Hey everyone, ive been reading here for a year or so but this is my first post.

Anyway, my problem is that I can get pretty good looking girls and everything to go as far as make out with me but I dont know how to get farther with them(I.e. Head, fingering, Sex). Im not ugly or fat or anything. I just dont know what to do to get farther with girls. Im not too good at turnin them on either. Example: I was at the movies with a girl the other day, we ended up holding hands and she moved our hands up on top of her skirt. After holding hands for a bit, I was gonna try to turn her on(I did some research about how to do it) I tried rubbing her leg softly and everything but idk if it worked. We ended up making out but thats all. What should I do to get farther with a girl? Aside from Rape/murder/suicide.:)

Thanks.

alcohol. That and aphrodisiacs.

Touch her pussy. Run your hand up her leg, and touch her. You're not aiming to get your finger into her, just lightly rub her. If she likes it, you pay more attention to that area, the top half of her pussy making sure to include her clit, still keeping it light but a steady motion. If you can pull this off properly, you should be able to tell by body language or breathing, that you're doing a good job. If so, get a little harder (but just a little) and aim concentration on/slightly above her clit, but a more flowing, rhythmic motion aiming on that specific area. You need to be able to tell from her if she's enjoying it or not, or it's either a hard or pointless job.

Thanks man that helps, +rep. But like, what do you do if your trying to get her to touch your penis?:D

Hopefully, she should just "know" and do it, automatically. Otherwise, I dunno. You could always be like, corny or something.

Hopefully, she should just "know" and do it, automatically. Otherwise, I dunno. You could always be like, corny or something.

yeah thats what I was thinking, but I dont wanna like pull it out and force her to do it. Idk maybe being up front is the best thing like if she lets me get my hand up her skirt is that a sign I might have a shot at it?

yeah thats what I was thinking, but I dont wanna like pull it out and force her to do it. Idk maybe being up front is the best thing like if she lets me get my hand up her skirt is that a sign I might have a shot at it?

Yeah, definitely. Think about it. She would probably stop you if she didn't like it.

Yeah but what if she doesnt like it? I mean, she lets me rub her leg but if I get too far down she moves my hand back. So obviously im not doing it right.

Well, then, you could always try something else, or just give up entirely, and try again when she's more ready, or you have a better understanding of what you're doing. Hopefully, however, she won't have to pull your hand back or anything, considering it's rather simple. It only gets slightly more complicated as you progress further.

Well the first time I was with her at the movies, I was rubbing up there, then we started making out and I was rubbing thru her panties. But the second time(the one I posted about) Idk whats different but I think I was going too fast. What kind of motions and such? Like fingertips or full hand rub?

Stay out of the skirt for a start. That is, if she is wearing a skirt. I prefer pants, personally. If you are watching a movie or whatever, and holding hands or have an arm around her or whatever, keep it at that for a bit.
Unoccupied hand just on her knee or whatever, just resting, and as time goes on just rub slightly, like caressing. Eventually, slowly move your hand up her leg. This should start to turn her on, especially when you reach inner thigh.
If you take enough time, once your hand is right up in between her legs, still caressing while outside her pants, just add a bit of pressure in the general area of her vagina. Keep it at that for a while, until you two are making out, if you aren't already. Once you are making out, she will be so turned on that you can take your time fumbling with her belt, buttons, whatever, then you can pretty much explore down there freely.

Oh, for one thing, you definitely don't want to go to fast. Just take it slow, and relaxed. You shouldn't be in a rush.

For the motions, well, it doesn't matter too much. If you have long fingernails, though, you should definitely stay away from the fingertips then.

Thanks for the help, the first time when I ended up rubbing her pussy. I started at the top of her thigh like an hour into the movie and at the end(Spiderman 3) was rubbing her pussy. So I think im just gonna take it slowly next time. How can you tell if she wants to make out? I cant read chicks all that well either. The last time we made out I was in the middle of a setence and our faces were like an inch apart and I just kissed her and we started making out lol.

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Well, how do you ask for head. Are you up front about it like "Suck it." or playful like "you should give me head!:D"?

alcohol. That and aphrodisiacs.

Yeah, that works. But don't you just hate it when they girl gets completely trashed and the plan backfires. Happened to me more than once. Dam drunkies!

To get her to kiss you just as you both are talking stare from her eyes to her lips, back and forth. And smile. Then, well... your stupid if you don't know what to do from there. Kind of inch toward her face and if she wants to then she will be smiling too.

your a pussy.

For real though.

your a pussy.

For real though.

What have you done with your life Don Juan?

Seriously mate, just trust your instincts.

Get in the right fuckin environment to start, i.e. one of your bedrooms. Once you're making out, the rest should really fall into place. Just up everything a notch now and then and if she ever seems uncomfortable, just dull it down again until it's not a problem. Soon enough your/her hands will go so far that you're better off undressed ;)

Nothing here's gonna help you too much, there's no foolproof formula, just what feels natural and right.

You're pretty much there, you just need confidence, faith and patience.

Find a comfortable place with privacy and intimacy and it'll all come together.

Alcahol and cocaine.

Bitches like it when you squeeze them randomly.

They also like to be beaten, bruised, and boned while u throw them down the stairs.