People tell me what to do/Give me some fn advice

I go out with boy for a long time.. we never do it.

I now have a girlfriend. She has cheated on me (on our anniversary!!!!) but we are cool and can have an open relationship.

My issue is I am so mad I never fucked in my boy relationship because we should've and the only reason we didn't is he didn't pressure me enough

Well anyways I don't want to be a virgin because I'm jealous that my girlfriend has fucked guys and casually still kinda does.. but I haven't

I haven't cause I would kill myself... not actually but I would die of guilt

So do I push through that and fuck a random.. fuck my ex... or just don't have sex and live with being a virgin for however long we stay together

You get walked all over and make yourself into the victim (not pressure you enough? wtf?). There's your problem. You want it? Go get it. Other guys obviously are, what's stopping you from doing the same? No one's fault but yours, so you're mad at who now?

Hmmm I'm a girl... Your post makes it sound like you do not know that.

You know I do claim that. But see I don't know if I want it. I only do for stupid purposes/want to just get it over with.

But think about it. You are in highschool. Most girls don't say to there boyfriend.. let's do it. It's kinda frightening and like you don't want to come off as a slut.. so isn't it normal that your boyfriend shoudl pressure you

well, if you ever come to my town we could date and become really close then do it, then live happily ever-after together.


edit-But on a more serious note, sex is over rated. suuurrreee its fun and all, but really, its not something to worry and be conserned about. It happens when it happens. thats all there is to it :)

I say go screw your ex boyfriend.

Nope, didn't know you're a girl, so scrap most of that post. Why want to just get it over with? It's not a bad thing by any means and you'd probably end up regretting it if you go about it this way anyways. Relax, it'll happen when it happens and no sense worrying over it or letting it frustrate you.

If you want to regret the first time you have sex for the rest of your life, go and fuck your ex, but I can't see that going well.

If I were 15-16 again (so 2 or 3 years younger) I wouldn't find it frightening at all unless I'm some complete wuss or afraid of sex versus the big bag of horny that is 99% of teenagers. Forget what's normal and do what you want. You're in a potentially sexual relationship and asking about sex shouldn't be odd or scary. Sex with one guy isn't slutty, but maybe crawling back to your ex for it doesn't have the best look to it, which is why I say nay to it.

Besides, being a virgin is automatically +5

Where you live? I might be able to help out with said "problem".

Oh I have options for that problem... but I don't want to take them. Like even with good looking guys it's just I don't want to. It's cheating and I'm very opposed to this. But I was cheated on so I should even that score and I should be in an open relationship.

Man I'm pissed at the world. Screeeeeewwww this.

Id relax hey

First of all you gotta relies its no big deal to loose it

Then youll relies its actually really easy for most chicks


find a guy who you think might have an interest in you (beleave me its not hard)

get him somewhere outside of school (party's are great drinking makes confidence easy but dont get blind drunk its a real turn off to be poked in the eye or someshit)

Dont play the easy slut on the guy

Just grab the fucker tell him exactly what you wont (whisper in his ear all sexy like or something) and that if he breathes a word hell never get another look again
Be confident and take control trust me we all follow

(oh and if you think hes being a tool forget it theres always another night and this is about getting yours not his)



ps just dont be a bitch

Ps loose your g/f your getting screwed (well not literally but you get it)



either that or givin the way you describe it ITS not cheating

Yeah but I love her more than anyone... so I can't do that.

Do you ever just lived so unsatisfied?

Like every day you are waiting for something to happen. You are waiting to feel purpose and it just fulfills you.

Everyday I wait till I don't love her anymore. Though I love loving her, I can't take this anymore.

Everyday hun everyday

Cant tell you what you feel thats all on you

Love is a hard thing to forget and an easy thing to confuse

Judge your situation honestly Does she love you?
are you really in love or is it just the closest youve felt?

ultimately is it worth the pain of being cheated on to stay with this person
Even if she says she loves you but wants an open relationship
trust me at this point in your lives its really more likely
I really like to hook up with lots of people but having you to come back to means i never go lonely

sorry if thats hard

last of all dont just loose it couse you jealous she has or you want to make her jealous



Good luck

LOL

Did your gf just jack your account ???


LMFAO

im staying the fuck away from this
*EDIT*
no actually im a oppionated bastard


hah

I'm sorry if our life is so awful, i'm sorry if you're so angry, i love you and i know yo love me, you dotn want to stop loving me, you dont want to be without me, we're meant for each other, we will stay togehter, but only if you make the right decisions to keep us that way.


