I've been going out with my girlfriend for over three months, and we haven't done anything. The most we've done is made out; we haven't really even felt each other up or anything.

She started getting talking about it after we kissed the other day, and told me I could do whatever I wanted, and said she'd like anything(she repeated this, and only this, after I asked her what it meant a few times)...

Basically, what should I be doing, to the point where I won't make her uncomfortable or something like that?

More details if needed...

concentric circles, that one trick has turned many a "possible" into tally marks.

What's "concentric circles"? I'm guessing you're speaking outside of geometric terms...

picture this:

You and said girl are watching a movie, cuddling on couch with her in front of you. Your arm is draped around her with your hand resting on her stomach. Put your finger slightly below her belly button, a few inches above the top of her pants. Just start rubbing back an forth with a single finger. Very slowly. After a few minutes of that, start the circle pattern. Just slowly start rubbing in circles, slowly making the circle larger and larger.

You want normal pressure as your finger is moving up (away from the pussy) and slightly more pressure as the finger moves back down (towards the pussy). Just keep making the circles larger and larger untill your finger finally touches the top of the pants. Now stop the circles, and start all over right above her pant line. When you start going below the pant line is when you want to take it slowest (with more pressure on the down stroke). ANd just keep going until you cant comfortably fit your finger down any more. Then kiss, and unbutton her pants.



Key Points:

1.)Keep talking to her, but never aknowledge what your doing.
2.)Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast. This whole thing can take course over the length of the entire movie. Or be as fast as 10 minutes or less. The more comfortable you both are, the faster you can go.
3.)Once the kiss is made, and the pants are being unbuttoned, dont say a word. And please her. The first time should be all about her pleasure. That will guarantee she comes back for seconds.
4.)Go with the flow. If you need to back up a step or two. Back up.
5.)The only bad response, is a bad response. No response = good response.If your finger tips breach the pant line, and she doesnt respond, your golden. Alot of chicks will act like they dont even know what your doing. But trust me, they know when you have a finger in their pants. Be it just below the pant line, or all out rubbing their clit.


Ive used this trick again and again. One time I was lying in a bed with girls on both sides of me. I did it for about 10 minutes to the girl on the left, untill she got into and started rubbing my stomach. I decided i wanted the other one more, and rolled over and did it to her, which ended with me fucking the one and the right and the one on the left watched and played with herself.


edit- this can be modified for any body part. The girl on the left i was talking about above, I did it to her arm. The girl on the right i started on her shoulder blades. And with my current girl, we started out with me doing the circles on the small of her back.

Its all about getting her comfortable with you touching her. Assuring her your not going to hurt her (by going slow, backing up if needed). Showing her you know what you want, but you not just in it to get your rocks off, you want to please her too.

Holy fuck you're dumb. I know that isn't very helpful but it may be a disease you have or something. Your girl says you can do anything to her and repeats the word ANYTHING and you're like huh? If a girl says you can do anything do fucking EVERYTHING. Stick a Mr. Big bar up her ass and break off a piece if you want. Just do the damn thing.

Seriously.. you've got yourself a catch.
Anything could mean more than just regular sex. She probably wants to be tied down and fucked mercilessly. So quit all that aimless stuff, or she'll lose interest.
Having said that, "anything" is open to wide interpretation.

See, that's the problem. I want to, but I don't want to piss her off because I really like her. The last girlfriend I had only wanted to fuck 24/7, and before that it's only been a few chicks here and there, so I want to be careful.

Thanks, whiteass, we were going to watch a movie tonight, actually.

Don't know if the Last King of Scotland fits in there as a good movie, but whatever.

Hmmm, whiteass gave good advice but not for this situation. Your girl clearly and openly wants you to at the very least touch her.

Next time you make out run your hand up her stomach and grab her breasts. Do it confidently and not like a pussy. Judging by her reaction this could be the extent of the make out session or it could lead to more very quickly.

EDIT: In any case she wants more and your giving her more, you shouldn't be worried that you'll upset her.

That seems more plausible, Suicide Mouse, thanks.

Not a problem. Just remember, if you seem uncomfortable doing something to her, you'll make her uncomfortable about what your doing to her.

Confidence is key.

I'll try to play it cool. She'll be here in a few hours...

I figure I'll lean in, start to make out a bit, and go for a feel. See where it leads...

I just figured if she wants me to do something, then she probably won't be offended if I do do something.

Don't know if the Last King of Scotland fits in there as a good movie, but whatever.

i was SO sure u were using sexual inuendo...but then u mentioned "movie"

i was SO sure u were using sexual inuendo...but then u mentioned "movie"

Nice.

Yeah, never act like something is awkward or pause and say it's awkward.. then it will REALLY be awkward. I've been learning this lately.

Yeah, never act like something is awkward or pause and say it's awkward.. then it will REALLY be awkward. I've been learning this lately.

yes... i figured that out.... about a week and a half ago...

then to make up for the excessive akwardness, i just started making out with her...

thought at the time was either "This will end in complete failure, or complete success."

well... it wasn't either. it was mild success. handjob in the same room as her parents that night. and a phone number scrawled on my hand.

Yeah suicide mouse and whiteass have the basic idea.

You touch and ease in with suptle physical movements but you never aknowledge any of it. Just keep talking like it's not going on. and when you go in for a kiss you really just go in about 95% of the way and let her finish the rest of it.

Always works for me anyhow.

Well, I started to kiss her, and we started to make out. I started feeling her up, and she got on top of me...

That's about it. But, she said she wished we had more time, and other things like that...

Progress!

And two more cherries get popped. Must be the season...

And two more cherries get popped. Must be the season...

Sorry, I just like this girl for more than a fuck. Don't mean to seem like a prude asshole or something.