I've been with this guy for a year now. I love him dearly, and I'm not going to let sex get in the way of our relationship. It's just... I like sex all the time and he doesn't. Are there any tricks to bring my sex drive to a low rumble, or maybe to speed his up a bit?

This sucks i am in the same position but i am the guy. Fuck reducing sex drive...

Tell him to man up and have sex with you.

Outsource.

And also, maybe you're just not aesthetically pleasing to him. Post pics so we can better evaluate the situation.

*sigh*

Has it ever occured to you that he may be gay?

YES, that is a possibility.

Look for foods that act as aphrodisiacs or something.

Spike his drink with viagra is another idea.

Tell him to do exercise, when you start working out, your testosterone levels rise a bit, makes me in the mood all the time.

Useless w/o pics....

Anyway, like the other dude said, fuck slowing it down. Either speed his up a bit or outsource. J/k about the outsourcing part, but... maybe try different things to get him to enjoy it more? Lingerie, roleplaying, or good ol' nasty porn?

I'm in the same sit, but I'm the guy, like the other poster said. My wife doesn 't have my sex drive at all. I could do it every day, but she's happy with once a week. *sigh*

At least I have my porn for the off days....

I have a really high sex drive too.. Long distance relationships are horrible for that, because I want sex multiple times a day. I don't think I have to worry about him not wanting sex though. :p

Try to figure out some things that really turn him on, it could make a huge difference.

Actually, are you trying to initiate sex? Or just kind of waiting?

In long distance relationships, you have to worry about just the opposite. Him -wanting- sex. If his libido is that healthy, how many times a week do you think he gets it?

lose some weight?

If he smokes weed\drinks all the time then that could be the cause.

That sucks. It's somewhat the opposite for me. I enjoy sex, but I can live for a long time without it. I'm also in a long distant relationship where I see my boyfriend once a month. I can wait between those times, but I know he has a high sex drive...and he can hardly stand it. But he does. I guess that proves something.

That sucks. It's somewhat the opposite for me. I enjoy sex, but I can live for a long time without it. I'm also in a long distant relationship where I see my boyfriend once a month. I can wait between those times, but I know he has a high sex drive...and he can hardly stand it. But he does.

Yeah - sure he does....

I guess that proves something.

It proves you are young and naive - and a little too trusting......


lol - I kid. If it works for you two, then thats all that matters.

Yeah - sure he does....



It proves you are young and naive - and a little too trusting......


lol - I kid. If it works for you two, then thats all that matters.
It works for us. Maybe it wouldn't for those unable to handle commitment and distance. I don't any reasons not to trust him.

Spike his drink with viagra is another idea.

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i did this to my maths teacher when i was back in school....just to make fun of him.....he got stiff and came to me with "it" up staight and belted the shit out of me

this is no ordinary man...is he christian?

Get some plastic surgery and he'll probly fuck you again.