This is the kinda crap people speak to keep people close I mean Its exactly what i would say to a 15 yr old if they were having doubts

as if You dont know what Love is

To drop it all for that ones person They should have to ask You shouldnt want another

Dont tell her what to feel that the sort of thing she should decide for herself
Your telling her your right you the one

How the fuck do you know
No one can ever Know whats in anothers heart They just think they know
You method of talking would win over someone who was uncertain and unsure of themselves because You sound like you know what your on about making life easy she dosent have to think if she listens to you


LMFAO
I really hope the OP can actually see through that line of shit
which is admitably hard when you care about someone but damn

Dont be so pissed baby
Being a virgin isnt a big deal, plus you're not really a virgin, if you're in a sexual relationship, lesbian sex is still sex.
If you want to have actualy coitus nothign is stopping you, you're obviously in a "open realtionship" for a reason.
Cheating hurts i guess, but its not really cheating if youre in an open relationship, if you want us to not be open then you should tell me that, I love you i'd understand.
Baby dont fuck the ex, you'd regret it. But do fuck another guy, i think if you take it slow and feel a connection with someone you should just do it, i dont think you'd die of guilt, just try it.
I'm sorry if our life is so awful, i'm sorry if you're so angry, i love you and i know yo love me, you dotn want to stop loving me, you dont want to be without me, we're meant for each other, we will stay togehter, but only if you make the right decisions to keep us that way.


I love you baby, feel better, and dont be so worried, you think too muc

LOL

Did your gf just jack your account ???


LMFAO

im staying the fuck away from this
*EDIT*
no actually im a oppionated bastard


hah


This is the kinda crap people speak to keep people close I mean Its exactly what i would say to a 15 yr old if they were having doubts

as if You dont know what Love is

To drop it all for that ones person They should have to ask You shouldnt want another

Dont tell her what to feel that the sort of thing she should decide for herself
Your telling her your right you the one

How the fuck do you know
No one can ever Know whats in anothers heart They just think they know
You method of talking would win over someone who was uncertain and unsure of themselves because You sound like you know what your on about making life easy she dosent have to think if she listens to you


LMFAO
I really hope the OP can actually see through that line of shit
which is admitably hard when you care about someone but damn



Fuck you, were not 15, i'm not trying to convince her of anythign or brain wash her into thinking somethign she doesnt think.

I know that thats what totse is, just a forum to speak your opinion without serious context, but it hurst me for you to tell her to break up with me when you dont know us.

Were both in an awk situation me and her, we just need to deal with it if we think that love is worth it, and i do.

I konw the difference between love and just being accustomed to someone or feeling close to them, dont belittle my love or hers.

I'm sorry for being a bit of a bitch to you, i just feel the need to defend myself.

Fuck you, were not 15, i'm not trying to convince her of anythign or brain wash her into thinking somethign she doesnt think.

I know that thats what totse is, just a forum to speak your opinion without serious context, but it hurst me for you to tell her to break up with me when you dont know us.

Were both in an awk situation me and her, we just need to deal with it if we think that love is worth it, and i do.

I konw the difference between love and just being accustomed to someone or feeling close to them, dont belittle my love or hers.

I'm sorry for being a bit of a bitch to you, i just feel the need to defend myself.

its alright bout expected that reply

You right i know nothing more about the situation than was presented to me

So i gave my opinion based on what i saw

I dont assume your 15 but at the same time i dont imagine your all that old but nm it has lil todo with the situation

I do not intend to belittle anyones feelings but it is fair to question them
You may know how you feel
You may think you know what she feels
I know i have no idea so i present my opinion based on my lifes experience and the the situation presented.

and in my lifes experience

Id be backing the fuck away from you

Not to say your a bad person but I dont think your really going to make anything easier for her

My advice for her is to make up her own mind independent of what anyone else thinks

Do what you want with the situation and be confident enough to do it
Dont settle for anything less than what you want even if you dont think you can make that happen.



and btw
Were both in an awk situation me and her, we just need to deal with it if we think that love is worth it, and i do.
How awk could it be You either love one another or not

If you do and Your in open relationship isnt going to work because people care to much

otherwise i reakon you guys are tossing around that word "love" for a lot less than its worth

I'm sorry if our life is so awful, i'm sorry if you're so angry, i love you and i know yo love me, you dotn want to stop loving me, you dont want to be without me, we're meant for each other, we will stay togehter, but only if you make the right decisions to keep us that way.


See if I were with you, I'd run my ass off, that's some grade A guilt/manipulative bullshit right thurr. The OP can decide for herself what she wants just fine and what she wants out of this messed up 'relationship' that you two are in, and doesn't need you to force her or guilt trip her around any of it. You cheated on her (from what I read) and you think you can tell her how it is and how it should be according to just what you want? Bitch.

Ok rant over, but the kind of person you seem to be annoys the living hell out of me.

Come to papa, baby.

I will sleep with you...

Come to papa, baby.




Your evil dude






lmao