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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-06-16, 02:56
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The land of milk and honey
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Me 22, she 16 . Would definately be the biggest age diff I've ever experienced.

Well?
 #2 
Old 2007-06-16, 02:57
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was she hot?
 #3 
Old 2007-06-16, 02:59
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The land of milk and honey
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Fuck yea.
 #4 
Old 2007-06-16, 03:01
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nah your good then
 #5 
Old 2007-06-16, 03:10
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Depending on where you live, it is legal for a sixteen year old to give consent to have sex, but when they're that young, sometimes it's the parents you have to worry more about.

Are you in good company with her parents?
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Old 2007-06-16, 03:27
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Florida, US
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I think if the girl is over 16 and the guy is under 24, and you have the parents consent, then it's legal. Well, thats what my 16 year old girlfriend told me anyways...
 #7 
Old 2007-06-16, 03:38
Molotov Everything Molotov Everything is offline
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It's only okay if you post nekkid pix of her.
 #8 
Old 2007-06-16, 03:46
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I would think this is a little weird....but thats me.

You're both legal so in the eyes of the law it is okay, however society may view it differently...but since when should people care about that.
 #9 
Old 2007-06-16, 06:48
devilsadvocate devilsadvocate is offline
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how the hell is it legal?if hes in the states she at least has to be ''18'' or u go to jail for rape,its termed ina different way but its still senn as that...

but hey man what uncle sam doesnt find out is your good fortune,so ask yourself these two questions

1) is she good lookin and doesnt look 16
2) is she mature enought o handle an actual relationship to your desires

and if both of those are a go

then thumbs up man go for it,as long as it doesnt wierd you out,as long as age doesnt strike u as a guilt trip and you can get over it then why not,love is still love,to some degree unless your a pedo which is just plain fn creepy
 #10 
Old 2007-06-16, 07:21
TehWTF TehWTF is offline
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If you plan on having sex I'd say no for legal reasons but I know a couple who started dating at 16 and 22 as well and they are the BEST couple. they're not perfect but they are kindred spirits and have a good life (not really the healthiest lifestyle) together and with a group of friends that they share. It's logical to think you'd do well from their example, but get ready to be pulled into some high school bull shit like more drama in general.
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Old 2007-06-16, 07:57
whiteass whiteass is offline
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get ready to be pulled into some high school bull shit like more drama in general.


yep yep. My girl was 16 and I was 18 when we met. Not bad of an age difference at all. But she was still running with her high school crowd, while I had graduated and moved out, supporting myself. Luckily for me, she hates drama as much as I do, so it never really was that bad. But do expect drama.

And at 19 I still felt weird dropping my girl off and picking her up from school. Mostly cause im in the army, so regardless of the state the girl is supposed to be 18. If that rule wouldnt have been there, I dont think i would have cared at all.

You dont gotta worry to much about her if shes mature. You just gotta worry about her retarded ass friends.
 #12 
Old 2007-06-16, 08:30
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Is 14 too young for 16 year old?
Oh, and im 187cm, shes 156cm, its looks kinda strange when she insists on holding hands...
(im like 6foot2 right? shes like 5)
 #13 
Old 2007-06-16, 09:47
moothecow moothecow is offline
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Age is just a number.
 #14 
Old 2007-06-16, 10:01
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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Egg Too Yung?

Then...too young!
 #15 
Old 2007-06-16, 10:53
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16 in the UK is legal.

If it is different in the US then i don't care, you're paranoid about every fucking thing i wouldn't be surprised if it was 21 to have sex there.
 #16 
Old 2007-06-16, 10:57
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Tallahassee FL United States
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She's with you because she wants her friends to think she's mature.

Sorry, that's the truth.

Get someone your own age/maturity. If she is, in fact, mature as you... Then one of you is way off schedual.

...Not trying to be mean, but I see it happen all the time.

Edit:

Golden rule:

Half your age plus seven.
 #17 
Old 2007-06-16, 11:29
Malkog Malkog is offline
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Go for gold. And win. So don't just go for it. Get it.

Seriously. As long as she's pubescent. She'd wanna be at 16.

But, if she's hot, and you're hot, and she has hot friends, I don't see why you can't, you know, move around the group...

That is unless you're looking for a committed relationship, in which case also go for it.

So either way.
 #18 
Old 2007-06-16, 15:13
Refacull18 Refacull18 is offline
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K. The law is this. In a few states its different(like Nebraska cuz they are gay). 16 has consent to fuck a up to a 21 year-old. 18 has consent to MARRY(key word..not fuck but marry) a 27 year old. 18 can fuck a 60 year-old if they feel like it. 21 is free to marry and fuck and rape anyone they want. Pending legal actions.

However, where I live which is Colorado, 15.5 years is consent to bang up to 21.

The first set of rules are the federal ones. Of course state laws out-rule federal in this case, unless the case is turned federal. Very rarely is a state statutory rape case made federal.

This information comes from my friend's mom, who happens to be the ex-state prosecuting attorney and is now Denver city judge. If this information is wrong I may seriously question her 8 years in law school.
 #19 
Old 2007-06-16, 17:17
justglad2bhere justglad2bhere is offline
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Depending on where you live, that combination can get you in serious trouble, especially if her parents complain. To wit: the HS athlete from Georgia (17) who had oral sex with a 15-year old girl. Got him TEN YEARS in prison. That is not the only example I've seen. The 18-year old from Ohio who had sex with his 16-year old GF. Her parents swore out a complaint...he's now doing 12 years and is a registered sexual offender. Finding a girl over 18 solves a lot of potential problems.
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Old 2007-06-16, 19:14
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The land of milk and honey
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Jeezus christ, what the fuck were the judges thinking when they put those kids away? I mean, how could they possibly think they've done any good through those sentences, 18 and 16? 17 and 15? How can than that be illegal?

Damnit, now I really feel like a dirty old man.
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Old 2007-06-16, 21:43
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Britain, Britain, Britain
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parents consent

Confused "Oh Hi can I fuck your 16 year old daughter?"

WTF?!

Fuck parental consent, let them find out the hard way.
 #22 
Old 2007-06-17, 00:31
Hearoth Hearoth is offline
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tbh as long as she's legal in whatever coountry youre in the sure go for it, but if she's not legal then I wouldnt touch it with a standard issue 11 foot barge pole
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Old 2007-06-17, 01:56
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Too young? Me 22, she 16 . Would definately be the biggest age diff I've ever experienced.

Well?

Welcome to the totse community standards (http://www.totse.com/community/showpost.php?p=8457401&postcount=24) doctrine.

16, huh?
 #24 
Old 2007-06-17, 20:05
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Britain, Britain, Britain
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I wouldnt touch it with a standard issue 11 foot barge pole

QMFT!:D
 #25 
Old 2007-06-17, 20:41
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littleton colorado
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age of consent laws differ from state to state. so you'd have to check wikipedia.
 #26 
Old 2007-06-17, 20:49
Isobutane Isobutane is offline
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i do think it's a bit too big of a gap, mentally, physically, and in respects of your life styles. work/college independent vs school girl living with parents
 
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