If anyone remembers, me and my now ex-girl were fooling around, we didn't actually have sex, but i did stick it in her, only about 2 inches deep, and for about 5 seconds. I made sure I wasn't leaking pre-cum, as far as I knew.

She was spotting about three days before she told me she was on her period. As far as I knew, she was telling me the truth because it was something BOTH of us was worried about.

I moved cross-country about a week ago, and broke up with her because I knew I wouldn't be able to take the jealousy and paranoia (we've broken up at least 10 times before, from her going behind my back and constantly talking about other guys)

so she flipped the fuck out and messaged all my friends that she was pregnant and I was the dad, but the only messages I got was like i'm an asshole and such. She is the type of girl who tries to make you feel sorry for her, she's been doing that every single time i've broken up with her.

She keeps trying to make me feel sorry for her, saying she's sick, some guy punched her, and that shes pregnant.

I'm a little worried that she ACTUALLY is pregnant, because I'm not sure if she really did have her period, because I wasn't at her house after she said she was, I moved later that week.

So I'm pretty sure she's just making it up to make me feel sorry for her, because she'll send me e-mail like "I wanna talk" but when that fails she goes to "I'm sick" then it changes to "I'm pregnant"

She says she's going to the doctor tomorrow to get checked out, and I asked her like 5 times to just tell me that she's lying, but she claims that's how it is. And when i ask if she's lying, she gets that "noo" kind of way, like when she's lying.

I'm just a little worried that she might actually be though. When we were still together, and she told me she was on her period, she seemed sure about it, now shes saying she only said that so I wouldn't worry. Although, it was something we were BOTH waiting for when she said that.

And if she was on her period, is it possible it could of stopped?

I'm just a little worried.

Its possible but very very unlikely she caught pregnancy from you.

I'd quit worrying. If she's genuine then once she's been to the doctor she can prove it to you. No shame in asking for her to prove it in this case. Pregnancy and paternity both.

this girl has NO reasoning power. When I confront her with evidence that she's cheating on me or whatever, or when i confront her with her actions, she changes the subject and brings it back on me like it's my fault.

Asking her for anything at all is pretty much out of the question.

and it hasn't been 8 weeks yet, so she can get the pill right? if she is?

I wouldn't worry about it

She's not pregnant. I promise.

If you're concerned, and you have every right to be, ask her to have the doctor call you and inform you of the pregnancy.

If she comes back saying yes, i'll have her get the doctor to call me.

if she really DID miss her period this whole time, I'm pretty sure someone other than her would be telling me.

She just wants me to move back, but it will NEVER happen, and she doesn't get it.

It's just something I can't shake off my mind until I know for sure. It's been bugging me.

Theres always the possibility that someone else knocked her up. If she does squat one out, make sure you get a paternity test.

Don't worry man, seriously. The chance that you got her pregnant with that is very, very, very small.

Im just thinking how bad it would suck to put the tip of your dick in a girl for 5 seconds and have her end up pregnant. stupid kids.

and its not like your dick is always leaking precum. Precum releases when you're close to orgasm. So unless you really went to town with your tip for 5 seconds, I'd say your not the daddy

Just punch her really hard in the stomach. Problem solved...

she turns 18 in november, and it hasn't been 8 weeks since we did that, so she could get it taken care of, right?

It's.

Not.

Your.

Kid.

Im just thinking how bad it would suck to put the tip of your dick in a girl for 5 seconds and have her end up pregnant. stupid kids.

haha yea, you dont want the concequences without ACTUALLY doing the deed

It's.

Not.

Your.

Kid.

Read this and rest easy.

Steven, you make me smile. really. you have no idea how good it feels to know that someone else is in the same boat as i am.

See, i actually had sex with my ex. i came and all that jazz. after pulling out, there was a small hole in the condom. it was near the base, and i could tell there was no way in hell that enough sperm could get out to cause a pregnancy, but i was a little freaked out for a few mintues. On top of that, though i can't vouch for the absolute nullification of the chance, it was during her period. so, i ended up cooling down, and stopped worrying.

She didn't. She started telling me she was sick when we were on the phone, but not a soul actually observed her acting as such. She said she missed her period. the way her stress level tends to run, i wouldn't be surprised if she did.

Then she started telling people about it. I got notes during school from her friends saying shit like "OMG!! she's carrying your child!!!11!!!". Yeah. that put a smile on my face. She also allowed one of our school's male gossip queens to be privvy to this "information." if there's one person she told that fucked me the most, it was him.

I was rather sweet on this girl that he was friends with. She and i started talking, getting to be pretty good friends. all of a sudden it stops. It took me until yesterday to realize this (she gave me some other excuse) due to other events and people.

Who knows. maybe my ex is preggers. she's cried rape three times now. once in the timespan most likely for her to be pregnant now. maybe she is, but it sure as hell isn't mine. maybe if i'm lucky, she'll grow some fucking balls and instead of trying to kill herself for attention like she has so many times, she'll do it for real.

I'm sorry i ranted like that. i just saw a comrade in arms and felt the need to share my torment.