Every now and then there's a thread here where someone asks how to conceal his boners.
And the response is usually something like "wear it proud!" or "the gurls dig it!"

So...what is the general consensus?
Do you mind when the guy in whose lap you're sitting in has an apparent hard-on?

Hehe, boners.

But seriously, I think it's cute.

depends. if i like the guy, or show interest and do something and he gets one, hell yeah it's flattering.

if it's someone sitting across from me on the train, not so much.

Oh, I forgot to mention that.
When the boner takes place it is already quite clear that both involved are somewhat infatuated with each other.

Is it a common thing where you live for girls to just casually sit with a boy in that manner?

whenever i visit my brother that's the first thing my niece insists on doing
a boner in that situation would be very awkward

If I fancy a guy and he gets a boner I'm flattered. If I don't.... then I think it's gross. But then I wouldn't be sat in the lap of a guy I don't fancy.

i hate when me and my gf are sitting down and i have my back against the wall, and she has her back against my chest inbetween my legs, and then i get a boner and she's basically crushing it. shes not big or fat by any means, but it doesnt take alot of weight to hurt an erect penis. atleast now from the girls' responses i wont try to hide my hard on so much when im with her. ha, i wonder if she ever felt my boner hitting her lower back.

teehee.

When my boyfriend and I first started going out I thought it was cute...now he calls me a "fiend" because I do everything I can to turn him on even when he's had enough. 'Boners' are good fun. :)

Is it a common thing where you live for girls to just casually sit with a boy in that manner?

Sure, I had a girl who I'd never met before sat on my knee on Friday night. She was hot too (Scandalous!)

But yeah, regarding it from the male point of view I try to hide it as best I can by like... not moving? Or, putting a coat on my lap.

If I actually had a girlfriend and I was comfortable around her, I wouldn't be so bothered about it.

Zaknafein.

as long as both parties are as equally interested in each other as you're putting it, feel free to poke us with your boners all you like. it's cute and they're fun to play with.

assuming it's my boyfriend, then cool, whatever.

if two people are interested in each other, then i can't see why not, though it might spook her a little if she's young/not used to it

lol spook her? as in, she wouldnt know what to do/think?

i usually get sex if i have a boner, so no worries

If there is significant sexual tension between myself and the bone-ee then I’m a happy camper; actually, it may even increase the level of arousal the girl is already experiencing (if any at all). I have an issue with shy guys who think having a boner in front of a girl is the worst thing that can happen, so if you’re sporting one dude, don’t be ashamed—it sends a girl the message that what they’re doing is good! ;)

I think it's cute and funny, if it's my boyfriend. If it's some weird guy I don't know, it's a tad creepy.

If I'm sitting in the lap of a lover boy just to be cute, not sexual, then he gets a boner, I would feel very awkward and find an excuse to get off.

That was one of the coolest things I've heard in a while.

2 girls who i was close with were sittin on my lap and i was like" EY I GOT A BONER" and i ended up gettin head from 2 prety hot girls.

my gf likes mine a lot to

Oooooooh, erections are so erotic. They get me horny like nothing else.

QFT !