Me and my girlfriend were having problems/arguing and I basically didn't talk to her for 3-4 days. Well during this time I guess she went and drove(1 and 1/2 hours to see some dude at another college to watch a basketball game. Well she didn't inform me of this and I only found out when he called her phone at 1 am in the morning when we were sleeping. I thought it was odd and called her out. She said she drove there with a friend, then I started calling her friend and she said she went by herself(UGH!). Well she said they hung out in his room alone for an hr but just played video games after the basketball game. Now her story is they were in there for 15 minutes. I also threatened this dude and he called the cops on me. She told he cops I did threaten him..

WHAT THE FUCK?

Even if they didn't have sex, she went and saw some guy behind your back.

Time to start looking for a new girlfriend, bro.

I can tell she is going to dump you by seeing the clues and for having seen quit a few dumps in my time.

Hurry, dump her before she dumps you!

I had a girl do something similar to this.

If she rushed off that fast to hang out with him... I mean, over an hour drive after not talking for just a few days... Means she has some intrest in him. With my situation, she actally did end up fucking him, if not then, but a little while later. My advice would be to break up with her. Do it now, while you still have some hate towards her, it'll help with getting over her.

Make sure she knows why. After all is said and done, she might just be trying to make you jelous.

...Kick the other guys ass, anyway.

I asked her why did it and she siad she just felt like she had to(compelled one one say). She admitted she thought he was attractive. She stills swears nothing happend.. I threatened to fuck him up and he turned it into the cops. She wrote an affadavit to the cops about it thay I threatened him..(to protect her friend)


My thought is she did it because they did something and she didnt want him to get fuked up? If she didn't do anything why would she narc me out to protect him?

Dude - you fail at relationships. Why would you tell her you are going to "fuck him up" if she said nothing happened? Now you can't do anything because you know he'll go to the cops.

Just dump her, and forget about the whole thing.

God you're an idiot.

You threatened the dude why?

Dump and move on. Or cheat on her (and make sure she knows) and then dump.