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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-06-16, 05:13
Silhouette Silhouette is offline
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Default Trouble with a girl

Me: Moderately attractive, 15, popular in school but not a jock/prep or w/e
Her: Very attractive, 15, as above.

Issue #1: Were good friends, but I don't think us splitting up if we were to go out would make it awkward.

Issue #2: I can never get a chance. It seems that as soon as she breaks up with one person, and I start building up the courage, I find out that she's going out with a new person. She's not a slut though, she hasn't even ever kissed a guy before. And I know that she is kinda interested, because she told me she liked my last holidays.

Issue #3: It fucking pisses me off that of all the guys she goes out with, most of them hadn't actually have ever talked to her much beforehand. But us, un-oficially, I'm probably her best friend that's a boy, including her supposed boyfriend, and they don't even talk at school at all really.

I know this sounds 'immature' and 'kiddy' or whatever, but it's really bugging me and giving me the shits that I miss out on this awesome chance to some dick who gets in there before me.

Any advice?
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Old 2007-06-16, 05:18
averageBT averageBT is offline
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Default Re: Trouble with a girl

get your act up and tell her how you feel. WHO gives two shits if she is going out with someone, the worst that can happen is she says no. i have a friend who really tought me something out of situations that I take out of proportions. what's the worst that could happen?

look at it this way, she may like you...but does she know that you like her too? she is in the very same situation that you are in, and it'll stay that way if one of you don't do anything.
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Old 2007-06-16, 05:24
Silhouette Silhouette is offline
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Default Re: Trouble with a girl

I think she kinda might know I like her. There's a good chance she doesn't, though.
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Old 2007-06-16, 07:04
TheManticore91 TheManticore91 is offline
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Default Re: Trouble with a girl

Well, she admitted to liking you, didn't she? I mean, from the sounds of it, she'd have guys asking her out all the time she's single. My recommendation, next time the topic comes up, tell her how you feel. That way when she's single, you'll have more ground to stand on.

As for worrying about losing her as a friend, I ran into this too. But my girlfriend and I have agreed that if we see problems emerging, we'll try our hardest go back to being just friends.

Once you have the chance, just force the words out. Because once you start talking, you're into unknown land. Might as well see it out!
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Old 2007-06-16, 07:24
Silhouette Silhouette is offline
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Default Re: Trouble with a girl

okay, thanks.
 
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