Im meeting up with this girl who now considers me her boyfreind , she lives in brooklyn and I live in manhattan and its 2-3 hour seperation. I like her and all yet I know im not going to take her too seriously. We're meeting up on friday in a neutral distance in the middle of downtown to hang out. I was wondering what things I should do with her to make her really want to see again the next time , then the next time hopefully seal the deal with some sexual gratification at my place.

Just have fun. Go out to eat someplace. And end it off with a kiss or something. That'll make her float.

What things should we talk about , were mostly gettin to know each other. I tend to run out of things to say or ask on first dates. Not of lack of knowledge or anything just kind of go blank at times. And my mind turns primitive and and all i can think of is well , I think you get the picture.

What things should we talk about , were mostly gettin to know each other. I tend to run out of things to say or ask on first dates. Not of lack of knowledge or anything just kind of go blank at times. And my mind turns primitive and and all i can think of is well , I think you get the picture.

Same with me, I suck at starting conversations. But if she starts talking about something, go along with it.

Example

Her: This coffee's good...
You: Yeah, I usually take mine with some cream, but black is nice sometimes too. It has this strong, artistic feeling about it....

Ok, shitty example. But you get the point. You don't have to make it into a big deal. Just talk about stuff thats going on in your life if it dulls down. Like what you're trying to do in the future ect.

Same with me, I suck at starting conversations. But if she starts talking about something, go along with it.

Example

Her: This coffee's good...
You: Yeah, I usually take mine with some cream, but black is nice sometimes too. It has this strong, artistic feeling about it....

Ok, shitty example. But you get the point. You don't have to make it into a big deal. Just talk about stuff thats going on in your life if it dulls down. Like what you're trying to do in the future ect.

That made me laugh, it was good. Yet , this girl is 16 not much depht in her. Thanks for the advice though. I think I should just lie like theirs no tommorow then post pics after im done with her for totse.

Damn you totse, you have tainted my soul.

your in New York City...

if you cant figure out something to do, you are a disgrace.

Dude, fuck her.

she lives three hours away
you don't know what to talk about with her
she's as shallow as a puddle
and you don't want anything serious, but you're notgoing to get any?

why exactly are you dating her?

where did you pick up im not getting any.

Oh im getting something , its not negotionable. She's affectionate and sweet and could tend me my neeeds and wouldnt be a cloud ovar my shoulder since she wouldnt b CONSTANTLY around me.

where did you pick up im not getting any.

Oh im getting something , its not negotionable. She's affectionate and sweet and could tend me my neeeds and wouldnt be a cloud ovar my shoulder since she wouldnt b CONSTANTLY around me.

where you said that you weren't getting any next time, and that you might get some next time.

sweet+affection != sex all the time
she may just want to like, cuddle and stuff

where you said that you weren't getting any next time, and that you might get some next time.

sweet+affection != sex all the time
she may just want to like, cuddle and stuff

she could cuddle with me , as long as im inside her while she's doing it.