and my time is running out.

I've been interested in this guy since January, maybe, but always put off telling him. I don't want to ask him out on a date, just to be my "significant other". (And then perhaps a date.)

He's 16, I'm 15. Any advice on how to approach him/what should I say? We're not close friends or anything like that, so it's sort of a random deal. I'd normally wait for him to ask me, but he seems really shy.

Basically my problem is rejection, but if he does say no, I won't see him for 3 months.

Thanks.

you've got nothing to lose. Tell him weirdos on this internet site think you're cute too (probly due to your very illegal age) and that you can swallow a banana whole and have no gag reflex.

If you don't want him yet find a reason to swap numbers. Or do something really obvious to get his attention in class like "can I borrow your scissors? Speaking of scissors lets do that sometime..."

"can I borrow your scissors? Speaking of scissors lets do that sometime..."

... what the fuck does scissors refer to..? I love the reply btw.. man knows truth, guys only want girls with great banana skills...

... what the fuck does scissors refer to..? I love the reply btw.. man knows truth, guys only want girls with great banana skills...

1. make 2 peace signs with your hands
2. Take 1 peace sign and put it in the V of the other one.
3. Thrust accordingly

lol christ. Seriously, Just tell the guy you like him. If girls told us guys that they liked us, life would be easier. Just ask him on a date or something.

ill be nice for once. in my own way thought

Well there are better ways to answer this. But a short answer, that really helped me is:

Realize that nothing you do is significant. Realize that you are just one out of 6 billion people on the earth. Realize that each one of these people care a million times more about what they are doing then what you are doing. Realize that if you fail at something, countless others have failed at the same thing. Realize that anything you can do can and will be forgotten when the next big thing happens. Realize that whatever you fear, there are fears out there that make yours look like a child's toy. Realize that whatever feelings that come over you when you face this fear is nothing but a simple physiological reponse brought on by emotional triggers in your brain.

So who the fuck cares but you? Do whatever the fuck you are going to do.

Alright are you goodlooking? Because Im sorry to say it but guys are usually shallow like that so if you are goodlooking then he probably will give you a chance if you ask him out. A lot of guys won't reject a hot girl.

I know man!!
Girls always think theyre gonna give these little 'hints'

Were guys ffs! Were clueless!

I definitely appreciate this, in a sense that maybe I shouldn't even bother, but if I do decide to "approach" him, it's not like it's gonna be a big deal.


Thaaanks

If he's shy you'll have to lay some foundations before you try and build anything. Just ask him and he might freak out and say no even if he does like you.

Just start slow and work up, if you get a positive response past the "trying to occupy the same piece of ground as him" stage then you're in. At that point ask him if he likes you as much as you like him and there's only two ways it can go.

Or you could take the less subtle approach of get him drunk and rape him.

Good luck!

Very true. You'll have to lay them down quick, though. Then, even if you run out of time, you could flash the "I really like you, and we should keep in contact" card. THEN you work your way into Significant Othership throughout the summer.

thats bad advice right there

im shy myself, and i know that if the girl i was interested in made the first move i would say a loud YES.

thats bad advice right there

im shy myself, and i know that if the girl i was interested in made the first move i would say a loud YES.

That was just from my own personal experience. I used to be painfully shy and have really low self esteem and I rejected a really wonderful, beautiful (both inside and out) girl because she came on a bit fast and I didn't think that anyone that wonderful could possibly take an interest in me.

That was just from my own personal experience. I used to be painfully shy and have really low self esteem and I rejected a really wonderful, beautiful (both inside and out) girl because she came on a bit fast and I didn't think that anyone that wonderful could possibly take an interest in me.

well maybe she was going to make fun of it afterall. girls at my class do that to the antisocial guys all the time, one of them got so humiliated he changed schools.

no offense to the OP, but i dont think there are hot snobby popular girls on totse so i dont know why she shouldnt just go up to the guy.

That was just from my own personal experience. I used to be painfully shy and have really low self esteem and I rejected a really wonderful, beautiful (both inside and out) girl because she came on a bit fast and I didn't think that anyone that wonderful could possibly take an interest in me.

I feel like he might take it as a joke if I just throw myself out there, because most guys are like "are you kidding?! I don't wanna say yeah to you because I don't want to make an ass of myself." I don't know why, I just have that impression. But like I said, I don't have that much time, we're already aquainted. I'm also very shy myself at first, so it makes it that much harder. I don't really like the idea of asking a guy out, but I gotta do what I gotta do, right?

well maybe she was going to make fun of it afterall. girls at my class do that to the antisocial guys all the time, one of them got so humiliated he changed schools.

no offense to the OP, but i dont think there are hot snobby popular girls on totse so i dont know why she shouldnt just go up to the guy.

I know what you mean, and I feel like beating the shit out of those girls all the time. (However, I have far more composure than that.) I'm no where near like that, it's degrading to both people. This particular guy isn't snobby either, it's really just a matter of me being shy/nervous.

I feel like he might take it as a joke if I just throw myself out there, because most guys are like "are you kidding?! I don't wanna say yeah to you because I don't want to make an ass of myself." I don't know why, I just have that impression. But like I said, I don't have that much time, we're already aquainted. I'm also very shy myself at first, so it makes it that much harder. I don't really like the idea of asking a guy out, but I gotta do what I gotta do, right?

Cmon already, its simple. The next time you see him you flirt with him. If he flirts back, he is open for a relation.

Then its ok to make a move. Just ask if he wants to go out with you and in the end make it really easy for him to kiss you, or what the fuck ever. Or just start talking to him and make him realize you want it.

And if he says no, who the fuck cares? its not like the world is going to fall apart. his loss, really

well maybe she was going to make fun of it afterall. girls at my class do that to the antisocial guys all the time, one of them got so humiliated he changed schools.

.

That's sort of what I thought at the time. It's only now 5 years on that I fully realise she really did like me a lot and I fucked up badly.

I really should have caught on and put the signs and her saying that she liked me, etc together but I didn't and I regret it.

Fuck. Now I'm getting depressed :(

tell him!

go up to him n say "Hi. Do you want to do X/ go to Y with me? I like you"

the end. simple as. its all about gettin over fear of rejection, which most probably won't happen anyway ;)

You know these questions get asked all the time, and the replies are always the same. "Just tell her, Just talk to her." But of course if it was that easy nobody would ask that question in the first place.

I for one am familiar with unrequited high school love, and simply being told to do something doesn't give you the courage to do it.

So what is my advice? Well if you're hot, even if you're just mildly attractive, you only need to do three things to get the guy:


Get him to notice you. (http://www.titsintops.com/pics/gallery36_03.jpg)
Give him the position to talk to you. (http://www.fotosearch.com/comp/IGS/IGS570/IS920-019.jpg)
And give him something to talk to you about. (http://www.wowwear.net/)

Rape/Murder/Sell Organs

Profit and buttsecks

wow dude... I've thought something similar for about a year now, never had a way of expressing it. It just sounds depressing when i try to explain it.

+rep.

edit: or at least I WOULD +rep you, but for some reason i can't see your set of scales.