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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-06-11, 19:40 |
Smokeyb 
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 I think im in love
this may be a first... for real love and it makes me kind of sad becouse im not sure if she feels the same way, I am not ready to put everything out there yet and say so but i friggen love this woman... i mean i dont even know where to go from here...
so totse im in love and im lost what should i do... or what do i HAVE to do... what do i need to do to hang on to this one
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2007-06-11, 19:43 |
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dodging the rain and tractors
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Re: I think im in love
marry her?
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#3
2007-06-11, 20:20 |
Lobo
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Re: I think im in love
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Originally Posted by Smokeyb
this may be a first... for real love and it makes me kind of sad becouse im not sure if she feels the same way, I am not ready to put everything out there yet and say so but i friggen love this woman... i mean i dont even know where to go from here...
so totse im in love and im lost what should i do... or what do i HAVE to do... what do i need to do to hang on to this one
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Could you perhaps eloborate more on the situation , because from what you just described it just seems your coming off a tad stalker'ish..
How you know her , How did you meet her , If she's even single...etc,etc. |
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#4
2007-06-11, 21:08 |
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Re: I think im in love
Could you perhaps eloborate more on the situation , because from what you just described it just seems your coming off a tad stalker'ish..
How you know her , How did you meet her , If she's even single...etc,etc.
ditto
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2007-06-11, 21:21 |
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Re: I think im in love
Theres no such thing as balance in a relationship.
One person always cares more.
If you're in love, chances are she isnt.
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#6
2007-06-11, 21:40 |
Sado
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Re: I think im in love
I'm in love, but I broke up with the guy becuase it wasn't working out. Sometimes love inst enough to keep a relationship going.
But the first time he told me he loved me was amazing. And we got to kiss in the rain. I'm young and it probably wasn't even love but I miss it all.
Anyway, I was dying to tell him one night, i was actually pacing up and down my room stopping myself from picking the phone up and phoning him.
Your in a difficult situation there, it could go 2 ways:
- you tell her and she feels the same way. Hooray your both in love and happy (welcome to the honey moon period)
- you tell her and she gets scared and runs off...or something along the lines of getting scared.
Best thing to do in my opinion is wait a while, drop hints like telling her you think your falling in love with her or something. It should make her heart melt and she'll be putty in your hands! :)
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#7
2007-06-11, 21:41 |
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Re: I think im in love
More times then many I have come to realize , you arent really in love with the person your just in love with the idea of being in love. My ex girlfreind was a total sociopathic bitch , but god forbid you ever told me that because I was too blinded by the illusion I so desperately wanted to believe.
Im not trying to come off as cynical here , but its the truth. Also desperation or the need to be with someone is a really unattractive charateristic if your trying to woo the opposite sex.
Also, you cant make someone be attracted to you. They either are or arent. Putting up a facade of someone you think they might be attracted too isnt your original personality. And lets say there's the slight chance you manage to put the veil over her eyes and get with her, your true nature is going to come out. Driving her away and ulmitately leave you with a bigger pain then you anticipated from the start of the relationship.
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2007-06-13, 17:14 |
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Re: I think im in love
I was in love once...Still have the herpes to prove it.
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#9
2007-06-13, 17:24 |
wAste
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Re: I think im in love
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Originally Posted by Lobo
More times then many I have come to realize , you arent really in love with the person your just in love with the idea of being in love. My ex girlfreind was a total sociopathic bitch , but god forbid you ever told me that because I was too blinded by the illusion I so desperately wanted to believe.
Im not trying to come off as cynical here , but its the truth. Also desperation or the need to be with someone is a really unattractive charateristic if your trying to woo the opposite sex.
Also, you cant make someone be attracted to you. They either are or arent. Putting up a facade of someone you think they might be attracted too isnt your original personality. And lets say there's the slight chance you manage to put the veil over her eyes and get with her, your true nature is going to come out. Driving her away and ulmitately leave you with a bigger pain then you anticipated from the start of the relationship.
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