy Asian.
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Old 2007-06-19, 03:06
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

i believe this all stems from an overly narcissistic view of one's self. People should be more humble and accept the fact taht they are flawed. Everyone is flawed.
THis simple mundane fact should not make peopel feel insecure at all.

Excellent sentiment, although delivery was sub-par.
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Old 2007-06-19, 15:12
Eindringling Eindringling is offline
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

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how does that exactly work?
ive asked people and they said they feel guilty if they get dumped. What do you feel guilty abuot?


its kuz they need to grow up.

When you lose a job, you dont sit there and say "i should have done this bla bla bla." NO. You go online and immediately look for a new job.

Same with girls. You get dumped, you dont bitch. You go outside and immediately look for a new girl or girls.
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Old 2007-06-21, 16:33
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

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how does that exactly work?
ive asked people and they said they feel guilty if they get dumped. What do you feel guilty abuot?





Guilty anit the word for it pissed off is i can remember all the time me and my bf hav broken up and we hav only been 2gether a year and half but we broke up like 30 times i dnt fell guilty i just want 2 kill the fucker for breakin my heart but then again we always make up in the end so x
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Old 2007-06-21, 21:48
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Default Re: i dont understand how people feel guilty when they get dumped

Guilty anit the word for it pissed off is i can remember all the time me and my bf hav broken up and we hav only been 2gether a year and half but we broke up like 30 times i dnt fell guilty i just want 2 kill the fucker for breakin my heart but then again we always make up in the end so x

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