So I took a trip to San Diego a few weeks ago planning on staying like a week or ten days or something and decided that I like it so much down here that I'll stick around for a little while.

The friend I'm staying with got a one time job catering a wedding for a friends family and asked me if I wanted to help out. It was a blast. The most amazing house I've ever seen. While I was at the wedding (basically hanging out, not really working at all), I saw this girl there and I couldn't take my eyes off her. I started to talk to her a little and she's single and pretty much everything I'm looking for in a girl. I finally am a believer in the saying that goes something like "there's someone out there for everyone". I'm just so happy at the moment and felt like putting it out there.

Good boy. You don't fail at life. *pat pat*

Thats a nice story. And I think she's very pretty. Have you arranged to see her again?

Ya. Movie tomorrow night. Taking her out to dinner at this nice italian restaurant sometime this week. Then saturday night theres a party on the beach with a bonfire and all that jazz.

I'm pretty pumped with the current situation.

Get her banged, padawan.

Good work. More luck than I had recently.

Zaknafein.

I'll work on it. Seems she's a virgin, which is a HUGE fucking plus. She's given head and the like, but no actual intercourse. I'm not even that interested in the sexual part of the relationship right now. I just wanna get a relationship going. Things happen a little later on, after the trust builds up. That's a given.

She told me she has a hard time trusting guys, as she's been hurt before. I was talking to her for like three or four hours about everything basically last night and I learned ALOT about her. She also learned much about me, as I was being 100% honest with her.

The girls not really my type.

But weddings are kick-ass. I've been working at a catering hall that does primarily weddings for 3 years now. As a bartender for the past two no less. Great money. Free drinks. And the women...

I live in SD

east county that is :)

Oh man the women......thats one of the first things I noticed when I got there. I made $110 for like 5 hours of work that wasn't even really work. Talking to people most of the time. Started at around 2:30, and was done by 7:30. After that it was drinking and having a good time. After party at the groom's apt. All in all, it was one of the best jobs i've ever had.

This house was in um.........valley springs or something? North of Escondido. I don't usually like the country or houses in it, but I fell in love with this one.

Edit: it wasn't that far north of Escondido. Just kinda far out there. Whatever town it was in, it was REALLY small. Like there was only one small grocery store and like two small diners.

This house was in um.........valley springs or something? North of Escondido. I don't usually like the country or houses in it, but I fell in love with this one.

spring valley is in east county, but its definitely not north of escondido, thats all north county stuff like del mar and whatnot

Thats probably what it was. Honestly, I don't know. I'm still trying to figure out how to get to Ocean Beach without getting lost. I'm getting ok at navigating SD though.

Hmmm......seems as if she wants to walk alone on the pier and see how I kiss. I like this idea :)

Movie idea = lame. Just so you know.

Movie idea = lame. Just so you know.

Oh, I know a movie's quite lame. She suggested it, wanting to see something that's out right now, so I'll just go with it.

Oh, I know a movie's quite lame. She suggested it, wanting to see something that's out right now, so I'll just go with it.

No, no you won't. Tell her you have other plans in mind, something way more interesting than a movie. I am sure she would much rather be surprised then sit through a movie. Movies are for when you have been dating for a while. You are trying to make an impression on this girl right?

Think of something creative, the jazz idea was good and a walk on the pier was her idea? That is also good, so try and mix up all this shit so it isn't watching a movie.

^^^ Good call bro. I'll think of something before the nights end.


Edit: found a party for tomorrow night. Should be MUCH more fun :)

I'm pretty pumped with the current situation.

dont get too pumped up and then get over confident and fuck up.. i do that sometimes it sucks afterwards.

Bah, fuck your summer love.

*swills gin around bottom of glass*

Good stuff mate. Good to see atleast one of our totseans hasnt got any 'game' problems.

Ahh. What's to say about San Diego. The women are hot but almost all of them have tatoos and piercings, which can be good or bad based on your personal preferences. And the guys in SD all seem like punk rock star wannabe faggots or feminine preppies (less competition I guess for everyone up north). Ironic because it's filled with boxing clubs on every other block.

How old do you have to be to cater a wedding? Sounds like fun.

This one only has the ears and belly button pierced. No tattoos. She's planning on getting a few, but not at the moment. All the people that I've met down here seem to be pretty cool. Haven't really met anyone that I didn't like yet. I have seen a bunch of the types that you're talking about though. Little pretty girl out looking for free drinks by wearing a short skirt and low-cut shirt. Guys with an attitude who fit the description that you said.

Boxing clubs though? Haven't seen any of those, but it may be the fact that I haven't really looked.

Well, the catering thing that I did was for a friend and her family. I think the age is 18, as you're dealing with knives and shit, but I could be wrong. If you're interested, look into it. There's ALOT of money in that type of job.

Not much game on my part, but I just know how to say what she wants to hear. I know how to word shit right and make it sound the best that it can. I'm very good with words and being a nice/sweet guy. It helps. I'm not the type to go to that mysterymethod site or whatever it's called and try and follow their methods of picking up girls. It's just not me. I'm not the tough guy in any way, shape or form. I'm just myself and it seems to work most of the time. My problem is actually going up to the girl and striking up a conversation. I'm pretty shy when it comes to this shit. I've lost countless opportunities at girls because all I could do was look at them from a distance. I'm working on it though. Thats how I met this girl. I had my eyes locked on her like the entire time I was there, and vice versa. After I noticed that she was looking at me alot, I built up enough courage to go and talk to her. I don't think I chose a good method to get her number though. I was talking to her for a while and I said "could you do me a huge favor?" and i handed her my phone and said "could you put something in there for me?" and I had her number. Might be a good method, might not. Worked this time though.

Oh and one last thing to end this post with. Thanks for the support. I had a feeling that I would get flamed out, but it turned out to be the opposite.

Well tomorrow should actually be the first night anythings happened. I was promised a blowjob and offered to return the favor.

The thing about this is that it's been a while for me. I don't want to have a mouth jump on my cock and just cum in her mouth fifteen seconds later. Jerk off before I leave? I'm considering this option.

Any other tips? Thinking of something else during the act doesn't seem to work for me. I can just keep my mind on a mouth going up and down on my dick.

Beat off before, and before you leave look at some really gruesome pictures of the ravages of war, abortions, murders, suicides, etc...

You should be able to just dive into your mind at any moment and think about one of the many images you've seen, which could just help you last that extra bot longer..

I dunno, it sounds like it'd work. Me personally however I just think about baseball and other really boring shit.

If she's just giving you head, she'll be flattered if you cum in about 15 seconds, and her jaw will hurt less.